Wan Chunsheng's (pseudonym) parents divorced at an early age, and he lived with his mother. When he was in high school, he knew that he liked boys, and he liked boys who were rough and wild.
After going to college, I also tried to have several boyfriends, but all of them ended up in failure, and the time together did not add up to more than half a year.
After work, he was with his boyfriend Ah Keung (not his real name), and almost a year later, at the age of 23, he was infected with HIV.
Before going for a routine check-up, he actually had a hunch, and there was always a terrible thought in his heart that wanted to rush out.
In the past, every time he was tested, he put on his transfer beads and silently prayed in his heart for a good result, but this time, he inexplicably felt that praying was useless.
Sure enough, positive. When he learned the results, he was so calm that he surprised himself. But slowly, as if he suddenly woke up, he began to react that he might be "dying".
Her boyfriend, Cuong, left him as soon as he learned of his infection and disappeared without a trace; A colleague who has a good relationship with him happened to have a quarrel with him at this time. Wandering outside, he suddenly became lonely.
When a person closes himself off, he or she can't help but think wildly. "Did Cuong already know that I had AIDS? "Could it be that my colleagues also know that I have HIV? "They must have been saying I was infected, and it's over, everybody knows!" ”
In such days, Wan Chunsheng passed two years. He did not dare to tell his mother, he was afraid that the eyes of his dearest relatives would be full of disappointment; He also did not dare to reveal it to his friends, and he did not want the friendship of more than ten years to break down.
All the sufferings are borne by oneself, working during the day, consuming the rest of one's emotions in the house at night, emaciated, no energy, no vitality, life seems to be going to ashes.
In the end, Wan Chunsheng's mother still knew about it. **, he nervously waited for his mother's "judgment", and finally he heard a sentence: "If you are having a bad time over there, go home." ”
Going home is a word he didn't dare to think of since he dyed Ai. When he returned home and opened the door to his room, he seemed to have found his sleeping soul.
Returning to the familiar environment, he finally dared to slowly stretch out his tentacles to the world and began to bravely face his illness.
The last day of December was Wan Chunsheng's 25th birthday, and like every birthday when he was a child, his mother called relatives and friends to celebrate him. Friends hooked up with him and "damaged" him with words, and at that moment, Wan Chunsheng felt that his life was awakened again.
There was no caution, no special treatment, no evasion and discrimination, and the laughter hid his courage to restart his life.
I underestimated the power of family and friendship, my mother gave me life 25 years ago, and today I have a new life, relatives and friends continue to grow with me as they have for more than 20 years, I should have seized this happiness sooner rather than later, but it is not too late. The little note folded the stars was filled with words, and it was folded into little stars and placed in the deepest part of his wallet.
The first thing we need to do about HIV is to keep ourselves clean and avoid high-risk behaviors, so as to effectively avoid HIV infection.
But careful prevention is not the same as discrimination, nor is it the same as excessive fear, if one day there are people living with HIV around us, or if we know the identity of people living with HIV around us, we should treat them correctly.
AIDS is the common enemy of mankind, and people living with HIV are also victims of the disease, and the principles of equality, respect and non-judgment should be adopted in dealing with them.
For AIDS patients who have been infected, it is the right way to face life in a timely manner, face life positively, and improve immunity!
How to care for people living with HIV/AIDS
OneCare for the mental health of patients from all aspects, help them adjust their psychological state in time, alleviate the "acute stress reaction", and help them get out of the haze as soon as possible.
IIBe sure to treat them equally. Families and friends of patients should not treat AIDS as an outlier, they cannot be infected with HIV through normal daily contact, and the virus is transmitted only in a few very limited ways, so there is no need for any special treatment for people living with HIV.
IIIHelp AIDS patients enrich their lives, divert their attention, relieve themselves in a timely manner, avoid falling into anxiety and depression, and face life positively.
Spread the sunshine of life
Dispel the shadow of AIDS
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*Based on real events, the names in the article have been changed
Reference: AIDS Prevention and Control Education Knowledge Reader, Yang Xianmei
AIDS" Liu Yufen.
HIV/AIDS prevention in Yunnan. **Dragon City Anti-AIDS.