In our lives, have you ever noticed a female friend or relative, who used to be lively and cheerful, and good at articulation, but suddenly became silent one day, as if she had lost her former self?
In fact, there is a deep secret behind this. That's - her heart chills.
Yes, chilling. This term may not be unfamiliar to many people. But what does it mean exactly? How to understand and face it?
The chill is a deep disappointment and helplessness. When a woman has a deep disappointment with the people and things around her, she will choose to remain silent. Because she has understood that no matter what she says, no one will understand, no one will care.
This silence is not because she has lost the ability to express, but because she has given up the possibility of being understood. Deep down, she already felt lonely and helpless.
So, how should we understand and face such a woman?
First of all, we need to understand that her silence is not because she no longer cares, but because she is no longer able to care. Her heart had become exhausted from a long period of disappointment and hurt.
Secondly, we need to give her enough love and understanding. We want to tell her with our actions that we are always there for her, willing to listen to her, and willing to accompany her through this difficult time.
Finally, we need to guide her to rediscover her voice. We want to encourage her and let her know that her feelings are worthy of understanding and respect. We need to help her regain the cheerful and expressive self she used to be.
In our lives, we all experience setbacks and disappointments. However, as long as we can understand and care for the people around us, we can go through this difficult time together and regain that warmth and hope.
Let's pay attention to such women together, and use our love and understanding to warm their hearts, so that they can rediscover their voices and rediscover the once lively and cheerful and expressive selves.