When praising a mother's love, people often tend to emphasize its greatness, because the father's emotional expression of his children is often more subtle and deep, and it is not easy to detect.
It was only recently that Zhang Min really felt the uniqueness of her father's love, and at the same time, her father's actions also made her aware of the fact that she was also deeply loved by her father.
On Father's Day, although the marketing activities of merchants are not as lively as Mother's Day, most children seem to be indifferent to this holiday.
Zhang Min also ignored this special day, but she never thought that her mother, who is usually not interested in all kinds of romance and festivals, gave Zhang Min a full five ** feverishly on this day, urging her to hurry home for Father's Day.
Zhang Min was a little surprised, after all, her mother was over half a hundred years old, and for her, excessive holiday celebrations had always been a waste. In her opinion, instead of spending money on the holidays, it is better to spend her mind on buying some practical daily necessities for the home.
In the past, Zhang Min sent flowers to celebrate Mother's Day, and her mother didn't even care about it, but today she insisted on having a Father's Day that had nothing to do with her, which made Zhang Min extremely abnormal.
Zhang Min asked her husband for advice: "Why don't we listen to my mother and go back to spend Father's Day with them?" ”
The husband expressed some concerns: "Wife, since we got married, we have been sending red envelopes to my wallet every holiday, although today is only Father's Day, but your mother has made it so grand, I am really a little scared." ”
Zhang Min looked at her husband's hesitation, and couldn't help laughing, but she still said stiffly: "My brother just finished the college entrance examination, I guess my mother may want us to go back and give my brother some items needed to fund his school." ”
My husband nodded, agreed with my guess, and continued: "My brother takes the college entrance examination once in his life, which is indeed a thing worth celebrating. Although we are living a tight life now, we still can't be stingy in this regard. We're ready, let's go back! ”
Seeing her husband's consciousness, Zhang Min was very pleased, she snuggled up to her husband and said, "Okay, let's go back together and see what kind of "Hongmen Banquet" my mother has prepared!" ”
In order to look good, her husband brought his recently purchased laptop, while Zhang Min borrowed 5,000 yuan from her best friend.
The younger brother danced happily when he received the notebook, but seeing her husband's satisfied smile, Zhang Min was a little relieved.
Because this computer was bought by her husband for half a year, his goal is to realize his dream of writing.
During the meal, her father asked about the work and life of Zhang Min and his wife, and Zhang Min told her the truth, and suddenly, she seemed to see a trace of distress on her father's face.
The mother nagged about their duck and fish farming, and her words were full of complaints, emphasizing that they had no money.
Then, my mother began to worry about the cost of her brother's college and living expenses.
At this time, my father suddenly interrupted my mother's words and said sharply: "If you don't have any money, let him work and study in college." What's the big deal about boys suffering a little, there's not much to say. ”
Besides, when this batch of ducks and fry is shipped, it will definitely make a lot of money. What are you worried about now? ”
The mother quickly closed her mouth, but her face was full of displeasure.
Zhang Min sensed that the atmosphere was wrong, and hurriedly said, "Dad, today is your holiday, let's not be angry." You see, my brother is going to college, and we have prepared 5,000 yuan for him, so don't worry about him not eating well at school. ”
Zhang Min stuffed the money into his mother's arms, and then said: "Our brother's grades are so good, he will definitely be able to take a test, and when he graduates from college, it will be your turn to enjoy happiness!" ”
After dinner, her husband urged Zhang Min to go home, for fear that there would be some money to spend next.
When parting, my father took out a coat and said that Zhang Min stayed at home during the Chinese New Year and asked her to take it back.
When he returned home, Zhang Min received another text message from his father, who told Zhang Min to touch the pockets of his clothes.
Zhang Min touched her pocket and took out a wad of money, her eyes turned red instantly, and she buried herself in her husband's arms and cried bitterly.
My father sent another message saying: "You work hard and are under a lot of pressure, you will take the 20,000 yuan to repay the mortgage first." In a few months, a few hundred of my ducks and fish from the pond will be shipped, and a lot of money will be recovered by then, so you don't have to worry about me and your mother running out of money to spend. ”
Zhang Min's parents are honest rural people, different from his mother's ability and eloquence, his father seems to be a lot more silent.
Since she was a child, Zhang Min rarely saw her father working hard outside, and what she saw in front of her was more of her mother's hard work for her, her younger brother and the family.
Zhang Min gets along more with her mother in her daily life, so she is closer to her mother emotionally, but unfortunately her mother is more partial to her younger brother, causing Zhang Min to often feel aggrieved.
From childhood to adulthood, Zhang Min rarely let her parents worry about her in life and studies. The same is true for getting married and having children today.
Zhang Min and her husband both came out of the countryside, and without parental support at all, they saved money together to buy a house and struggled to repay the monthly payment. When a child is born, the pressure of life increases a lot.
Although facing huge economic pressure, Zhang Min did not dare to slack off on personal relations and filial piety to his parents.
Zhang Min and her husband are quite face-loving, and every time they go home for the New Year, they give their parents and younger brothers very generous red envelopes, which makes them quite face-saving in front of their relatives. However, in private, a family of three has to struggle to make ends meet in order to maintain a good living condition.
At today's dinner table, Zhang Min finally couldn't help but confide the truth in front of his father and confided in his heart, and his father felt pity and couldn't help but subsidize her more.
Zhang Min always thought that her father preferred her younger brother like her mother, but she didn't expect that her father had always thought that she was doing well just because she had been suffering silently and had never complained.
His father is usually not good at words and rarely takes the initiative to ask Zhang Min about his situation, which leads to Zhang Min's failure to perceive his father's affection and love. List of high-quality authors