Emotional relationships,relationshipAs long as it's tied together, that's your guan. As soon as you connect with anyone, it becomes your gateway.
in our livesAll the levels to be passed, weMust have been there in person, because there is no one to replace the matter of ascension and tribulation, and someone can help you sweep the obstacles together. ButYou have to pass itbecause it's yoursFate and calamity, which is the two sides of the existence of things.
Some people suffer in relationships, some people get lost in relationships, some people are nourished in relationships, some people find value in relationships, and some people live out themselves in relationships. Therefore, one of the truths of life that we want to see is that everything that happens in this world is related to us, and everything that happens in this world is also related to usIt's hard to pass the pass
Our emotions, our inner emotions, that we haven't troughed out clearly? For example, if you are very sad at the moment, what kind of emotional feeling is it? What kind of emotional feeling do you feel when you are sad at the moment? You are in pain at the moment, what kind of emotional feeling is it?
You will find that all the emotions that you define as negative, we have not thought about what kind of emotional feelings they are. Sadness is actually a kind of descriptionBad feelingsMy heart hurts, why does my heart hurt? It's because I love too much, you do it too much, so you get hurt.
If we don't goGive sincerely, we are notLove deeply, that part of our livesPure energy, pure energyThere's no way to live out. So as long as we have given sincerely, as long as we have loved with all our hearts, we will be hurt, which is a very normal phenomenon. For example, if I'm sad, sadness describes a kind ofphenomenonIt's because I'm stuck in myself, and I define it as difficult, so it can't get through, and it's sad because we planted a heart anchor for ourselves to call it difficult.
in this worldNothing is difficultAs long as we see the difficult side of everything, we will not be able to pass this hurdle, and as long as we define it as difficult, we will not be able to pass this hurdle. Why? Because when you find it difficult, you often want to change reality. The reality is usInner projection, also saidEffect is the presentation of causeIf we don't have a way to understand the cause of things, if we don't have a way to find the root cause of things, we will be disturbed in our phenomena.
After all, it is the individual consciousness of each of us that separates us from everything and limits our lives. Besides, pain is pain, pain is pain, pain is suffering, pain is not the same thing. It hurts because we have a close relationship with this thing, with this person, so we care about him very much, and his words and deeds, every move will affect our hearts, so we will hurt.
And what is suffering? Suffering is that we have entered into a mode of suffering, and this suffering is our own choiceExperience。For example, the ascetic, for example, this person is living a miserable life, and so on. All those who feel that others are suffering are the most miserable, why can you see that others are suffering? It's because you think it's suffering, so you're more bitter than him.
One of the things that education is going to eventually return to is to get everybody'sSelf-awareness awareness。When the self-consciousness begins to awaken, we will come out of the obsession, and only then will we be able to truly appreciate what it is like to be selfless, and we will realize how an invisible energy drives the tangible.