In the movie "Reunion", a small misunderstanding leads to an argument between the family. The husband was furious with his wife over the name of the child, and then began to dig over old accounts, complaining about the troubles caused by his wife's mother's family. The wife also complained, accusing her husband of not knowing how to be grateful. For a time, the family fell into chaos, and the estrangement spread rapidly. The lesson of this story is that turning over old accounts only deepens the wounds, and at the same time increases each other's pain and anger. In a long-term relationship, we should not always grasp the other person's past to blame and complain, but learn to tolerate and forget past contradictions, and work together to build a harmonious family.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipIt is a very sensitive issue in many families, and the essence of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often that the husband and wife do not understand the family management. If the husband does not truly love his wife, he will not feel distressed by his wife's grievances, and he will not take the initiative to solve the problem of his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the story, the husband chooses to remain silent or ignore his wife's grievances and difficulties, and does not give enough support and care, resulting in the escalation of the conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
A good husband should know how to read his wife's inner appeals, discuss more with his wife, be considerate and tolerant of each other, and reduce the attitude of taking things for granted. MarriageIt requires the joint efforts and management of both husband and wife, and only with good communication and mutual respect can a happy and harmonious family be built.
MarriageThe responsibilities and obligations are mutual, not unilateral. There are those who always enjoy the results, but they are unwilling to take responsibility and pass the responsibility on to others. In the story, while the son is filial to his parents, he shifts the responsibility to his wife, making her bear most of the burden of the family, without considering her feelings and contributions.
A good husband should know what to doMarriageis responsible, not only materially, but alsoEmotionand mentally. Husbands and wives should support and understand each other, share the responsibilities of the family, and run a happy business togetherMarriageMarriageIt is not a one-person business, but the result of the joint efforts and management of husband and wife. A stable and satisfactory community can only be established if both parties have a sense of responsibility and dedicationMarriageRelationship.
In the story, the conflicts and estrangements between husband and wife are mainly due to the lack of effective communication. Instead of sitting down and having a good talk and listening to each other's thoughts and feelings, the husband and wife chose to keep the contradictions and complaints in their hearts, leading to the accumulation and eruption of problems.
Communication is the key to problem solving, inMarriageThis is even more true in China. Husbands and wives should learn to listen attentively to each other's needs and ideas to enhance understanding and consensus. Only open communication can help both parties solve problems, reduce conflicts and misunderstandings, and establish a good oneMarriageRelationship.
What both husband and wife lack in the story is gratitude and forgiveness for each other. Instead of feeling grateful for his wife's efforts, the husband always complains about her shortcomings and the troubles caused by her mother's family. The wife did not understand his troubles and pressures from her husband's point of view, but only blamed him for not knowing how to be grateful.
Gratitude and tolerance are the cornerstones of the family and promote understanding and harmony between husband and wife. Husbands and wives should learn to appreciate each other's efforts, appreciate each other's help, and be tolerant of each other's shortcomings. Only mutual tolerance and respect can build a happy family.