A couple's relationship that attracts love and children is a prerequisite for a long-lasting relationship. Marriage is not only for the purpose of achieving some kind of social purpose, but also for the purpose of achieving one's own personal happiness.
Two people who have never met have gone from being in a normal relationship to being a couple. Their union symbolizes the beginning of a good life. In the long journey of life, if two people can take the initiative to do three things, not only will life go smoothly, but the relationship will get better and better.
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Have a common emotional goal.
Picasso once said: "If you know what your goal is, the whole world will give you a way." ”
The relationship between husband and wife is like a big ship sailing towards a lighthouse on the sea. Husbands and wives are the two helmsmen of the same ship, moving together towards a common goal. Husbands and wives don't only agree when they have the same goals. I'm tired of fighting.
If one person wants to build a good future and the other wants to break up, then in the process of constant consumption, the relationship will naturally collapse.
Just like Chen Junsheng and Luo Zhujun in "The First Half of Life", they have been together for too long, and the once beautiful love has become dull. Luo Zhujun wants to have a good marriage and is hesitant to break up. ;
Chen Junsheng didn't want to solve the problems he encountered in getting along with Luo Zijun, so because of his feelings, he had to ignore his original family life responsibilities and choose to divorce, but this was not the case.
Because the two have different expectations and goals for marriage, they naturally can't go through to the end in an orderly manner.
Human happiness may be simple, but the happiness of husband and wife is a higher level of pursuit. With a common goal, the two sides will be able to better understand and support each other, and form an atmosphere of unity and cooperation.
Long-lasting relationships.
Husband and wife live happily together.
Shakespeare said: In a happy family, at least one of every couple is a "fool".
Only in this way can we maintain each other's humility and tolerance when we get along, and the relationship will form a virtuous circle, and we will become better and better when we see each other's efforts.
Just like Yang Jiang and her husband Qian Zhongshu, they have loved each other all their lives. This is not to say that there is no conflict or disagreement between the two, but when there is a conflict or disagreement, both sides intend to consider the issue. Choose to go down the emotional ladder.
Qian Zhongshu is not very good at housework, so Yang Jiang took the initiative to take on housework, although she used to be a disabled eldest daughter, she was a good girl who spent more money. Interest in education, education. For the sake of family harmony, she took the initiative to learn what she was not good at.
Harmonious family relationships stem from mutual understanding and support between husband and wife. Only in this way can we encourage and help each other when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, and overcome difficulties together.
Long-lasting relationships.
Trust each other. Dale Carnegie said, "All great relationships are built on trust and respect. ”
If there is trust, two people can get along well. You can only be friends when you feel safe. That's why people who gain trust feel safe and try to trust others.
Just like Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqing in "More than 30s", during the run-in period of married life, the two could not trust each other, and they both harbored insecurities in their hearts.
Zhong Xiaoqin thinks that Chen Yu doesn't love him, and his attitude is all ruthless. Chen Yu didn't believe that Zhong Xiaoqin would let her escape from the trough of life together. When something happens at work, I never confide in her.
Mutual distrust led to the end of the couple's relationship. They have experienced their own growth, learned how to love, and experienced many emotional detours before they reconciled and had happy feelings. Relationship.
Trust is necessary, but in life it must be built slowly. When getting along, be sure to trust your partner and give each other time and opportunities. As long as the relationship between the two parties is good, life will definitely be better. 。