I endured three days without contact, a week without contact, and a month without contact, and I survived. You may feel like it's torture for yourself, but believe that the process will make you stronger. When you can't help but want to connect with that special someone, remember this sentence: the person you want to meet, there is no feeling of wanting to see it.
Perhaps, you lie in bed at night, looking at the starlight on the ceiling, and a strong longing wells up in your heart. The thought came like a tidal wave, and you could barely breathe. However, please don't forget that this longing is the powerful force in your heart. It allows you to wait for the dawn even in the long nights.
Those busy hours during the day seem to make you forget the pain of missing for a while. However, when night falls, that longing will follow you again. At this point, you may be telling yourself: as long as you hold back and don't connect, time can dilute everything.
And so, day by day, you begin to get used to this life of longing. You learn to grow up in loneliness and learn how to face life without that person. Until one day, you suddenly realize that you haven't remembered that person for a long time.
It turns out that the person you want to see doesn't have the feeling of wanting to meet. This process is like a spiritual transformation. It makes you understand that true strength is not to overcome others, but to overcome yourself.
Please believe that everyone has what it takes to get through this difficult time. As long as you bravely face your heart and walk on firmly, you will find that you have become more mature and stronger with the passage of time.
So, if you're going through this kind of pain, trust me: endure three days without contact, a week without contact, and a month without contact, and you will survive. And at that time, you will find that the person you want to meet is no longer the whole of your life.