Some people say that being together for a long time is like a left hand holding a right hand, and even if the love gradually fades, they will choose to continue to spend time together. Yes, the once burning love eventually evolved into deep family affection.
Even after ups and downs in marriage, the two can support each other to the end of their lives. However, there are also many people who experience the pain of a loveless marriage.
The initial sweet love seems ridiculous in the trivialities of day after day; All that's left is endless complaining, blame, and remorse for the past. The once fiery heart gradually lost its warm feeling, and with an icy chill, it may be ready to leave at any time.
Quarrels are always directed against both parentsWhen two people get into an argument, some people choose to stop it and try to hold each other down. However, often at this time, it is not the verbal abuse of the other party, let alone the other party's family.
In reality, this behavior is inappropriate, and the dispute between the two has nothing to do with each other's families. Everyone has the right to express their opinion, but one should not curse the other's family with bad words. If the conflict between the two people escalates and involves the other party's family, it is likely to lead to the continuation of the conflict and it will be difficult to resolve it quickly.
Likes to solve problems by forceIn marriage, the use of violent means to solve problems is the most worrying situation. Violence can easily happen over trivial things, and every time it happens, the other person promises never to use violence again.
When it comes to violence in marriage, there is no reason for the other person to continue the behavior anyway. If the other person really loves you, they should not use violent means to treat you.
Look down on each otherAs the old saying goes, getting married needs to be a good match, because they have a similar family life background and have the same concept of thinking about problems, so they are less likely to cause conflicts in getting along. However, in real life, not everything goes as planned, and everyone's family situation is more or less different.
In the marital relationship, in addition to family conditions, differences in personality and work ability between husband and wife are also easy to become the source of conflict. These differences, big and small, can cause the marriage balance to favor one partner more than the other, making the relationship more complicated.
There is no intersection in marital life
Some couples claim that their lives appear to be peaceful, with no conflicts or quarrels, but in fact there is only one reason behind this peace, and that is that their lives hardly intersect at all.
They are indifferent to each other's itineraries and never share their own itineraries with each other. Over time, both parties gradually lose their understanding of each other's lives, and sometimes they don't even know what the other has been up to lately. What's more, sometimes a person doesn't even know that their partner has changed jobs.
People who go hand in hand to get married, probably no one wants to file for divorce easily. However, while falling in love is a simple thing, getting along is a difficult task.
When one of the two had a change of heart, everything changed, not out of a desire to leave, but because they had to separate. Cherish the time spent together, and firmly grasp the sincere emotion without regrets.