When Qin Hao proposed to Yi Nengjing, he said"I will never have a mistress, and if I have a mistress, I will sha myself myself. ”
This marriage proposal ceremony did not cause much heated discussion, Qin Hao was not popular at that time, but it was the wedding they held the following year.
Su Mang, who was still the editor-in-chief of a fashion magazine at the time, released a picture of their wedding, and there was also a picture killer Gao Yuanyuan as a reference in the group photo, which triggered a fierce discussion among netizens about Yi Nengjing's appearance.
What's even more confusing, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing, two people who don't look like they are in the same world at all, are on the right point.
Later, after watching the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", everyone found out that these two people are really together, one is "making heaven and earth", and the other is "making heaven and earth".
They went from acquaintance and love to marriage and children, and they made rapid progress.
Met in 2013.
Proposed in 2014.
Married in 2015.
Born in 2016.
The two met from a charity party, Yi Nengjing was 45 years old at that time and had been divorced for five years, and Qin Hao was 35 years old and single and unmarried.
It was Yi Nengjing who Qin Hao took the initiative to pursue.
Yi Nengjing has experienced all the things before, she is very sober about her feelings, and she believes that the next person must be the last one in this life, she doesn't want to try again, and she is also ready to die of celibacy.
So when Qin Hao was pursuing her, Yi Nengjing directly said her situation, the two have an age difference of 10 years, she has a vigorous relationship history, she loves her son very much, and will not give the man 100% love.
Since there is no possibility of being together and getting married, there is no need to continue to waste time and reject Qin Hao.
Yi Nengjing's resolute words did not scare Qin Hao away, and she received a text message from Qin Hao in the early morning.
What is age, he used to have a girlfriend who was 10 years younger, and it wasn't a breakup in the end.
also asked Yi Nengjing to come over tomorrow to discuss marriage.
You must know that at this time, they have only known each other for a few days, and they have already begun to talk about marriage.
In this way, the two began a relationship with a big gap in age, career, fame and experience.
When she wanted to see her parents, Yi Nengjing was very nervous, thinking that she would stage a bloody drama of being asked by her future in-laws to leave Qin Hao.
Qin Hao's parents are very traditional people.
The difference between the north and the south, the age difference, Yi Nengjing's past emotional experience, and many difficulties.
Qin Hao is also ready to fight a "protracted battle" to persuade his parents.
However, the attitude of Qin's father and Qin's mother surprised Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing, they are not people who eat the ancients, but are very transparent and open-minded, and they respect Qin Hao's choice.
Qin's mother also taught Qin Hao very seriously that Yi Nengjing had already had a marriage, and if she really decided to be together, she would be responsible to the end, and not let her down and hurt her.
The first time Yi Nengjing went to Qin Hao's house, Qin Hao's parents made a big table of dishes to welcome her.
They didn't get to the bottom of Yi Nengjing's past, let alone dislike her, but told her about Qin Hao's many shortcomings, hoping that she could tolerate Qin Hao more.
At the wedding, Dad Qin gave them blessings, which was very touching.
He said to Qin Hao, although you are younger than Yi Nengjing, but you are a man, you have to take more responsibility, they will treat Xiao Jing as a daughter.
After marriage, Yi Nengjing had a difficult time preparing for pregnancy, and her parents-in-law were also very considerate of her, thinking that it didn't matter if she didn't have children.
Qin's father and Qin's mother gave Yi Nengjing enough attention and recognition, they really regarded her as a daughter-in-law and their own family, and felt sorry for her experience, Yi Nengjing's past shortcomings and regrets are slowly being made up.
The relationship between Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law is known as a model of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and the relationship between the two is very good.
The mother-in-law never blindly interfered with the affairs of the two of them, and even became the glue of their husband and wife's feelings.
Qin Hao is a straight man who doesn't understand the amorous feelings, so Qin's mother reminded Qin Hao to be romantic and praise Yi Nengjing, so Qin Hao asked very cooperativelyMom, where is our ancestral grave, it's smoking, I'm so happy.
One sentence amused everyone.
The husband and wife who were once unsuitable in the eyes of the public turned out to be so compatible, and there was a feeling that one thing was descending from one thing.
Yi Nengjing is a bit pretentious and coquettish, and her desire to express herself is very strong, she usually likes to say some sour love words to Qin Hao, and she always dislikes Qin Hao for not being romantic enough.
Qin Hao is an anti-correction expert, and he often blocks Yi Nengjing speechlessly.
Yi Nengjing complained that Qin Hao was more patient with dogs than with her.
Qin Hao: Because it doesn't talk as much as you.
Yi Nengjing: If it doesn't talk every day, will you marry it?
Qin Hao: Nonsense, I can't marry it when it speaks.
Yi Nengjing asked Qin Hao to call her baby or baby.
Qin Hao: Baby, do you want to be quiet for a while?
Yi Nengjing's eyelids were swollen by mosquito bites, and she said that she would go to the hospital.
Qin Hao said that she made a big fuss, and there were no life problems in his family because of mosquito bites.
After Yi Nengjing gave birth to her daughter, her figure has not recovered, and she often feels anxious about her figure and appearance.
She asked Qin Hao if he would think that the girls outside were very beautiful when he saw her.
Qin Hao: There are beautiful girls outside, and they are indeed very beautiful, so you can't be beautiful, and you can't make others beautiful.
Anyway, no matter what tricks Yi Nengjing throws, Qin Hao can easily catch it, it seems that he doesn't understand the amorous feelings and doesn't understand romance, but in fact, he responds to her in a relaxed and humorous way, instead of letting her sing a one-man show alone, Yi Nengjing is amused by Qin Hao every time.
Qin Hao once said a joke, saying that on Yi Nengjing's birthday, he wrote her a greeting card with eight big characters written on it:If you do not, I will not bear it.
In reality, in the face of Yi Nengjing's "work" and "hypocrisy", Qin Hao told her very clearly:
Whatever you want me to do, you can put it forward with confidence, and I will do it if I can. But I don't want to do it, and I will make it clear that you don't need to feel guilty, we are equal.She loves to do it, he is willing to accept it, and he can accept it, a good marriage does not have to be humble, and they are equal to each other.
Compared with the romance on the lips, Qin Hao is more willing to show his love with actions.
He knew the bitterness and hardships of Yi Nengjing's early years, and he also understood her emotional gains and losses and insecurity, and he also understood the outlet of her soul.
He promised not to let the family worry about money.
Yi Nengjing wants to be recognized and respected.
Qin Hao announced that he chose to choose the red carpet of the Berlin Film Festival with the audience, and not long after they got together, Qin Hao introduced Yi Nengjing to his relatives and friends.
Yi Nengjing likes romance and has princess dreams.
Qin Hao carefully planned the marriage proposal ceremony, proposed to her in the presence of relatives and friends, and gave her a grand and romantic wedding.
Although Qin Hao is 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, his psychological maturity seems to be more mature and stable than Yi Nengjing.
Similarly, Yi Nengjing treats Qin Hao the same, for Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing is not only a lover, but also the person who can understand and understand him best.
The time when I met Yi Nengjing was when Qin Hao was most confused about his career and future, and he didn't know if he was right to insist on taking the road of literary films.
In order to survive and support his family, he also began to think about taking on some scripts that were not so high-quality.
Yi Nengjing told him that he didn't know how much she envied him and how much she wanted to be an actor like him.
You can cooperate with excellent directors, you can go to foreign film festivals, and you can play all the roles you want to play without money.
Yi Nengjing's words made Qin Hao feel that he was no longer lonely.
It is precisely because of his persistence and strict choice of scripts that there are one masterpiece after another.
In fact, Yi Nengjing has brought a great boost to Qin Hao's career.
Every time Qin Hao has a new work, Yi Nengjing will post a small composition on social **, telling Qin Hao's preparation for the role and the process of entering the role with delicate writing, taking the audience to appreciate Qin Hao from her perspective and helping Qin Hao gain popularity.
Qin Hao is not good at expressing and managing contacts, and this is precisely Yi Nengjing's advantage, she can communicate and express, and is good at dealing with interpersonal relationships.
It is said that there was once a director who wanted to invite Qin Hao to star in a movie, but Qin Hao just didn't have a schedule and pushed it, which is not a big deal.
But after Yi Nengjing found out, she took the initiative to add the director's WeChat, sincerely explained the reason to him, and flew from Taipei to Beijing to have dinner with him to express her apologies and pave the way for the next cooperation.
It can be said that in Qin Hao's career, Yi Nengjing is his strongest assistant and public relations.
In the past few years, Yi Nengjing's focus has mainly been on his family, taking care of his daughter, and his career has slowed down a lot, on the contrary, Qin Hao is in the rising period of his career and is working hard outside.
Qin Hao said that Yi Nengjing is a writer and a successful actress, and anyone can earn money, but she left him the opportunity to work, and compared to her hard work at home with children, working outside is nothing.
He has never forgotten Yi Nengjing's dedication and sacrifice.
I really appreciate, respect and worship Yi Nengjing from the bottom of my heart, Yi Nengjing began to work at the age of sixteen to support his family, and did what he could not do in his life, and what he did not have in her bones.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing don't seem to be people from the same world, but they are the most complementary people.
They also do the respect, understanding and tolerance that a partner should do, and they always look at each other with appreciation, no matter what position they are in.
Yi Nengjing once asked Qin Hao what was the most correct thing he had done so far.
Qin Hao replied, chose being an actor as his lifelong career, and married his childhood idol as his wife.
Yi Nengjing's answer to the same question was,It's not about marrying you, it's about becoming a better version of yourself after marrying you.
This may be the meaning that a beautiful and harmonious marriage gives to people, so that the people who love each other are happy and become a better version of themselves.
Now they have been holding hands for 10 years, and their relationship is still sweet.
Bless them.