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In the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the whole society is filled with a strong festive atmosphere, and people gather together to celebrate the arrival of the New Year. And on this cold and lively day, something happened that made people sympathetic. A woman with her child came to ask for an account, but was blamed by people. There was a lot of discussion about whether the woman's behavior was appropriate.
On that day, the woman stood in the hallway with her young child, confronting the owner of the house at their destination. Seeing the woman's child, others felt distressed by her timid expression. Some people believe that it is inappropriate for a woman to bring a child to ask for an account, which causes a psychological burden on the child and may even leave a psychological shadow. They say that the debtor should be required to repay, but the child should not be involved. They questioned whether the woman was using the child as a tool or a means to add pressure to the account.
Others think that this woman has gone too far. Because the Chinese New Year's Eve came to block the door to ask for accounts, if the debtor has money, he will naturally pay it back, so why bother? This view was immediately refuted by other netizens. They said that if they had not experienced the situation firsthand, they should not easily blame the woman. For those scoundrels who are unwilling to repay, it is very difficult to get the bill. They may have called ** or sent WeChat messages many times without responding, and even if they have been to their usual residence, they cannot find it. But in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, these people will definitely be at home, so the woman will have to do it. If there were other methods, who would choose to take their children to ask for the bill?
According to the woman, this person owes their family more than 100,000 yuan and has been in arrears for seven or eight years. When they helped this person, the other party passed on the word of mouth and promised many sweet words. But when it came time to repay the loan, he became cold and ruthless, forgetting how he was rescued when he borrowed money. He only cares about how to default in various ways, and even wants the other party to feel subservient. Some netizens said that they had experienced a similar experience, taking their two-year-old children to collect debts in their Chinese New Year's Eve, and now they still feel uncomfortable in retrospect.
Some bystanders sympathized with the child, but also understood the woman's behavior. After all, as the mother of the child, doesn't she feel more sorry for the child than others? There is nothing wrong with letting children understand the reality of life, letting her understand the other side of human nature, and also making her understand the difficulties of being a parent. There are also some netizens who expressed support for the woman's behavior, believing that she did nothing wrong. They even advised her to bring food, drinks, and sit on a stool in front of the door of the debtor's house, so that the neighbors around her knew what the person was like. After all, such a person has no face.
In addition, the woman was also given advice. In their view, the traditional approach to these debt disputes is no longer applicable. Just suing the other party will not make them truly realize their problems, and may even make the other party have more resentment towards you, and thus more arrears. In this case, the other party should be sued directly and more forceful legal measures should be adopted to resolve it. These people who are not willing to pay their debts are indeed infuriating. Although the child is too young to be involved, if there is a way, this mother will not choose to act like this. These defaulters, they should remember that they borrowed money from others because of their difficulties, and they should not take revenge. If you can empathize, it is right to pay back the money early, otherwise, you will only have to wait for legal punishment in the future.
Undoubtedly, the woman's practice of bringing her children to ask for accounts in the Chinese New Year's Eve sparked widespread discussion. I deeply understand the mother's desire to get her fair share back, but at the same time, I can't deny the impact of this behavior on her child. As parents, we should protect our children's mental health and try our best to avoid getting them into disputes.
Of course, everyone's situation is different, and people who are facing debt arrears may choose different ways to solve the problem. Some people may choose to recover their rights and interests through gentle methods such as reconciliation and negotiation, while others may choose to go directly to the account, like this mother. The problem behind this is that there are still many flaws and loopholes in the debt problem in our society, which leads some debtors to default on their repayments. In this regard, the law should pay more attention to this issue and introduce more effective regulations and measures to protect the interests of creditors.
We cannot place the blame entirely on people who are in arrears and unwilling to pay their debts. Maybe they're in trouble and can't pay their debts. Therefore, in the process of resolving the debt problem, we should remain rational and objective, looking for reasonable solutions, and at the same time taking into account the interests of all parties.
To sum up, whether it is the behavior of a woman with a child to ask for an account, or the resolution of debt disputes, it requires the common attention and efforts of our whole society. Only by continuously improving laws and regulations and strengthening the establishment of the social credit system can we better protect the rights and interests of creditors and safeguard social fairness and justice. At the same time, as ordinary people, we should also strengthen education and mutual assistance, cultivate a correct view of money and credit awareness, and avoid all kinds of adverse consequences brought about by debt problems.
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