Most people are blind in love and can ignore all the shortcomings of the other person, and when they are in this sweet relationship, they often make it impossible to judge right from wrong and willingly give everything they have. However, marriage is different from love, if there is no certain "right match", the gap between the two parties who have been raised since childhood, values and living habits may be a huge gap, and when the passion brought by love fades, it will lead to a lot of conflicts. So, what is the ending when the love that happens between a 38-year-old beautiful teacher and a 65-year-old cleaner?
Chen Bibo is an ordinary sanitation worker in Yueyang, Hunan Province, and his love affair with Huang Xiuqun is a surprisingly sweet and extremely painful experience for him. The worldly vision is very powerful, Huang Xiuqun is only 38 years old, he is still an English teacher, and the gap between him and a sanitation worker is like a heaven and an underground, however, the two have experienced a lot together, and finally overcome all kinds of difficulties and come together. It is worth mentioning that in the process, they not only have to face the pressure of relatives and friends around them, but also need to face the opposition on the Internet.
Resisting all this, Huang Xiuqun just said:Except for Chen Bibo, everyone else is a general。Their love was not expected to be so great, which many people cannot achieve.
In fact, before that, Chen Bibo was not a sanitation worker. At first, he was still a small boss, and his family had a small bungalow and car, and his life was quite good. However, because he was engaged in real estate, once the investor did not give money, there was a problem in the capital chain, and later, he could not even pay the wages of the workers under him, so he could only sell his property, and finally owed a debt.
Chen Bibo went around collecting debts and found a job as a sanitation worker. Once on a train to Beijing, he met Huang Xiuqun. At that time, he was looking for a seat, but found that he had a suitcase on his seat, so he asked, but he didn't expect to see a woman's smiling face, and Chen Bibo apologized to the other party apologetically, and the two chatted. He told Huang Xiuqun his tortuous story, from rich to poor, and now working as a sanitation worker. Huang Xiuqun was immediately attracted, it turned out that this person had experienced such ups and downs.
When the train was about to reach its destination, Huang Xiuqun couldn't help but want to ask Chen Bibo's address, saying that he hoped to make a friend. As a result, Chen Bibo did not agree, after all, he was already a handful of years old and was still so poor, who would want to make friends with him? So, they politely rejected the other party.
However, fate is wonderful. After Chen Bibo returned home from Beijing, he actually met Huang Xiuqun again, and it was even more coincidental that she was teaching at a nearby school. Similarly, Huang Xiuqun was also surprised when he saw him, fate is really something that can't be avoided. She slowly began to contact him, and knew that Chen Bibo had been married twice, had two children, and his family was very bad. Chen Bibo told all of this in their early relationship, and what he was afraid of was that Huang Xiuqun had different feelings for him. Huang Xiuqun did not dislike it after hearing this, but felt that he was helpless now and often took care of him.
However, Chen Bibo began to have a sense of fear for all this, why should such a good woman like him? How he should respond to this relationship and how to give her a secure life have made him avoid Huang Xiuqun's hints. There was no way, he decided to let her break off this thought, saying that although his ex-wife and he were divorced, the two still loved each other due to financial pressure. If the ex-wife comes back, I still have to be with her.
It's a pity that even such sad words can't stop Huang Xiuqun's concern for Chen Bibo. She said she was his friend and there was no need to resist it. I still go to his rental house every day to see him, cook and clean for him. In the end, Chen Bibo still couldn't resist such an excellent woman, who was able to like herself when she was most embarrassed, and her own conditions were so good, Huang Xiuqun's persistence moved him very much.
It is also normal for these two people not to receive the blessings of those around them. The disparity in age and family background are too big, making it difficult to imagine what kind of life the two will live in the future. But the strange thing is that they still carried a lot of pressure and entered the palace of marriage in 2012. The life after marriage is also very happy, Chen Bibo is a very good person, he cares for his wife, the two love each other, and they have crossed the gap in age and wealth, and the obstacles of the people around them. Husbands and wives who have suffered together will one day be able to enjoy together.
In real life, there are not many examples such as Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun, they are pure love, the mutual attraction of two souls, rather than simply looking at external love. There is no interest involved in their eyes, they just find the other half, and as a result, their lives are complete, and this completeness cannot be made up for by money. Even worldly prejudices could not defeat their sincere and passionate love for each other, and I sincerely hope that they can be happy forever.