The Power of Trust: Read the Story of "Zhuangzi Xu Wu Ghost" and Feel the Beauty of Trust In "Zhuangzi Xu Wu Ghost", there is a story called "Fortune into the Wind", which tells the story of a craftsman named a stonemason who applies a layer of white powder as thin as a fly's wing to his friend's nose, and then swings an axe to peel off the white powder like a gust of wind, while his friend's face does not change when he swings the axe.
The story was originally meant to be a compliment to people's skill, but I saw another meaning in it – trust between people. In real life, we also need this trust.
Whether it is a relative, a lover or a friend, if we can trust each other, we can achieve a tacit understanding, an understanding, and a kind of giving without any suspicion. It is a very selfless and sincere emotion, and everyone should cherish and maintain this trust.
However, trust is something that takes a long time to get along with and communicate with each other, and once lost, it may only take a moment. Therefore, we should maintain absolute sincerity and loyalty to our loved ones, lovers and friends, and do what we say.
In short, trust is a kind of beauty, but also a kind of fate. Let's cherish it together, maintain it, and make it a force in our lives.
Inner beauty is better than outer beauty"- This is a long-standing adage. As stunning as our appearance can be, true beauty comes from our knowledge, learning, and character.
A person's temperament is an external reflection of inner cultivation. If you lack knowledge and cultivation, you will lose your temperament, even if you wear name brands, jewelry, or even speak ill of you.
Therefore, if you want to improve your temperament, you need to constantly improve your knowledge, learning, and morality. Doing so can make your conversation, behavior, and manners appear fresher, more natural, more refined, and more elegant.
Your temperament will be like that of a movie star like Qin Yi, even if you are old, you will still be beautiful. Remember, temperament is the best calling card, you don't need to introduce yourself or sell it, just stand in the crowd and people will be attracted to your temperament.
Quit color, abstain from fighting, and abstain"This is the theory of the three precepts put forward by Confucius in the Analects. Young people should quit sex and fighting, and middle-aged people should quit. However, as an older person, I would like to emphasize the importance of abstinence.
De refers to insatiable greed. The old man's old age and blood are declining, and the evil consequences of greed cannot be harmed. We should be healthy, go with the flow, break the shackles of fame and fortune, and withdraw from Vanity Fair and the circle of influence.
Don't fight for what you shouldn't fight, and don't fight for your children and grandchildren. The health secret of the elderly is to be pure in heart and have few desires, go with the flow, do what you can and like, and don't exceed the load of your body.
Greed is never a good thing, the elderly should not be demanding of fame and fortune, not be angry and angry, give up early, not greedy for delicious, not evil thoughts, do not read useless books, and do not work hard if they are not in a hurry, this is the real way of health preservation.
Everyone has their own personality and national character, and we must respect our own personality while maintaining the national character of the country. I remember reading the text of "Yan Zi Makes Chu" in middle school, Yan Zi was an envoy sent by Qi to Chu, and the people of Chu made a small door like a dog hole for him to enter because of his short stature.
Yan Zi resolutely defended his personality and national character, and finally won the respect of the people of Chu. Compared with Yanzi, we should be proud of our motherland and actively safeguard the honor and dignity of the country.
We should love our motherland and respect every inch of its land and every person.
The way to make friends has existed since ancient times. "Friends are good friends, but bad friends. This is what Confucius taught in the Analects. Yiyou are those who are fair, upright, generous, kind, and well-informed, and they can help us grow and walk the right path.
Bad friends are those who are flattering, flattering, cunning and treacherous, and they may lead us down the wrong path. Therefore, we should make good friends and stay away from bad friends.
In particular, those friends who dare to criticize us and protect us are all the more worthy of our cherishment. At the same time, we should also be wary of those who cover up our mistakes and exonerate us, because their actions may lead us deeper and deeper.
In general, the way to make friends is to be good at discernment and choose people who are really beneficial to us.
Ordinary people who don't see their own mistakes, because they don't know how to introspect, accumulate mistakes over time. And virtuous people are strict with themselves, such as Confucius, who has high standards and strict requirements for what he does.
Introspection not only gives me the opportunity to make corrections, but also becomes a benchmark for moving towards a noble life. Everyone can become a sage, as long as we minimize our self-interest, sublimate our rationality to the highest, think more for others and think less for ourselves.
Reflecting on and practicing good deeds is the key to transcending ordinary people, let us start today, always reflect on our words and deeds, and move forward to a higher and more beautiful life.
Sunday, July 10, 2016 No one is hungry for success, and no one is envious of successful people. There are many factors to success, but knowledge, insight, and courage are indispensable for the success of any business.
Knowledge is the driving force of success, insight is the ballast stone of success, and courage is the key to success. Most of the knowledge is created by predecessors and others, and is acquired from learning and experienced.
Insight is the integration of the knowledge obtained, the living and application, and the generation of their own opinions. Courage is also in learning knowledge, having insight, on this basis, with the ability to judge and make decisions.
Three, knowledge is the foundation, insight is sublimation, and courage is the use of knowledge and insight to take action. Or, like the Great Leap Forward, shouting: how bold people are, how productive the land is.
The mu production is put into the satellite, and it is tens of thousands of catties, hundreds of thousands of catties, that is chaos, nonsense! That's not called courage, it's a false fire, that's the ancestor of failure. Knowledge is a realm, insight is a realm, and courage is a higher realm.