Men and women have an "illegitimate" relationship, which signs can be seen at a glance
In real life, there are some men and women who have an abnormal relationship, they may already have their other half, but they still maintain an ambiguous state with others, which is neither friends nor lovers, but a kind of ambiguous zone in between. This kind of relationship is a kind of harm to oneself and others, it will destroy the original relationship, and it will also cause distress to the other person. So, is there an "illicit" relationship between men and women, and what are the signs that can be seen through at a glance?
First of all, a clear sign is frequent contact, late-night chatting. If a man or a woman is constantly in contact with a person of the opposite sex, and it is not necessary for work or study, but on some irrelevant topic, or even some ambiguous words, then it is a sign that there is an abnormal relationship between them. Their motivation for doing so may be to seek emotional resonance and fulfillment, because they feel that their significant other does not give them enough attention and understanding, so they look for solace in others. However, the consequence of this behavior may lead to emotional transgression and derailment, because in their constant communication and exchange, they may have a feeling that goes beyond friendship, and even some ulterior things will happen.
Secondly, a clear sign is that the eyes are ambiguous and the title is special. If a man or a woman always looks at each other with an affectionate look when getting along with a person of the opposite sex, and also gives each other some special titles, such as dear, baby, husband, wife, etc., then it means that there is an abnormal relationship between them. Their motivation for doing this may be to express their liking for the other person and to distinguish them from others, because they feel that the other person has an attraction that makes them feel attractive, so they want to use this way to hint at their own hearts. However, the consequence of this behavior may be to expose their minds and cause misunderstandings, because by doing so, they may make the other party or others mistakenly believe that they are already a pair of lovers, or they deliberately hook up with each other, thus causing some unnecessary trouble.
Again, a telltale sign is to behave intimately and be overly caring. If a man or a woman always uses an intimate gesture when getting along with a person of the opposite sex, such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, or even touching and pinching, then it means that there is an abnormal relationship between them. Their motivation for doing this may be to enjoy the other person's body and care, because they feel that their significant other cannot give them enough warmth and security, so they look for stimulation and comfort in others. However, the consequences of this behavior may be to violate the other person's bottom line and hurt their lover, because by doing so, they may make the other person feel uncomfortable and disrespectful, or let their other half find out and be angry, which will lead to the breakdown of the relationship and the loss of trust.
Finally, a clear sign is that there is nothing to talk about, no secrets. If a man or a woman always tells each other everything about himself when he gets along with a person of the opposite sex, including his preferences, experiences, and even some private things, and he does not shy away from his other half, then it means that there is an abnormal relationship between them. Their motivation for doing this may be to share their hearts and build trust, because they feel that the other person is someone they can talk to and trust, so they want to tell each other everything about themselves and let the other person know about themselves. However, the consequence of this behavior may be to leak their privacy and destroy their feelings, because by doing so, they may let the other party know something they shouldn't know, or make their other half feel left out and betrayed, thus causing some unnecessary disputes and conflicts.
In conclusion, an abnormal relationship between a man and a woman is an irresponsible act that can cause harm to oneself and others. Therefore, we should understand that men and women should do something and not do something, maintain an appropriate distance and proportion, respect the feelings of themselves and others, and do not do things that they and others regret.