Being poor is not terrible, because there are always people who can go from poor to rich. But poverty and laziness must be terrible. There is a saying that "hard work is not necessarily successful, and if you don't work hard, you will fail", I think it makes a lot of sense, lazy people give up hard people, doomed to failure.
In the past, the laziest people were beggars, probably because of the times, but now there are fewer and fewer beggars on the road, the country is relatively rich, there is a subsistence allowance policy, and many beggars go back to receive the subsistence allowance.
Now the laziest are the homeless, they don't work, sleep in the park, go to the trash can to rummage through the "treasure chest" when they are hungry, they feel that they have lost their dignity as a human being, and they do not dare to commit suicide, nor dare to struggle, although the workplace environment is very poor now, but there are still simple jobs, and they work hard for a period of time, so as not to sleep in the park.
There is also a group, the three and the great gods, the three and the great gods are a little better than the homeless, at least they have a few days of labor a month.
I don't know how the homeless man came to be, but I know that his parents must have no money, his siblings are also mixed up, and he himself can't experience happiness in the workplace, so he gave up on himself. Why don't they go back to their hometowns to receive the subsistence allowance? Are you afraid that the people in the village will laugh at them?
To be rewarded, laziness is not advisable, everyone wants to succeed, everyone wants to be better tomorrow, but only some people can do it, are they too lazy? It doesn't seem to be, the Chinese are famous for their diligence, and the eighth chapter of "Alien" devotes a chapter to why Chinese are better at mathematics than Americans, not because of talent, but because China has a hardworking cultural atmosphere, and they will spend more time on mathematics, so mathematics is better.
Everyone is serious, but why is the result different?
I think it may be that the effort is in the wrong direction, there is an idiom called the opposite direction, the more serious the effort in the wrong direction, the more terrible it is, for example, if you want to go to the North Pole, you keep going in the direction of the South Pole, you will get farther and farther away from the North Pole.
Many people are like this in English learning, they think that English learning is to memorize words, so they memorize every day, but the human body can not remember such boring words, imagine, you have not memorized Chinese words when learning Chinese, according to my own experience, it seems that no, Chinese words are learned in textbooks, in the textbook encounter words will not be checked, check more. Therefore, don't memorize words in English learning, learn words in reading, just like learning Chinese.
Therefore, memorizing words in English is the opposite of the opposite, and the more diligent you are, the more you fail, and the easier it is to extinguish your motivation to learn.
This example also proves that hard work is not necessarily successful, and many people do not succeed after 16 years of learning English because the effort is in the wrong direction.
When it comes to memorizing words, I have memorized them before, and I may have endured the boredom, I have memorized not only level 4 words, but also level 6 words, TOEFL words, etc. Is it helpful, one thing, at least many words have been seen a few times, if I don't find a good way to learn English in the future, these memorized words will soon be forgotten, and then I learned words on the original book, and found that this method is better.
Therefore, from the above analysis, people can be divided into these three categories.
The first category: people who do nothing, real laziness.
The second category: people who are trying in the wrong direction, a bit pitiful.
The third category: the right and diligent people, this is the direction we pursue.
According to my personal experience, it is sometimes difficult to distinguish between the second type and the third type of people, because some things can only know the right direction when they are doing, that is, they will find that their ideas are wrong when they do more, and then they can progress.
So the best way is to take action, no matter whether the direction is right or not, and try more to find a more correct path.