Before choosing a marriage partner, you must keep your eyes open, and families with these situations must definitely be cautious:
In all family models, the first lightning protection is always the one"Mom Baby" 。
In a family, if the parents are too strong, the child will become cowardly, he will not dare to resist, lose the ability to think independently, and slowly develop the habit of relying on others.
With such a man, you will feel very hard, because you are not only his wife, but also need to play the role of his mother, take care of him, protect him, and even accommodate him.
But as soon as something happened, the relationship between the two suddenly disappeared, and what others said was what it was.
Once in married life, if the couple's small family and the original family cannot properly handle the relationship, it can easily lead to conflicts and friction between the husband and wife.
If you notice a patriarchal phenomenon within your significant other, or in the family as a whole, be careful.
In patriarchal families, women's status is often ignored or underestimated, and women's rights and interests are difficult to protect.
Married to such a family, even if the man himself is not patriarchal, under the influence of the family, he may unconsciously reveal prejudice against women.
Living in such a family, women may face all kinds of injustices and pressures, and even affect the relationship between husband and wife.
This unequal value may carry over into marriage, leading to inequality and contradictions between husband and wife.
When it comes to getting married, you must be right.
If the gap between the two families is too large, it may lead to conceptual conflicts and inadaptability of living habits.
These will become the first bomb in married life, which may detonate at any time.
The door-to-door pair here not only refers to the economic conditions, but also whether the three views are consistent, because only when the three views are consistent, the attitude towards problems can be consistent, the ideas of solving problems can be the same, and there will be fewer conflicts in marriage.
It's not that if you don't come from a bad background, you can't meet a good partner, but when the cognitive and income gap between the two families is too large, it is difficult for all your values and behaviors to converge.
In such a family, parents may interfere excessively in their children's marital life, leading to conflicts and friction between husband and wife.
People who truly respect your family, who don't care about your feelings, who speak to your face, and who don't pay any attention to your emotional changes, are nothing more than "unscrupulous" with your love and feel that you won't leave.
There are some things that can be avoided before marriage, don't wait until after marriage to repent.
Mutual respect is the basis for love and marriage, don't let your love be too cheap and humble.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, it is necessary to understand whether the other family respects the children's choices and whether they can give the children enough freedom and space.
If there is a lack of communication in the other family, or if there are frequent quarrels and conflicts between family members, then the person who grew up in such a family may lack the ability to handle the marital relationship.
If your future partner comes from such a family, then you need to seriously consider whether the marriage will allow you to have independent living space and autonomy.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, it is important to understand how the other family's family gets along and the family atmosphere.
Conclusion: The above five types of families, it is recommended that you stay away, no matter how much you love, don't joke about your happiness, and don't be afraid that you will never meet true love again if you leave this person.