If I could cross over, I would like to tell my young mom this.
If I could go back in time, back to that prime of life, and meet that young mother, the first thing I would say would be, "You know what? One day in the future, you will be an amazing mother. ”
At that time, my mother, perhaps looking forward to her future career or spending time with friends, might have looked up in surprise and asked me why I said that. I would smile and continue: "Because you will have endless patience to solve one problem after another for your child." ”
When it comes to children, young mothers may show a little curiosity and expectation. I would take the opportunity to ask, "What do you imagine a mother's love to look like?" She might describe some heartwarming images, such as cooking for her children and playing with them. Then, I would tell her that, in fact, motherly love is much more than that.
Do you know? Some data show that mothers sleep an average of two hours less every night when their children are growing up, just to ensure that their children are well. You will stay up all night caring for your child when he is sick; When your child is lost, let go of everything to comfort. "I say this to let my mother understand that the greatness of maternal love is far greater than she imagined.
Young mothers may be a little worried: "Can I do it well?" Would I be a qualified mother? I would tell her firmly, "You will." Although you will make mistakes, it is these mistakes that make you more authentic and also make your relationship with your child deeper. ”
Then, I would remind her that she may lose some of her personal time and space when she becomes a mother, but it will be worth it. "Because you will gain countless precious moments with your children, and these moments will be the most precious treasure of your life. ”
Speaking of which, young moms may already be full of anticipation and curiosity about the future. I would conclude by saying to her, "Remember, no matter what happens in the future, believe in yourself." You are the strongest backing for children and the gentlest harbor for them. I love you, future mom. ”
This story may be what each of us wants to tell our young mothers. They are our guardians and the most important people in our lives. Let us cherish every moment with our mother in the long river of time.