In this complex society, it seems that getting married and falling in love is becoming more and more difficult. Did you know that men and women think very differently about getting married?
First of all, when it comes to marriage, the bride price is a big issue. There are many different customs in different places, and the amount of money is also very different. But it's usually quite expensive. This makes many boys feel that the cost of marriage is too great, so some of them choose not to get married. However, for the woman, the amount of the bride price is not the most important, but the man's attitude is more important. It's like saying in Buddhism that everything is cause and effect, and the bride price is also part of cause and effect. If the man is not even willing to pay the bride price, then how can he expect him to be good to you after marriage? Therefore, the girls feel that the bride price is not the key, but the attitude is the most important thing.
Secondly, let's talk about falling in love. Boys usually like good looks and good figures, while girls value inner qualities and personality more. It reminds me of what scientists have discovered that our brains experience pleasure in beautiful things, and that quantum mechanics tells us that everything is a manifestation of energy and fluctuations, and that the outward and the inner are actually one. So, the next time you see a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, you might as well try to feel their inner beauty with your heart, and maybe there will be unexpected gains! So, boys have to keep their eyes peeled, don't just look at the appearance and miss out on the real good girl!
Finally, there is the issue of age. Nowadays, girls seem to like to find boys who are older than themselves. Why is that? It turns out that they feel that older boys are more mature and stable. But, you know what? In fact, age is not the only measure of a person's maturity. Some people are young, but they have extraordinary wisdom and maturity; And some people, although they are over half a hundred years old, are still willful and reckless like children. Therefore, let's not just look at age, but also learn more about their inner world, and look at each other's true nature and attitude.
In short, getting married and falling in love is really complicated. Only by working together can we find the most suitable person for each other!