Writer Cao Wenxuan said:
The most powerful substance in the world is not heavy and rigid, but soft. ”
Because if everything is too strong, it is easy to break, if it is too strong, it will be difficult to last, and if it is too strong, it will only make you hit a wall everywhere.
In life, when you have experienced some things, you will understand that too many times you don't always need to go on a rampage, but know how to overcome rigidity with softness, which is a manifestation of wisdom and wisdom.
For women, this is precisely their own advantage, too often the label on their body is inseparable from tenderness, gentleness and strength, knowing how to retreat, soft and delicate, it is easier to live a shining life.
Please remember that a truly high-level woman is often inseparable from one word: soft!
In my opinion, blind softness is a weakness, and gentleness with toughness is precisely the most attractive way for a woman to live.
This road is never a clear sky, destined to often encounter heavy rain, this is the normal state of life rather than accidental, if you do not have a flexible mentality, you will only let the bad mood linger around you.
Whenever you encounter some stumbles, you immediately begin to deny yourself, or feel that your life is full of gray, sigh all day long, and make your life worse and worse.
A high-level woman has seen the vastness of the sea and the tranquility of the river, so she will have a flexible mentality and truly live her life.
Even if you are a little worse than others temporarily, you will not show weakness to others casually, but resist the pressure in front of you, take every step of the way, and finally usher in the dawn of life.
If this road does not work, it will also retreat into advance, and go to the dark in another way instead of one road.
A truly flexible woman seems to be weak, but in fact she is strong in her heart, has her own bottom line, and has her own pursuits, and lives a sparkling life in a relaxed and moderate manner.
When interacting with people, even the closest people, if they are more-for-tat and do not give in to each other, the more the relationship between the two people will be strained.
However, if a woman can deal with things gently, not exacerbate contradictions, not be aggressive, and not be humble or arrogant in gentleness, it will be easier to solve the problem.
A gentle woman is like a quiet lake, she will always restrain herself in the calm and calm, and she will not collapse because of some small things while remaining calm.
I have seen such a woman in reality, talking to the person closest to her, just because the other person said a few words that she didn't like to hear, she immediately became emotionally out of control and began to curse the other person.
The more this is the case, the more the relationship between each other deteriorates, and the relationship between the two people comes to an abrupt end.
Gentle women are more likely to be treated, because getting along with them is as warm as bathing in the sun, even if there are differences with each other, under the persuasion of the woman's tender words, the other party will lose his temper in an instant, and the two will be reconciled as before.
A gentle woman can win love, and it is easier to use a woman's natural advantages to highlight her most attractive side and make people love her more and more.
The poet Byron said:
Though your heart is sentimental, it never changes; Your soul is supple, but you never compromise. ”
A truly high-level woman is inseparable from the word soft.
True softness is gentle but not strong, a woman knows the world but not the world, can hide the edge deep inside, tolerate all things with a warm heart, and let herself live a good moment with a state of mind that is not sad or happy.
A gentle woman is more likely to be able to empathize, not only tolerate others' faults, take care of others' shortcomings, and understand people's needs, but the fire of tenderness in her heart will never be extinguished.
Such a woman is more likely to be loved in reality, because her good character will be cherished by others.
The most important thing is that women who can face the world with a soft mind tend to live a comfortable life and will not be sad all day long.
Because they can accept the best side of this world, and they will accept the worst side of this world, and accept this most real world with a mature attitude.
The Tao Te Ching reads:
The good is like water, and the water is good for all things. ”
The reason why water can tolerate all things is that it is easier to reflect its own indisputable tenderness and become the envy of others in the eyes of others.
If you want to live a good present, you can't be too rigid or too weak, but with a soft and tolerant attitude, let yourself forget the unpleasant past, don't worry about the future that has not yet come, but concentrate on living the present, and you will be happier and happier.
True softness is never weak, but a rare wisdom of life.
For wise women, it is precisely to make better use of the power of softness to make themselves live as much as possible.
Be flexible, let yourself stick to your bottom line and principles in retreating and being flexible, and make it easier for you to live a shining life.
Gentleness is the way to deal with people on the road of life, and it is easy to resolve conflicts in the spring breeze and drizzle and win the love of others.
Softness is an inclusive and accepting life mentality, which allows you not to be bound by the past or be intimidated by the future, but to focus on the present and make yourself more and more exciting!
On the long road of life, whether you are weathered or fledgling, you can learn this word, be kind to others, be kind to yourself, and make your life smooth sailing!
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