Seeing all kinds of things in the world, who doesn't want their daughter-in-law to be diligent? In the past, the common people praised the diligent little daughter-in-law for a pair of scissors on the kang and a broom on the kang. It means that it is made to knit female red, and it can be cleaned up at home and outside.
In fact, women not only have to do housework, in the past, the family had land, and women in the field also had to do it. Have you seen the movie "Li Shuangshuang", which tells the story of a hardworking and capable woman. Li Shuangshuang's husband Xiwang is not only lazy but also machismo, Li Shuangshuang is different from him, not only does housework well, but also works in the field.
Such a woman must be praised by everyone! is not only praised, but it is simply the daughter-in-law of someone else's family, "If you look at the daughter-in-law of other people, then it is called capable!" ”
Now there is no land to plant, but the workplace! Nowadays, most women work, and it is too common for women to not let their eyebrows be shaved at work.
The workplace is hard, and the family has to worry about children and adults. If you meet a responsible and caring man, it's okay, you can help yourself a lot. If you accidentally look away before marriage, the men in the family will lie down and rot all kinds after marriage, and when you return home, except for Ge You, you are tired of playing with mobile game consoles. Then such a woman is pitiful, not only worrying about the child, but simply worrying about the child +1, and that 1 is her husband who is not in tune! [laughs and cries].
In this way, women will also complain and nag while busy inside and out.
I'm exhausted from busy work during the day, and now the workplace is so volatile! No one tolerates you and sympathizes with you just because you are a woman! It doesn't make you do less just because you have a young baby at home or snow-white hair on your head.
When you get home, there's a room of work waiting for you! Meals have to be made, the floor has to be mopped, clothes have to be washed, and the baby's homework has to be tutored. A big family, seven aunts and eight aunts have to worry about what to maintain!
So I had to go out of my way! I can't sleep in the middle of the night, and backache is the norm. Not for anything else, just to let others say that she is a good daughter-in-law and a good mother, just to prevent people from saying that woman is too lazy to talk!
If you do this when you are young, it is nothing, relying on your young physical strength, and if you are tired and sleep, you will be resurrected with full blood.
But after the age of fifty, you really don't want to do that. As the saying goes, people don't rely on their muscles and bones to be able to do it, fifty years old is not old, and they haven't even retired yet, so they are not young people after all. To be honest, if you don't dye your hair for two months, will your hair be white? White, just tell you that the years are not forgiving, and the youth has quietly left!
A woman who is no longer young doesn't need to care too much about other people's evaluations, she should care about the feeling of her body.
It's okay to do your job well in the workplace, and as for the competition, let it be left to young people. Of course, it's okay to come up with an idea when young people need it.
It's not that you are cheating and slippery, but I just said that you should take it easy, don't rivet too much, otherwise you will make yourself thankless and hurt without heart. Learning to take a back seat in your heart and take the initiative to marginalize yourself is not necessarily a smart move!
This is true in the workplace, and it is the same at home! People are over fifty, and the children are older. A woman who has been a "housewife" for decades should delegate her power, and she should let it go! Let the children do some things. Let them call the shots, let them do the work, and they will do whatever they do.
When a woman is over fifty, she must be willing to let go, no matter what, she can't work as hard as when she was young! Otherwise, if your body is tired, no one will praise you if you are tired. I feel wronged, and I don't want to be seen!