I. Formulation of the problem.
In today's society, with the change of family structure and education methods, more and more children show bad behaviors such as lack of gratitude, selfishness, and indifference. These children are often described as "white-eyed wolves", and their actions cause a lot of distress to families and society. So, how to effectively discipline the children of "white-eyed wolves"?
Second, the analysis of the problem.
1.Family factors.
Family is the first classroom for children's growth, and the family environment and education style have a crucial impact on the formation of children's character. Some parents spoil their children too much, causing them to develop a selfish personality that only thinks about their own interests and does not take into account the feelings of others. In addition, some families lack communication, there is no good relationship of trust between parents and children, and children do not have a sense of gratitude to the family and parents.
2.Social environment.
In modern society, information spreads rapidly, and children receive a wide range of information, including some negative information. This information can influence children's values and worldview, leading them to pursue too much personal gain and ignore the rights and interests of others.
3. Problem solving.
1.Establish a good family environment.
Family is the cradle of children's growth, and establishing a harmonious, warm and healthy family environment is an important prerequisite for disciplining "white-eyed wolf" children. Parents should spend more time with their children, communicate with their children, understand their children's needs and ideas, and let their children feel the warmth and love of the family. At the same time, parents should let go appropriately, let their children do what they can independently, and cultivate their children's independence and sense of responsibility.
2.The right way to educate.
Parents should abandon the overly doting education style and learn to let go appropriately so that their children can grow up in frustration. At the same time, parents should guide their children to establish correct values and teach them traditional virtues such as respecting elders, caring for family members, and cherishing friendship. When children behave badly, parents should correct them in time and clearly tell them the right thing to do.
3.Cultivate gratitude in children.
Gratitude is a beautiful quality and a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Parents should teach their children from an early age to know how to be grateful, thank their parents for their nurturing grace, thank teachers for their teachings, and thank friends for their help. Parents can cultivate their children's gratitude through some small things in life, such as asking children to cook a meal for their family, writing a thank you letter for their teachers, etc.
4.Strengthen the incentive mechanism.
For children with "white-eyed wolves", mere criticism and correction may not have a good effect. Therefore, parents can appropriately use incentive mechanisms, such as rewarding children's good behavior, praising children's progress, etc. This can boost your child's motivation and self-confidence, prompting them to gradually change their bad behaviours.
IV. Conclusions. Disciplining a "white-eyed wolf" child is a long and arduous task that requires patience and care from parents. By establishing a good family environment, adopting the right education methods, cultivating children's gratitude, and strengthening incentive mechanisms, we can effectively improve children's behavior and habits, so that they can become moral, quality, and responsible citizens. At the same time, it also contributes to the harmonious happiness of the family and the stable development of society.