Two days ago, I saw a post by a girl on a certain platform:
I am in my 20s, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and I am strong enough to buy lipstick and cosmetics for myself.
I don't want my boyfriend to be rich, and when we hang out, we don't care about the cost.
We get along very purely, without those trivial things that are conflicting between couples. ”
The wallet determines happiness, and feelings without a material foundation are like a papier-mâché house, which collapses with a gust of wind.
Everyone can say the mountain alliance and sea oath, but only in the face of money and reality can we see the true face of a person.
A person who is not willing to spend money for you will also not give you a sense of security, let alone a stable future.
As the saying goes, talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money.
But then again, the relationship that can really withstand the test must be inseparable from talking about money.
If you want to know what kind of person the other person is, you will never know if you don't talk about money.
People who want to live with you for a long time will not only take the initiative to talk about money, but also be willing to spend money for you, and will not calculate with you in these aspects.
Because he thinks that you are the one who can join hands with him for the rest of his life.
No matter how difficult it is, he will find a way not to let you be wronged, and if others have it and you don't, he will feel very guilty.
Such a person, although he may not be very rich, can make you feel very warm, and you are willing to share the ups and downs with him.
Some people become very sensitive when they mention money, and they start to cry poor before they say a word, and they blame the other party for being too materialistic.
He is with you, and he is not willing to spend a penny, and every account is calculated very carefully, for fear that you will take advantage of him.
You won't be comfortable living with such a petty person.
Be realistic, there's nothing wrong with that!
Although it is possible to fall in love as long as the relationship does not have bread, marriage is not so simple.
It is said that "rich people become bad", but sometimes people who don't have money are more attentive.
You think that if you have suffered together, the other party will cherish you more.
In fact, if you meet a stingy person, he will be even more harsh on you because of this, and you have to take care of everything.
There are always people who think things too beautifully, think that love is everything, and believe other people's nonsense.
It wasn't until after marriage that I realized that I was really too innocent before.
The sacrifice you make for the other party, the other party not only does not appreciate it, but thinks that you are cheap and mercilessly squanders your sincerity.
When that happens, regret won't help.
Seriously, people are not afraid of living a hard life, but they are afraid that their efforts will not be paid a little attention.
It's okay to encounter a little grievance in life, but if you are wronged, it is really difficult to continue to live.
If in the eyes of the other party, you are not worth a penny from him spending a penny for you, there is really no need for this relationship to continue.
Give love or money, choose one of the two, it's as simple as that.
Don't love until the end, only you will lose a mess.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Some people say that if marriage is not implemented in such trivial matters as dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will definitely not last long.
It doesn't matter how much money you have, it's important to be willing to spend money for you, which shows how much the other party values you.
If you want to have a good relationship, talking about money is a must.
To live together, we still have to face reality.
Unilateral compromise cannot be exchanged for a lifetime of togetherness, and money is the most direct test of feelings.
A cup of hot water will become cold if it is left out for a long time, and a true heart will become light if it is left out.
Only when two people are moving in the same direction can they go all the way.
If the other person's heart is no longer with you, no matter how much you insist, it will be in vain, and it will end one day.
Remember, both men and women, those who don't want to talk to you about money don't plan to stay with you for a long time, let alone cherish you.
When you meet such a person, it is best to stay away as soon as possible.
Someone who loves you will definitely be willing to spend money for you.