In a romantic relationship, we both want our partner to respect, value, and appreciate us.
However, sometimes relationships don't go as planned.
They look down on us, don't care about us, and even look at us with contempt and disdain. At this time, it may not be the arrogance of the other party, but our own fault.
Every woman wants her partner to be stronger, protect her, and make her life better.
When men are too cowardly, they are not only unable to protect women, but also their most basic rights and interests.
How do men and women appreciate this?
Wang Huang and her boyfriend broke up after less than six months of dating. The reason we broke up was simple. Because her boyfriend is so stingy.
Wang Huang said that once, while they were walking down the street together, someone bumped into her, causing everything in her hand to fall.
Not only did the other party not apologize, but also said that Wang Juan didn't look at the road when she walked. Wang Juan was very angry, but her boyfriend apologized and said, "I'm sorry." ”
Seeing her boyfriend like this, Wang Juan was obviously even more angry. It's not your problem, the other party's attitude suddenly changes, why do you apologize, why do you say it's your problem?
Afterwards, her boyfriend told Ms. Wang Huang that it was better to do less than more.
Faced with such a cowardly boyfriend, Wang Juan chose to break up.
A man who is too cowardly will only be looked down upon by women. Not only do women not know how to assert their rights, but they are also more vulnerable to bullying.
A woman who follows such a man will only suffer endless resentment and will naturally despise him.
Xiao Yang is a very assertive person and will not insist on his own opinions at any time.
Always listen to what others say, always do things with the flow, and never pay attention to their own ideas.
Whether it's something as small as what to eat or as big as choosing a partner, we all need advice from others.
I ask a lot of people every day. Sometimes I ask, do you think she's okay? Do you think she's a good fit?
His family introduced him to someone, but he wasn't sure if they were a good fit. Ask family today, friends tomorrow, and colleagues the day after tomorrow. He has no opinion.
Seeing that Xiaoyan was so helpless, the woman offered to break up.
Human beings are incapable of making decisions without independent opinion and are easily influenced and swayed by the words of others.
The important thing is that it will be tiring to live with such a man in the future, everything has to be decided by yourself, everything is on your own.
Such a man simply does not exist, and women will naturally despise him.
An unmotivated person is like a big moth in the house.
Instead of making this house better, let this house get worse and worse.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Baiguan is a very unmotivated man. It seems that he always wants to make a lot of money, but he can't give up his efforts and work hard with peace of mind.
I always want to invest 10,000 or 20,000 and make a lot of money.
At first, Mr. Ziqun always gave him money to do business and always believed in him. However, every time Mr. Baiguan invested money, he began to call the shots, and he was no longer willing to settle down and work hard.
In the end none of them succeeded, and in the end he just failed.
An unmotivated man destroys his own family, makes family life worse and worse, and makes the family atmosphere worse and worse.
No woman would look down on such a man.
Frankly speaking, whether a man is valued by women mainly depends on whether he works hard enough and whether he has the capital to be valued by women.
If a man doesn't do his best, women will naturally look down on him.