What four words would you use to sum up your life? #
Happiness is everyone's wish, but how many people get what they want?
Dong Yuhui said: It is difficult to get what you want in life, and going around is the norm!
Therefore, if a person wants to be happy and get what he wants, he must be able to withstand going around and around, and learn to be more and more courageous!
Lao Tzu said: A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
From the beginning when the child begins to learn to walk, parents should do a good job of guiding him to understand that from the time he falls, he is getting up.
Children who have just learned to walk will always fall. It is normal for parents to feel sorry for their children, but incorrect practices play an important role in the child's future.
Some parents will immediately help their children up, help them pat the dust, and coax their children. Some picked him up directly and didn't let him go, while others shifted the fault and comforted the child and said, Mom hit this place!
The above three methods can lead to children becoming weak, lack independence, and overly dependent on their parents.
The correct way is not to help him, but to encourage him to stand up. This incident may seem small, but it can cultivate the child's ability to be independent, so that he understands that the fall is due to his own mistakes, and he should watch the road in the future not to fall.
There is a famous saying: "There can be no success and no failure in life." Failure can often forge a person's ability to resist pressure"!
The road of life is full of ups and downs, bumpy, perhaps muddy, and full of hardships. Just like when I was learning to walk when I was a child, I would fall if I wasn't careful.
If you lack the ability to get up after falling, blindly waiting for help from others, like giving up on yourself, you will often collapse, and the final result can only be nothing.
People have learned to go uphill, but also learn to go downhill, only those who have experienced setbacks, can get a complete life. ”
As a parent, from the day your child learns to walk, you should teach him to get up on his own if he falls, no matter where he is. Every child will fall in the process of growing up, as long as they can stand up through their own strength after every fall, they will be able to walk more steadily and better in the future.
How to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain! "Parents love their children, if they teach their children to accept the test of storms from an early age, cultivate their ability to resist pressure, and let them have the ability to get out of difficulties and overcome difficulties. Then, I'm afraid that the child won't be able to make a difference in the future!
So the summary of life is: "The more frustration, the braver!" ”
Only with the ability to resist frustration can we achieve more and more frustration, and only by becoming more and more courageous can we break through ourselves, go to the next level, and achieve our life goals.