The more effort you try to manage your child, the faster the child will be ruined

Mondo History Updated on 2024-02-22

Zhou Qin especially couldn't understand why he worked hard and tried his best to educate his children, and almost paid all his energy for the children, but he got such a result.

Zhou Qin, who works in a public institution, attaches great importance to the education of her only daughter Xiaowen, often reads some parenting books, learns educational concepts, and takes care of her children meticulously.

At the same time, Zhou Qin did not dare to relax in Xiaowen's learning, and her requirements were very strict. She said to the child, you don't have to care about anything other than studying. Zhou Qin manages everything about Xiaowen in every detail.

Every day after school, Xiaowen finishes the homework assigned by the teacher, and she has to do the homework assigned by Zhou Qin to her and brush up on various questions.

On weekends, I have to go to various cram schools, from going out at 8 o'clock in the morning to returning home at 8 o'clock in the evening, almost every time is reasonably arranged into the schedule that Zhou Qin made for her daughter.

The child is very obedient and well-behaved, and he is also very competitive, and his academic performance has always been at the top of the class.

At the same time, Zhou Qin's brother-in-law's daughter Xiao Xia was also fostered in her house, and the little brother-in-law had no formal job and worked outside, so he had to foster his daughter in Zhou Qin's house.

Xiao Xia and Xiao Wen are the same age and go to the same grade, but their grades are not as good as Xiao Wen, and they are about the middle level.

Zhou Qin is actually very reluctant to foster Xiao Xia in her own home, but she can't help it, because she can't screw her husband.

Therefore, Zhou Qin is neither particularly close nor particularly distant from Xiao Xia. When Zhou Qin tutored her daughter's homework, if Xiao Xia was willing to listen, let her listen, and if she didn't want to listen, let her listen.

Life passed like this, but after entering the second year of high school, Xiaowen's grades gradually declined, and slowly the child took leave every now and then and did not go to school.

Zhou Qin is about to collapse, I feel that my daughter is no longer the obedient and sensible child she used to be, Zhou Qin feels that the sky is about to fall, but there is nothing to be done.

Xiaowen finally reluctantly took the college entrance examination, but it is conceivable that her grades were very unsatisfactory, and she finally went to a vocational school, and after graduation, she didn't look for a job, and stayed at home all day long.

And Xiaoxia's college entrance examination score is slightly higher than usual, she took one or two books, studied in a normal college, and after graduation, she entered a middle school as a teacher, and her job is relatively stable.

Now Zhou Qin is very annoyed, the child doesn't go to work, doesn't go out at home all day, feels that God is too unfair, why is he so concerned about the child, he has paid so much for the child, but in the end he got such a result.

And the child also hates her, the relationship between the two is very bad, she says a word, the child will reply ten sentences, let her go east, she has to go west.

And Xiao Xia, the child of the little uncle, is very grateful to the uncle and aunt for taking care of her at the beginning, and often buys expensive gifts to visit them on holidays.

Zhou Qin especially couldn't understand that she took care of the child so well and created a good environment and conditions for her, but the child is lying flat now, and Xiao Xia has not received such good resources and care, but now she is developing well.

Why is that?

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