In "Fireworks People", the thoughtful family of origin is simply a fire pit. Entering the door and stepping over the brazier, drinking chicken blood, and finally being shouted by the thoughtful grandfather, Li Yijin finally returned to his home in a gray manner.
At the beginning of this drama, Li Yijin broke up with Zhou Dao.
In the original book, Li Yijin cried and asked thoughtful when they broke up, how did the two of them come to this point.
Thoughtful and very cold said such a sentence:"Maybe it's a mistake for two people who don't like that much to be together! ”
He and Li Yijin have lived together for eight years, but after breaking up, he said such cruel words to Li Yijin, who was crying in tears.
And Zhou Dao has been with Li Yijin for so many years, but he has never confessed his family to Li Yijin, and even before taking Li Yijin back to his hometown for the New Year, he did not reveal a single star.
In fact, Zhoudao's father has already died, and he was killed by Zhouzhi's mother, and everyone may be able to guess the reason that Zhoudao's father is a violent maniac, and Zhoudao's mother and Zhouyu have been violent for a long time.
And the thoughtful mother killed her husband for the sake of the young thoughtful not to save her son who was living in purgatory.
His father died, his mother was arrested, and Zhou Zhi was raised by his grandparents since he was a child, and his grandparents were a pair of very feudal and unreasonable old men, who instilled in Zhou Zhi the idea that his mother was his father's killer since he was a child.
Imagine how terrible this kind of family is, as long as there is a family with a daughter, it will definitely not let its daughter marry into such a family.
However, Zhou Zhi and Li Yijin have lived together for eight years, but they have not confessed the truth of their original family to Li Yijin, and they can only say that Zhou Zhi is too cowardly to be trusted.
When Li Yijin in the play endured the humiliation, stepped over the brazier, and drank the chicken blood, I believe that the netizens in front of the screen were ruthlessly substituted, and gritted their teeth with hatred, scolding Li Yijin for being unproductive.
Li Yijin really has no prospects, he doesn't resist at all, knowing that he is humiliated and dismounted, but he is still willing to be trampled on.
And what was Zhou Zhi doing at this time, Li Yijin was forced, scolded, and even driven away by his grandparents, but Zhou Zhi was still indifferent, and finally let Li Yijin leave his hometown alone.
Even so, Zhou Zhi is still sure that Li Yijin will not break up with him just like this, why is he so ordinary and so confident?
Li Yijin returned to the rental house with Zhou Dao, and Zhou Zhi didn't speak, as if this incident had not happened. Later, under Li Yijin's questioning, Zhou Yu was still vague and unwilling to disclose any information.
At this time, Li Yijin proposed the matter of marriage, and the thoughtful response was that the eight characters have not been skimmed yet, and it is okay not to get married.
Now Li Yijin is completely angry, they have been together for eight years, and Zhou Zhi has no plans to get married, isn't this a hooligan?
Then Li Yijin proposed to break up. However, thoughtful is still unhurried, as if he didn't take it seriously. In the original book, thoughtful has such a psychological activity:
He knows Li Yijin too well, she is cowardly, timid, and indecisive. In the years they have been together, every time she says that she breaks up, it is not sincere, and he is used to not taking it seriously.
It wasn't until Li Yijin packed up those bottles that Zhou Yu realized that Li Yijin was really going to break up, and his attitude was: not explaining, not keeping, and even helped Li Yijin pack all his luggage.
So the question is, why did Zhou Zhi dare to treat Li Yijin like this? Why did you dare to live with Li Yijin for 8 years, and you didn't make it clear to Li Yijin?
First, Zhou Yu knew that his original family was a fire pit, and he wanted to hide it.
The second is that he knows Li Yijin's character too well, cowardly, timid, even if he is bullied, even if he is wronged, he will endure it.
Because Li Yijin's original family is not so good, Li Yijin's mother has a strong desire to control, and has controlled Li Yijin in her own Wuzhi Mountain since she was a child, and she will beat and scold Li Yijin at the slightest mistake, which has created Li Yijin's cowardly, humble, and unconfident side in love.
So much so that when she grew up, Li Yijin wanted to escape from her mother's palm, and the more her mother didn't like Zhouyu, the more she wanted to be with Zhouyu.
After the two broke up, Zhou Zhi never took the initiative to contact Li Yijin again, but Li Yijin was always in a hurry to find Zhou Dao.
Li Yijin not only constantly brushes the thoughtful circle of friends, but also pays attention to the circle of friends of thoughtful colleagues. Knowing that Zhou Dao was unemployed, she came to the door and helped Zhou Dao find a new job. Later, knowing that Zhou Dao had returned to his hometown, Li Yijin was still stunned and never forgotten.
And thoughtful knew that his original family was not good, so he said directly:"I don't have to worry about you, we've already broken up, you don't care about me. “
To put it bluntly, Li Yijin is like her mother, in the face of men who are extremely indifferent to them, she is obviously wronged and painful, but she still shows a kind of humility that can endure and forgive.
This is one of the cruelest truths about marriage.
In fact, Li Yijin once deeply reflected on what the relationship between her and Zhou Yu was like:
I have to admit that they have never had a crazy obsession and love for each other, and they are like a couple of old husbands and wives who have spent seven years of itching and respect each other during the most sticky love period. Neither of them are desperate people for love, nor do they expect to meet the perfect person for each other, and the reason why they have been together for many years is simply because they are the best solution they can find for each other. Even the optimal solution contains countless clear and intolerable shortcomings, which is that they can always dislike each other while thinking of themselves who are equally worthy of dislike, so they lose the desire to urge the other person to become a better person
This passage makes a lot of sense, especially for most ordinary people's marriages, we enter into marriage, sometimes not because of love, but because we are suitable for each other.
The reason why Zhou Zhi and Li Yijin came together was because he saw that Li Yijin was also a person who was tortured by his original family, such Li Yijin, Zhou Zhi had the courage to pursue, had the courage to break up, and even successfully reunited with Li Yijin in the end.
Because thoughtful knows that Li Yijin has no better choice than him.
And Li Yijin and Zhou Zhi have been together for eight years, to a large extent, just to fight against her mother, not because of love.
When there is a huge harm in a person's original family, and even she doesn't look down on herself, she will be more inclined to a sense of security when she chooses a marriage relationship.
This shows how important the family of origin is to everyone.
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