Although the Spring Festival customs are different in each place, most places have this tradition of giving red envelopes to relatives and friends at home! Although there is no clear agreement on how much and how big to send red envelopes, it seems that there is basically an invisible latitude in every family. In the past few years, I basically had a very close 500 yuan here, and the average 200 yuan, but in recent years, the tide has obviously risen! For example, this year, I give 600 yuan to each of my two nephews, and 200 yuan to each of my other nephews and nieces or aunts' grandchildren. During the entire Spring Festival holiday, not counting anything else, I spent 5,000 yuan on red envelopes. Since the youngest child in my family, the elderly in the family also give me children, especially the children's grandparents and grandparents, who give the children 1000 red envelopes! In the end, the red envelopes my child received were basically the same as those I sent out.
1. Do you have to give red envelopes?
Each place has different customs, we have always had a tradition of giving red envelopes here, I remember that since I was a child, my relatives and elders in my family have given red envelopes. The size of the red envelope is different, and generally speaking, the closer the relationship, the more it will be given. People who work and are not married do not need to give red envelopes, but even if you have no children after marriage, you also need to give red envelopes to others. For example, a few years ago, I didn't have children in the first two years of marriage, and I had to give red envelopes to my children, but I basically couldn't receive red envelopes. In the first year of marriage, I went to visit relatives, and my aunt and aunt also gave me money, but it was basically about 100 200 yuan.
Second, has giving red envelopes become a kind of pressure?
My colleague has just been working for more than a year, and their custom there is that as long as you don't study and work to earn money, you need to give red envelopes to your children! For him, he needs to send thousands of red envelopes every year, but he basically can't get the money back, and often the performance appraisal award of the month before the year is not enough for him to send red envelopes! In his opinion, it is not only a red envelope, but also a greater pressure is that when he goes home, everyone will ask him if he is looking for a partner? How much is the salary, etc. So sometimes he doesn't want to go home, just because he's afraid that people will ask him!
How many red envelopes did you give out during the Spring Festival, and is the year-end bonus enough to give out red envelopes?