This is my own experience, let me tell you about it!
In that era of large collective labor to earn centimeters, my grandmother took my mother and aunt to marry my current grandfather, who was still young at that time, and my grandfather was very good to their sisters.
Later, my aunt and mother got married, and my grandparents had an aunt, so my aunt and I were only a few years apart.
But my grandmother passed away when I was in the second grade, and my grandfather was more partial to my aunt. In 2016, I took my mother and her sisters to court, wanting to leave the old house with my aunt.
The house was built at the expense of the two sisters, so I didn't talk about it, and the sisters didn't have much contact with each other, because my family and my grandfather's house were together, and I could see it when I went out, so I would meet every day, and after the problem of the house was solved, my grandfather rarely came to my house.
One day in 2017, I don't remember very clearly, it was raining lightly, it was just dark, my dad saw my grandfather standing at the door, and he didn't enter my house, my dad thought it was weird, so he called grandpa, but my grandfather turned around and left!
My dad chased him out, and there was no shadow! My dad was wondering how to walk so fast, and he disappeared in a blink of an eye, so he asked my mom how many days I hadn't seen my grandfather, and my mom said that I saw the sun at the door yesterday, and my dad said yes and went to sleep.
As soon as the morning dawned, my father was not at ease, so I went to knock on my grandfather's door, no one opened the door, the knocking sound was getting louder and louder, or no one, my father thought that nothing would happen if it was broken, so he called ** to my aunt, the key to the house was only my aunt, and when my brother-in-law came, my father had climbed the wall, but he didn't dare to go down, because he saw my grandfather's crutches at the door of his room, and the crutches that never left his hand were placed at the door, but the person was gone, of course he was afraid. He didn't dare to go down alone to check what was going on, so he had to wait for his brother-in-law to arrive and open the door with the key.
The two of them emboldened themselves and walked towards the door, and through the window they saw my grandfather lying on the bed. The younger brother-in-law and father, at this time they knew that something was wrong, and no one dared to go in, because the grandfather had a dress on his face, and he couldn't see his face at all.
It was still my father who was bold, lifted his clothes, and after confirming that something had happened, he contacted his aunt and aunt. When my aunt and I were sorting out my grandfather's belongings, we found that my grandfather seemed to know that he would be like this, so he prepared all the things early, grandpa's ID card, passbook, real estate certificate, all these things were put in a bag, and they were placed on the bed where he slept.
After taking care of my grandfather's funeral, the three sisters thought about cleaning up these things at home, keeping what they could want, and throwing away everything they couldn't use. I also cleaned up with them. But that's when something weird happened.
According to the custom of our hometown, the oil lamp is burned for seven days before the throne, and when we are packing up, the oil lamp suddenly goes out. Mom lit the oil lamp and then went back to tidying up.
It didn't take long for it to go out again, and it went back and forth several times, when my aunt was afraid to go out alone and stand in the yard, saying that she didn't dare to go in! I was also a little scared, thinking that my mother and aunt were there, I felt a little relieved, but it turned out again!
It's the kind that doesn't burn, and when my mother was in a hurry, she said that my grandfather didn't want us to clean up his things, so forget it, and I'm talking about it later, my aunt will light it like a lamp, who knows that my aunt is angry at this time, and scolded directly!
Say, I won't let you lose it if you're alive, but now it's like this, these things are in tatters and messes, can you take them away or use them? You're still scaring us and scaring us out of the way!
You're happy, aren't you? I'm going to pack up my stuff and don't throw it all away! It doesn't matter if you want it or not. As a result, it ignited as soon as he finished scolding! I've been watching it for a long time, and the light hasn't gone out, and I think it's incredible!
What's even more incredible is that the husband who was buried told me that my grandfather had been dead for at least three days, so what happened to my grandfather that my father and mother saw, and Mr. said that it was the bardo body that reported the news, which means that my grandfather had already had an accident at that time.
When he died, there was no one around, and the last ** was called to his aunt, he really couldn't see his aunt himself, so he put down his crutches and lay on the bed by himself, afraid that the person who found him was afraid, and deliberately covered his face with clothes, he was quietly waiting for death by himself, and it had been a few months since I knew these things!
At that time, it was very sad and painful, and my grandfather must have been very painful when he faced death alone, and he didn't see the last side of his aunt who was most concerned about.
My grandfather was very stubborn, he didn't live with anyone, he didn't tell us when he was sick, and he left all the money he saved to his aunt. Later, I found out why he was so stubborn, the court ruled that all the property of my grandfather should be left to my aunt, and my aunt should bear the birth, old age, sickness and death by my aunt alone.