Love started out as a hormone, and then there was a method.
I compare love to a flower. The first thing that attracts you is the appearance of the flower, the second thing that attracts you is the fragrance, and the last thing that attracts you is its character.
The same applies to love. If you want to be loved by someone for a long time and always glamorous, look at the effect of the south wind.
Many of us have heard of the southerly effect. The so-called south wind effect is actually a race between the south wind and the north wind to see who can blow away the clothes of pedestrians.
As a result, the north wind and the Korean wind became stronger, and the pedestrians wrapped their clothes tightly, while the south wind began to blow slowly, and finally, the pedestrians took off their heavy clothes.
In a relationship, if you blow like the north wind, the other person will not be able to accept and love you.
It's like imposing love on the other person, and the other person can't get used to it.
If we are like the south wind, slowly approaching others and making them accept and feel, they will naturally like us.
Love looks beautiful at first glance, but getting along requires patience and wisdom.
A lot of love is in the process of getting along, and gradually fades away. Making friends is unpleasant and painful, so many people gradually give up in the process of trying to make friends.
Really smart people don't do such things.
In the process of getting to know each other, love flows slowly between them like a south wind.
Every day is warm and cozy. The warmer and more comfortable you are, the more your partner will like you.
There is a saying: "You think you love that person, but you actually love emotions".
When we are like the south wind, what we give each other is emotion, warmth, and happiness.
When you feel happy and good, you will naturally enjoy that feeling more and love someone more.
When you genuinely want someone to love you, you need to learn the south wind effect and use it to attract someone.
First of all, don't worry if something happens.
The most feared thing in relationships is that if you rush things or face them too quickly, the other person will only end up hating you.
At this moment, we need to calm down, think calmly about this problem, and tell ourselves to deal with this problem calmly.
By doing so, the other party will trust us more.
Second: Don't blame or complain.
In relationships, no matter how much we love them, we are afraid of criticism or complaining.
When there are more criticisms and complaints, there will naturally be fewer emotions.
After my friend Kiyoko dated her boyfriend, she handled everything calmly and did not blame or criticize him.
Comfort your boyfriend first and then deal with it.
Therefore, her boyfriend liked Chinji even more and said to Chinji: "I want to be with you, otherwise I will never meet such a good person in the future." ”
Yes! Anyone can think and identify.
Everyone will make the right choice between those who make them feel comfortable and those who don't.
Finally, be kind and show your love.
Emotions need love.
The more love you have for each other, the better it will be. Because the more you love, the more the other person will love you and treat you better.
That is, in love, if you want someone else to love you more, or if you want someone else to love you more, you have to learn to take advantage of the south wind effect.