Gu Tingyan, as Gu Tingye's sister-in-law, should have enjoyed a certain degree of respect and love. However, she was forced to cut off contact with her mother's family because she married far away from Fujian. After getting married, Gu Tingyan deliberately avoided contact with the Gu family, as if he had nothing to do with the Gu family. So much so that the enthusiasm and sorrow of the Gu family were pinned on Gu Tingye's biological mother, the Great Qin family. It can be seen from here that the concubine Gu Tingyan has silently endured many grievances in her life.
The concubine Gu Tingyan married Fujian, not an active choice, but the result of force. When the Gu family was in crisis, her mother, Aunt Qiu, was used as the henchman of the Great Qin Clan, and thus became Gu Tingyan's stepmother. Aunt Qiu originally hoped to marry the person she wanted, but due to a sudden change, she was forced to become the stepmother of the Gu family's concubine. This arrangement made Gu Tingyan's mother, Aunt Qiu, live in the shadow of being used and forgotten all her life. This is a pitiful fate, she loyally pays for the Gu family, but is only regarded as a tool person.
Aunt Qiu's situation in the Gu family became more and more embarrassing, especially after Mrs. Bai entered the mansion, the relationship was even more tense. In order to maintain her status and wealth, Madame Bai offended the rest of the Gu family, including Aunt Qiu and Gu Tingyan. And Aunt Qiu and Gu Tingyan have become their victims. In Gu Tingyan's marriage, Mrs. Bai was even more ruthless and married her to Fujian, thousands of miles away from Beijing. This made Gu Tingyan's life even more difficult, she was far away from the support of her hometown and her mother's family, and had to rely on herself to face the hardships of life.
As a concubine, Gu Tingyan's life in the Gu family is not easy. Like Gu Tingye, she was also discriminated against and snubbed by the Gu family. Her mother and father were cold and ruthless to her, so that she was rarely cared for and valued. What's even more outrageous is that Gu Tingyan also sufferedMarriagearrangement. She is forced to marry a stranger far from home, and this arrangement is more about throwing her out of the Gu family than about her happiness.
After marrying far away, Gu Tingyan found that his relationship with the Gu family had long been gone. Her mother was called "Aunt Qiu" in the Gu family, and she herself became a "concubine" who moved to Fujian. At this time, she understood that men were inferior to women at that timeSocialIf a woman wants to live a good life, she needs to rely on the help of her mother's family. Therefore, for Gu Tingyan, she understands that no matter how she goes back and contacts her parents' family, there will be no help and change, and she can only rely on her own hard work.
In short, the fate of the concubine Gu Tingyan can be described as tragic. She was snubbed and discriminated against by the Gu family, and was forced to leave her hometown to marry away from home, cutting off contact with her mother's family. Her mother is also a victim of exploitation and forgetfulness, and the fate of both mother and daughter in the Gu family is not satisfactory. Gu Tingyan can only rely on his own efforts and courage to face the predicament and strive for happiness and dignity for himself. It also makes people think deeply, in feudalismSocialUnder the oppression, the fate of women is often passive and tragic, and they need more courage and persistence to change their destiny.