Manly husband, standing up to the sky, our value is not determined by wealth and fame, the key lies in our sense of responsibility and mental maturity. However, the performance of some brothers in social situations is really shaking heads. Today, let's count the five price drops that brothers have to avoid in social situations.
Type 1: Crazy demons, narcissism is too much.
In this day and age, it's not strange to pay attention to appearance, but ** addiction, that is, narcissism is too much. Psychologists say that excessive ** is caused by vanity, and behind it is a lack of security. This kind of behavior not only makes you cheaper, but also disgusting.
For example, Xiao Zhang, the "** expert", didn't care about it at the party, and began to pout and pout at a 45-degree angle as soon as he took out his mobile phone, thinking that he was very handsome. But this kind of behavior makes colleagues unable to hide. After all, your appearance can't be eaten, and you always stare at your appearance, who still cares about your intrinsic value?
The second type: bragging without drafting, and swearing when you open your mouth.
Bragging, many brothers have this problem. Anyone who catches them brags about how good they are, and sometimes they have dirty words. This kind of person actually has low self-esteem in his heart and wants to cover up his shortcomings by bragging.
This kind of behavior not only damages your image, but also makes people's trust in you greatly reduced. If you want to earn respect, you have to be honest and tell the truth. The ancients said well: "Words must be believed, and deeds must be fruitful." ”
The third type: forgetting righteousness and clinging to the powerful.
Some brothers love to tie up with the powerful and forget their righteousness when they see profit. This kind of person has a wrong understanding of success. Entrepreneur Jack Ma once said: "Success is not about how many people you know, but how many people are willing to help you." ”
In order to name fame and fortune, he left his old friends behind, and finally found himself alone. Only by keeping the original intention can we win respect and trust.
Fourth: the circle of friends is bursting with negative energy, like a "black hole body".
In life, some brothers' circle of friends have so much negative energy that they are like black holes. This kind of behavior not only makes me negative, but also drags down the people around me. Psychologists have found that negative energy can be contagious, and people who have been exposed to it for a long time are prone to depression.
If you want to change, you have to look at things from a positive perspective. Helen Keller said it well: "Make every day your last and cherish every moment." "Face life with a positive mindset and you will find that the world is beautiful.
Fifth: addicted to the Internet, life is wasted.
In the information age, addiction to the Internet has become a common problem for many brothers. Spend all day soaking in online games and socializing**, neglecting family, friends and career. This kind of behavior makes people insensitive.
If you want to get rid of it, you have to be soberly aware that online scenery cannot be exchanged for real happiness. Thoreau said, "I choose to be lonely because I love the world." ”
In short, these price drops not only make our value the best, but also affect interpersonal relationships. If you want to establish a positive image, you have to get rid of these problems, don't be narcissistic, don't brag, don't climb the trend, don't indulge in the Internet, and bring positive energy to the society.
Remember, life doesn't take its toll on those who care about it. From now on, improve your inner self-cultivation, establish a correct social image, and earn respect and trust. Bai Juyi said well: "Don't be proud of wealth, you should be proud of morality." ”