My name is Wang Yue, and now I am an operator with a monthly salary of about 7,000.
My ex-husband Li Yulin and I were high school classmates, and we met in our sophomore year of high school, but I didn't notice him in my sophomore year of high school, because I had a crush at that time, and I wasn't interested in many things.
Until the third year of high school, Li Yulin was on the 8th floor and I was on the 7th floor. We would meet each other every night after self-study class, and it was then that I realized that he and I were classmates in our sophomore year of high school.
In the past, when I was in the same class in the second year of high school, I didn't notice that Li Yulin looked good and his clothes were very good, until I was assigned to a different class, I really noticed him.
The more times I met in the evening self-study, the more I paid attention to Li Yulin, his outfits, and his every move. My girlfriend and I whispered, "That's why I like boys." ”
The girlfriend pretended to glance at him casually and said, "Yes, the appearance and height match you very well." ”
Although I have a crush on Li Yulin, I have a good grasp of proportion, knowing that the college entrance examination is the most important thing in life, and love should not be ranked first.
Therefore, I didn't confess to Li Yulin, I was purely silently in love, or quietly glanced at him in the evening self-study, and walked side by side with him.
During the college entrance examination, due to long-term insomnia, I failed the exam, only scored about 400 points, and went to a junior college.
And Li Yulin was only admitted to a junior college because of his mentality. At that time, I happened to secretly add his contact information, and the two of us had a good conversation.
"Wanted to be in the same school as me," he said. ”
I happily said, "Then you can choose the same school as me." ”
However, Li Yulin's score was twenty or thirty points lower than mine, and it was even more difficult to go to a better school in a first-tier city.
In addition, his parents strongly urged him to study medicine, such as pharmacy, and his parents believed that medicine had a future, made a lot of money, and was easy to get a job.
Li Yulin was only 18 years old at the time, and he did not want his parents to quarrel often because of his choice of major, so he chose to compromise and chose a medical college in a second-tier city according to his parents' request.
My university, and his university, are separated by at least more than 100 kilometers. It's all false to say that we're not sad, but we're all very good at comforting each other: "You can take the high-speed train to each other's schools to play." ”
Young promises are always good, but few people can keep them, and Li Yulin and I are no different.
At that time, we were in a pure relationship, and he didn't pursue me, and by the time we both went to different schools, the connection began to dwindle.
Sometimes we only talk once a month, and occasionally even once every three or four months, which is a lot unfamiliar. It's just that my heart is still looking forward to it, and I expect him to find me, pursue me, and make me his girlfriend.
In the second semester of his sophomore year, he officially announced in the circle of friends: "Hello, this is my girlfriend." "When I saw it, I lost sleep all night and my heart ached all night.
I never imagined how he could be with other girls? Why don't you choose me? I comforted me with kindness: "It's okay, Yueyue, I think you're much better looking than that girl." There are many men in the world, don't give up the whole forest for one man. ”
After falling out of love, in order to quickly forget this relationship, I spent all my time studying, examining, and preparing for exams. Throughout the university, I passed the fourth and sixth grades, documents, Putonghua certificates, and teacher qualification certificates.
After graduating from university, I went to Guangdong for an internship, and Li Yulin returned to his hometown for employment, at that time his little girlfriend had broken up with him, the two had different plans, his girlfriend planned to go to Shenzhen to find a job, and Li Yulin wanted to go back to his hometown, and the two broke up peacefully.
I thought that Li Yulin and I would not have anything to do with each other, but in the first year after work, Li Yulin suddenly took the initiative to send me a message: "How are you now?" ”
I politely replied: "Fortunately, I am very tired of working in the society." ”
He replied: "I'm coming to Guangdong to work, do you want to meet and have a meal?" ”
I hesitated for a while, but I agreed to meet him and have a meal, after all, it was someone I had once liked.
We made an appointment to meet at the Green Grass Hall Restaurant, and by the time I arrived, Li Yulin had already ordered.
As soon as he saw me coming, he couldn't help but compliment: "You are getting more and more beautiful, even better than when you were in high school." ”
I replied: "You too, you are getting more and more tasteful in dressing, a bit of a Korean style." ”
We chatted in the restaurant like this, and although we hadn't been in touch for a long time, I had a lot of similarities with him, so it wasn't awkward to talk.
Maybe it's because of the proximity of each other's workplaces, the proximity of the hearts. Since Li Yulin came to work in Guangdong, he always asked me out to eat and play. We've played escape rooms, roller coasters, and script kills together.
Over time, our relationship became much closer, so he took the initiative to confess to me.
Over the years, my parents have actually introduced me to a lot of blind dates, and the family conditions are much better than his, and there are many men chasing me when I was studying, but I have never been tempted, because I have always left a place for him.
Now that he has confessed to me, I certainly haven't refused, who doesn't want a happy outcome for their young crush?
When Li Yulin took me to his house, his parents were not very satisfied with me, because I was a foreigner, and Li Yulin's parents always hoped that he could marry a wife from the same village, so that the two families could be close to each other and help each other.
That day, his parents simply made a few meals, steamed pork ribs, corn soup, green vegetables, and roast duck. It is said that the steamed pork ribs are still an overnight dish. My face was so green that I almost wanted to run.
It was Li Yulin who kindly persuaded me: "Bear with me, just give me a face, please." ”
I couldn't save his face, so I had to choose patience. After the meal, Li Yulin's parents also asked me to take the initiative to wipe the table, wash the dishes, and clean up the kitchen.
Li Yulin saw that my face was bad, and immediately licked his face and said, "I'll clean it up, just let Yueyue help you." ”
The meal that day was full of anger, and every time I think about it, I don't have a good impression of his parents.
But I'm a love brain, and for his parents' deliberate behavior against me, it didn't extinguish my desire to marry Li Yulin.
I don't think we live with my in-laws, so I ignore his parents' annoying attitude. I didn't tell my parents about the grievances I had suffered at Li Yulin's house, so as not to worry my parents.
My parents are very satisfied with Li Yulin, my family is also an ordinary family, my parents are working to earn money, so I don't dislike Li Yulin without a house, my parents said: "As long as two people live a down-to-earth life, do not gamble or luxury, they can slowly earn money to buy a house." ”
You two are still young, and the road ahead is long, and you are not afraid of not having a house. It's okay to rent a house for the time being, and then buy a house when you have money. ”
When we got married, we set up a banquet near my house, so Li Yulin's parents were not very happy and did not help us pay for the banquet, but my parents paid for it. Later, Li Yulin was deeply sorry, so he returned the money my parents paid for the banquet.
After marrying Li Yulin, we rented two bedrooms and one living room, and the extra room was reserved for guests, or when one of us was not feeling well and wanted to sleep alone, we could also go there to sleep.
Not long after marriage, my mother-in-law began to give birth, although she didn't like me very much, but since I had married Li Yulin, she later had a good attitude towards me, and hoped that I would have a child as soon as possible, saying: "Take advantage of your youth, have a baby as soon as possible, in case you find something wrong with your body, you can also treat it in time, and wait until you are in your 30s to consider having a baby, it will be too late." ”
Li Yulin and I originally planned to get pregnant, but the company where Li Yulin was employed didn't take long to start optimizing personnel, and Li Yulin was also optimized.
We were under a lot of economic pressure at that time, only about 7,000 yuan a month, and Li Yulin had 8,000 yuan before he was unemployed.
After he didn't have a job, all the financial pressure on my family fell on my head, and I was under a lot of mental pressure, living very hard every day, and I didn't dare to think about my children's affairs at all.
Li Yulin looked for a job for a long time, but almost couldn't find a satisfactory job, either because he was inexperienced or wanted him to pay less.
Later, one of Li Yulin's friends also lost his job and was planning to start a business, lacking a partner. It just so happened that Li Yulin didn't have a job, so he hoped that Li Yulin could start a business with him.
The two opened a **, doing e-commerce, selling women's products, such as hair straighteners, clips, underwear, and mirrors.
At the beginning, the store traffic was average, and the turnover was not much, so a lot of money was thrown in, and there was no return for most of the year. Later, the two combined the live broadcast and promoted it on other platforms, and slowly began to place orders.
About a year later, the orders slowly stabilized, and the turnover reached about 50,000 yuan, and the two of them shared about 20,000 yuan a month after deducting the relevant expenses.
After making money, I once proposed to Li Yulin: "Do you want to prepare for pregnancy?" Anyway, now it's starting to make money. ”
Li Yulin said: "When the time comes, we are still young, so let's go around the world first and open our eyes." ”
Li Yulin took me to Xinjiang, Yunnan, Kunming, Nanjing, Chongqing, and every time we went to a place, we would take a group photo as a souvenir, saying that when we were old, we would have no regrets when we saw that I had played so many places.
I originally thought that Li Yulin and I would live a dull life like this, but I didn't expect that in the fourth year of marriage, he cheated on me behind my back.
That day, a girl took the initiative to add me to WeChat and sent me an intimate photo.
*, Li Yulin rested his head on her shoulder affectionately, and the two were still sleeping together. That girl, I also know, was Li Yulin's first love in high school, and she was the person he had been thinking about all along.
When Li Yulin went home, there was a hint of perfume on his body, and I calmly asked him: "You, why did you betray me?" ”
Li Yulin's hands shook when he heard this, and his mobile phone fell to the ground, and he asked in a panic: "You know everything?" ”
I looked at him calmly and replied, "It was your first love who sent me **, and I only found out." If it weren't for her, you would have been hiding it so well. I'm really stupid. ”
I'm sorry, Yueyue, she is my first love, she is not doing well now, she came back to me, I relented for a while, and I got back together with her. In the past, she and I were separated because of our youth, but now that we meet again, we can't help but dry firewood. ”
I know there's no room for sand in your eyes, so let's go apart. I will give you 150,000 compensation, I am sorry for you. ”
A month later, Li Yulin and I received our divorce certificates. Not long after he got his permit, he transferred me 150,000 yuan and moved out of the house where I lived with him.
I didn't dare to tell my parents about Li Yulin's betrayal of me, for fear that my parents would worry, after all, I am now old, and not only do I have no children, but I am also divorced. In the eyes of my parents, this is a very unfortunate thing.
It's just that parents and children are related by blood after all, and they can see that something is wrong with my face, and during this time, every time they come to visit me, Li Yulin is not at home.
My mom couldn't help but ask, "Is there something wrong with you two?" I basically can't see him during this time, and the closet in your room is out of his clothes. Truth be told, are you separated? ”
I didn't bother to continue to hide it, so I pretended to be relaxed and replied: "Yes, I separated from him, because it was too bland, so I broke up peacefully, he was very generous, and compensated me with 150,000 yuan, and I am also a little rich woman now." ”
When my mother heard this, it seemed to be expected, and her reaction was very flat, "You like it, anyway, there is no shortage of husbands for women now, as long as you want to, you can definitely find a better partner for him." ”
I didn't want my mother to worry, so I responded positively: "With you, I'm not afraid of not finding a good husband." ”
Three months after the divorce, I quit naked, and I wanted to do something I liked, write **, do self-**, anyway, now I have 150,000 savings, and I can't starve myself.
I do it, I read books day and night every day, read **, code words, and have fun, at night, I skip rope, run, do yoga, the time is very fulfilling, and slowly forget the unhappiness of divorce.
I have probably written more than 50 short stories, and my articles have slowly begun to have traffic, and I have accumulated a certain number of fans on other platforms, and I can earn about two or three thousand a month.
I don't have a lot of money, just after deducting the rent, there is not much left for three meals a day, but I firmly believe that as long as I persevere, it will get better and better.
I never expected that just when I was about to forget Li Yulin, he actually ran back to find me, that day, it was my birthday, I happened to go to KTV with my friends to celebrate my birthday, and when I came home in the evening, I found that he had been sitting on the sofa waiting for me, watching me unlock and come in, he said: "Happy birthday, I have been waiting for you for hours." ”
I couldn't believe it: "We're divorced, what are you waiting for me for?" Aren't you afraid that your first love will lose his temper? ”
Li Yulin scratched his head and said: "At that time, I was only with her because I was soft-hearted and pitied her, but the longer I stayed with her, the more I found that what I loved in my heart was that you were just a memory of your youth." ”
I love you, Yueyue, I really love you, can you forgive me? After saying this, he immediately threw himself on his knees, kept slapping himself, and scolded himself for not being human.
When I saw him like this, my heart immediately softened, so I agreed to him. After reuniting with Li Yulin, we seemed to be newlywed, and he was much better to me than in the past.
In the past, I took the initiative to obey him and think about him, but now, he will cook brown sugar water for me during my aunt's period, take the initiative to go out to buy medicine for me when I have a stomachache at night, and take the initiative to help me with the shopping cart.
I wondered why he was so kind to me all of a sudden. He smiled and said, "Isn't it back together, it's better than you!" ”
However, less than three months after I was back together with him, his first love came to the door and scolded me.
Why are you so shameless? Do you know that he is already married, he has already obtained a marriage license with me, and I am pregnant now! How dare you seduce someone else's husband! ”
When I heard the words of his first love, I immediately looked at Li Yulin, hoping that he could give me a satisfactory answer.
However, he was silent and silent, and he didn't even dare to look at me.
At this moment, my heart was like ashes, and I didn't expect that I would one day become a third party. I thought they had separated a long time ago, but I didn't expect them to get married! It's ridiculous.
In the end, because of the child's reasons, Li Yulin always chose his first love instead of me. All along, maybe I was just a joke, or maybe just his playmate when he was lonely.
Later, in order to change my mood, I chose to go to sojourn, travel and work at the same time, and let myself forget this unbearable relationship.
More than two years later, in the course of my journey, I met a man who was a year younger than me, he was the first marriage, and said that as soon as he saw me, he felt for me, so he began to pursue me.
I took the initiative to confess to him about my unbearable relationship in the past, and he shook his hand and said, "It doesn't matter, it's good that you're single now anyway, who hasn't been dizzy?" I don't mind at all. ”
After about half a year of contact with him, we dating. After more than two years of love, I entered into marriage with him, his parents did not dislike me for a second marriage, they attached great importance to me, and gave our family a 100,000 dowry, and bought a 90-square-meter house near my parents, saying that it was convenient for me to go home.
I am very grateful for this and cherish this relationship even more. A year after marriage, I gave birth to a lovely daughter, my husband was even better to me, and so did my in-laws, who subsidized me with 4,000 yuan every month, and they came to help me take care of the baby as long as they were free.