RetirementIt is a vital event in the lives of the elderly. However, for some who have a regular income but still faceRetirementFor the elderly who are in trouble, they are always looking for suitable solutions. In this article, I will tell you the story of an 83-year-old father and an 81-year-old mother. theirsPensionRelative scarcity, and they face concerns that there is no one to take care of.
My father is an 83-year-old retired teacher from the countryside who only gets 4,000 yuan a monthPensions, and the old mother only has 100 yuan per monthPensions。Such a meager onePensionThis makes their lives very difficult and they are unable to meet their basic needs. Faced with this problem, they began to think about how to solve it.
The old father does not want to rely on his children and wants to be able to live comfortably on his own. However, due to age restrictions, he has been unable to continue in other jobs. The old mother tried her best to find all kinds of things in her hometownSide hustlesto increase revenue. Together, they planted peanutsSweet potatoes, sesame seeds, soybeans and other crops, the old mother also picks and collects them in the nearby mountains. The crops they grow and the mountain goods they pick can be exchanged for some extra income.
However, as they grew older, the father and mother gradually felt that they could no longer continue to do the heavy farm work with their own energy and energy, and they also worried that their children would not be able to take care of them when they left home. As a result, they decided to reduce the cultivation of their crops, but still struggled to make ends meet.
Since there was no one else living in their hometown, the old father and mother began to consider moving to the city. Their children work in the city and have a relatively stable income and living environment, and the elderly father and mother believe that they can live a better life in the city.
However, the old father and the old mother are equally facingRetirementThe choice of the hospital is a problem, because they don't want to put too much burden on their children. AlthoughRetirementThe hospital could provide better living conditions and care, but the old father and mother felt that they were still capable of taking care of themselves and were unwilling to rely on others.
In order to be able to take care of their elderly father and mother, the children decided to rent a house closer to them in the city. While there will be some additional costs associated with this, they are willing to put in the effort for such an arrangement. Every week, the children visit them to help them solve their difficulties in life. At the same time, they also take turns going home to cook meals to ensure the quality of life of the old father and the old mother.
The old mother was worried about the future, and she was worried that she had no one to take care of her. She thinks of her ownPensionsToo little, noEconomyAbility to be independent, difficulty finding someone to take care of yourself. However, their children have always cared for them and will do their best to provide them with care and support.
Changing attitudes is a gradual process, and it takes time for older mothers to adapt to the new way of life. The children want her to broaden her horizons, adapt positively to city life, and spend her old age with them. Children do not see caring for the elderly as a burden, but as a responsibility and obligation.
In this story, we see the old father and the old mother facingRetirementplight and the efforts of the children to care for them. AlthoughPensionLower, but old-fashionedSide hustlesand the support of their children have made their lives somewhat better in the difficult situation. The choice of urban pension provides them with better living conditions, yet the elderly mother still has doubts and worries. Children need more timeLoveTo understand and accompany the elderly, so that they can live a happy old age.
For each of us, caring for and caring for the elderly is not only a responsibility, but also an expression of emotion. When they are old and frail, we should do our best to provide them with support and care, so that they can feel the warmth and security of their families. At the same time, we should rethinkSocialForRetirementThe concept of respecting the choices of the elderly and providing them with better welfare and security as much as possible.
Whether it's inRuralOr in the city, every elderly person should have their own dignity and rights, and should not be causedPensionThe level of income is ignored. We should pay attention to and care for those elderly people who need help, so that they can live a peaceful and happy life in their old age.