I like a sentence very much: love is never shallow, there is patience, there is giving, waiting, and more importantly, fulfillment.
Thick love is no longer selfish, it contains more mature emotions and dedication.
In relationships, many girls will always suffer from gains and losses, and it is difficult to be sure whether their boyfriends love them or not.
Some people will say that if a man loves you very much, he will spend money for you.
But this kind of behavior is too thin, no matter how generous he is to you when he is in love, he can still be very decisive when he is leaving.
In fact, what a man really looks like when he is "surrendered" by you is these two words: fear, and smart women understand.
01: I'm afraid you'll be disappointed in him
Every girl longs to be favored, and she also hopes to see hope and beauty in love.
The man who loves you especially may not be so romantic, but he will definitely be very attentive.
The way for a woman to completely submit to a man is not to make the other party spend a lot of money for herself, but to make him afraid.
He will worry that you will be disappointed in him, so he will try to keep up with you.
Long-term love must be mutually attracted, and a woman can put out the fire for a vigorous love moth, but if enough disappointment accumulates in her heart, she will leave categorically.
Therefore, a man who loves you so much that he doesn't want to lose you will be especially afraid that you will lose faith in him. There are some things that you may bring up unintentionally, but he will keep in mind.
Such small details will give you an infinite sense of security, and you don't need to guess your boyfriend's heart every day, let alone doubt your own charm.
02: I'm afraid of making you angry
When Sun Ting (pseudonym) gets along with her boyfriend, on the surface, she always doesn't seem to have much right to speak, and in the process of gathering with friends, Sun Ting will give her boyfriend enough face and rarely ask for too much emotional value.
But in fact, Sun Ting had already surrendered to her boyfriend's heart. She makes decisions about everything at home, and as long as she doesn't agree with it, her boyfriend won't do it.
And her boyfriend is always very cautious, afraid of making Sun Ting angry.
Once on Valentine's Day, a few days before the holiday, my boyfriend had already thought about what kind of surprise to prepare for the time.
But when he got busy, he forgot about it.
On the day of the festival, his boyfriend took care of all the work and immediately drove home, he was very scared at that time, and he was very worried about what Sun Ting would do if she got angry.
When I got home, my boyfriend prepared all the flowers and gifts, and he kept explaining that he hadn't forgotten such an important day.
Sun Ting saw that her boyfriend was so nervous, and her bad mood disappeared in an instant. They have been in a relationship for almost two years, and she rarely feels sad and angry.
Because her boyfriend cares about her emotions very much, she is especially afraid of making Sun Ting angry, as long as she looks at her, he will immediately become very well-behaved.
Sun Ting is a powerful woman, and when she saw her boyfriend behaving like this, she knew that the other party had been conquered by herself.
Therefore, in front of her friends, she no longer has to pretend to be strong, and deliberately shows that her boyfriend loves her very much.
03: Fear that you will fall in love with someone else
Men are extremely possessive, especially those who are full of machismo in their bones, they don't know what true love is, they only know control.
But the guy you love, if he is mature enough, will manage the relationship in the right way. Whether you can submit him or not depends on whether he will be jealous or not.
When you get too close to a man with excellent conditions, he begins to feel a little inferior and timid, which probably means that he loves you to the bone.
He is worried that you will be attracted to others and lose your love from now on.
Chen Nian (pseudonym) was originally a very confident boy, not only handsome, but also very capable.
However, after being with his girlfriend, he became very cautious.
His girlfriend has a lively personality, and there are many friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship around him, and Chen Nian has no so-called desire to control, and he has always respected his girlfriend's relationship status.
But every time he saw her getting too close to other boys, he would feel scared and worried.
He didn't dare to be jealous in front of his girlfriend, so he could only sulk in his heart, blaming himself for not being good enough.
Slowly, my girlfriend sensed the old emotions and felt the firm choice from her boyfriend.
When she gets along with the opposite sex, she knows how to keep her distance appropriately.
Rabindranath Tagore once said, "It is not the mountains in the distance that make people tired, but a grain of sand in a shoe." ”
The reason why love makes people feel confused and tired is never because the distance is too far, or the road ahead is too difficult, but because you don't care.
When a man is really "surrendered" by you, he is often afraid of these two words, because he loves too deeply, he will be cautious and will not want to lose.