Recently, husband and wife variety shows have been very popular, and I found that some of the previous variety shows of Wu Jing and Xie Nan have also been turned out,In my opinion, the way these two get along is simply a living dating opposite teaching. One of them was that the pair went to the restaurant to eat, Xie Nan kept taking the initiative to talk, and Wu Jing only cared about eating by himself or talking about something else, so that Xie Nan could only say helplessly, "Can't we sit down and talk for a while?" ”
To be honest, the reason why this section can get out of the circle is that I feel a little realistic, and many couples I have observed are also like this. The girl who came out on a date was always looking for a topic, and the boy lowered his head and played that kind of online game, and clicked on his mobile phone while eating, and the girl didn't listen to what he said. Every time I see this kind of couple, I will quietly complain to my husband, what are you dating like this? In the shoes of a neglected partner, I might just get up and leave. happened to coincide with the Korean love affair in the past two days, and I have to say that the contrast is really tragic. Let's not talk about whether it's the effect of the show or what dating culture people haveJust to say that their attitude towards dating is serious, and there are various tips to improve the dating experience, it is really worth learning from us. The following are the 10 rules of the treaty that I learned from watching Korean Lianzong for your reference:
1.Plan appointments in advance. Whether it's a boy or a girl, make a plan in advance and ask for the other person's opinion. Try to choose the activities that the other party likes as much as possible, remember to make an appointment in advance for the items that need to be reserved, and plan the approximate time and movement of the day's itinerary. Remember to choose a place with a dating atmosphere for meals and cafes, and if you can prepare a small gift for each other, it will be a big plus if it is not too expensive. 2.Discuss the color of your outfit before the date. Regardless of whether two people are ambiguous or together, they have to dress like a couple to go on a date, which will greatly enhance the ambiguous aura of two people.
3.Get into the groove on the way to a date. Think about what you can talk about on the road before you go out, get into a date state from the moment you meet, and try to find a topic to talk about. Don't think that you have time to deal with your own business on the road, and take care of it in advance if you have something. Now that you have chosen to go out on a date, focus on it and be positive. 4.Don't play with your phone during the date and look each other in the eye when you speak. Always remember that you are here for a date, and there is no shame in finding a topic to talk about or even taking the initiative to tease each other, only if you don't answer the phone and let the atmosphere cool down. Talk more about "you" and "me", as well as the emotions of the moment, rather than other unrelated topics. Especially when two people don't know each other, the most important thing is to get to know each other better. 
5.Proper physical contact is conducive to warming up relationships. Whenever you go out on a date, there must be opportunities for physical contact, so please be gentlemanly and bold for girls. Here's the point: the right physical contact at the right time! If the other person shows embarrassment and resistance, stop in time. Excessive physical contact can only make people feel harassed. 6.Don't be embarrassed to show your strengths on a date. If you know how to cook, ask each other to do baking, if you are good at sports, ask each other to go to your home stadium, chat more if you have a humorous personality, smile more when you look good, and show your ** generously if you are in good shape. In a definite relationship, "flirting" is also an advantage. Dating is to open the screen in front of people who have a good feeling, and try your best to show your charm to seduce each other.
7.Activities that require two people to work together should work hard and don't just think about leaving each other alone. For example, sports that require the cooperation of two people, and for example, on the occasion of a couple date, people who do more practical things will always make people feel good. 8.Learn to compliment each other more often on dates. Even if it's just that the restaurant the other party is looking for is very palatable, don't secretly rejoice in your heart, saying it will make the other party happier, and it will also make the other party work harder to please you on this date. 9.Give feedback after the date. Although most of the feedback will be given only when the show asks for it, it always makes people happy to receive the words "It's fun to hang out with you" after every date, and it will also make people look forward to the next date. 10.Tentatively throw out an invitation to your next date. If you think the other party is very good, you can try to put forward a proposal of "going to xxx together next time" after the date, which shows a good impression and will not be too proactive, and the other party will naturally take the initiative to find it if they are interested.
These suggestions can improve the dating experience at a small level and enhance intimacy at a large level. Really, I hope you don't overlook the importance of dating. Even if you are in a long-term relationship, you need to be attracted to each other again and again so that you will not be bored. Finally, I would like to ask you what are the dating rules that you have learned from Lianzong? I think there will be different opinions from different perspectives. Everyone is welcome to add + learn from each other in the message, and I hope you can have a high-quality date.