The New Type Four Theory of Personality holds that every person has four types that are combined in different proportions to form unique personality traits.
The diversity of personality traits is like a leaf, and each one has its own charm and cannot be replicated. However, we can still capture their commonalities by categorizing.
The road to parenting is long, and many times it is full of darkness and fog, making it difficult to see the direction. At this time, if there is a guiding light that exudes a gentle light in front of us, or a guiding sign with a clear direction, can it give us motivation and confidence immediately? At this time, it is clear that the darkness of the present will usher in light. The New Type Four personality theory has this magical power.
Next, let me lead you into the wonderful world of children's personality and explore several typical personality traits together.
Adventure Little Devil is online!
Imagine if your child is sometimes like a little devil, eager to try and full of adventure all day long? This kind of child, their adventurous personality is a big plus!
Of course, the other three types of personality, like siblings, still exist, but in this team, the adventurous type becomes the big brother, controls the sovereignty, and takes up most of the energy of life.
The formation of personality traits comes from genetics and nurture.
Parents of such children often have a strong adventurous personality, and the resulting seeds of life and nurturing atmosphere can naturally make the adventurous personality stand out.
However, this is not only the biological law of nature, but also the internal law of life.
The overgrown adventurous type, like a domineering little prince, unleashes himself on the stage of life, but he does not know that several other personalities have been exhausted by his whirlwind, and often retreats into the corner.
However, the splendor and splendor on the stage of life must be the harmonious dance of the four types of personality.
So dear parents, please follow me into the adventurous life stage, the thin ** on this stage, the strength and weakness of light and dark, learn a set of skills to adjust them to harmony, so that your child blooms with a unique fragrance and gorgeous color of the flower of life.
Adventurous child personality traits.
Personality longboard: 1. Strong curiosity and like to explore.
Like a spinning top at high speed, he is full of curiosity about everything around him, tirelessly exploring this colorful world. Every time he discovers a new point of interest, his eyes become hot, as if he is immersed in that new world.
He was born with his hands and feet idle, and yearned for freedom and unrestrainedness. The vast space, all kinds of novelties, and the charming mountains and rivers and fields are the best keys to play the music of his life.
2. Flexible mind and quick response.
This type of child has a flexible mind and quick thinking, as if he was born with a small motor, both physically and mentally able to respond quickly. As long as they are given enough free space and time to move, they will show amazing agility. This talent allows them to explore the world more efficiently, with more time and space to satisfy their inner curiosity and impulse for the unknown. Their speed of response not only ensures their own safety, but also gives them more opportunities to explore the infinite possibilities of life.
3. Strong innovation ability.
Such children are born with a strong ability to innovate. They don't stick to traditional ways of thinking and are always able to come up with new and unique ideas and solutions. They are curious about the unknown, have the courage to try and explore, and constantly challenge their limits.
4. Strong resistance to frustration.
This kind of child is very willing to try various challenges in the process of exploration, and even if they fail, they are not easily discouraged. On the contrary, more often than not, they will smile and pat the dust on their bodies, their eyes will sparkle with excitement, and they will say loudly, "It's exciting, it's so cool!" ”
5. Enthusiastic and unrestrained.
They are enthusiastic and energetic by nature, as if they have magical powers, and they can turn themselves into a beautiful landscape at any time, becoming the center of attention. "The most beautiful boy on this street", this lyric is an excellent description of this kind of character.
6. Don't hold grudges.
They seem to have an "emotional eraser", after the conflict, others are still angry, but he has already wiped away those unpleasantness. My own emotions are also running back and forth between the low tide and the high tide, and I rarely show those subtle emotional reactions.
Personality shortcomings: 1. Temper is easy to be exploded.
The engine of his anger can easily be pulled, and if he is violent, he is like an angry lion, roaring and kicking, and provoking his parents into a furious crown and a surge in blood pressure.
2. Interest is difficult to last.
He is often hot for three minutes, and his interest is like a small firework, which crosses the sky to release brilliance, and then disappears in an instant.
3. I hate repetitive and tedious things.
He has the least interest in repetitive tasks, like eating the exact same meal every day, and trying to run away when he sees it. His passion for trivial things is not sustainable, and his passion is quickly swallowed up by the grinding of small pieces.
4. I don't like to express emotions.
He loves a fast-paced life and prefers to devote his energy to the outside world, while emotions always try to pull him into the inner world to explore those deep and complex entanglements. For him, closing the door to emotions seems to be a relief, an easy way to shake off the burden and move forward.
5. I am so ambitious and like to be lazy.
He dreams of soaring into the sky, but he often neglects to plan and prepare, neglecting to control the ground beneath his feet in the process of touching the sea of stars. In his studies, he was dismissive of details, believing that only difficult questions could reflect the true character of "heroes", and often came up with "lazy" methods and "rancid" ideas in order to complete tasks quickly.
6. Hate rules and be prone to trouble.
They are like wild horses bent on freedom, yearning for the raw words of galloping on the grassland, if you want to put on the dragon's head, even if you try hard, you will be annoyed by his overt and covert confrontation. Because they often break the rules, intentionally or unintentionally, causing trouble has become a label attached to them.
Parenting strategies. 1. There is more time and space for exercise.
Try to meet their exercise needs. It is best to set up a small playground at home, and set up some small games or exercise facilities that can move their hands and feet, so that they can relax their bodies and minds at any time. Arrange some outdoor activities frequently to give their wild hearts a bigger place.
2. Help them develop the habit of meditation.
It's not that they can't meditate, but that their passionate hearts are accustomed to the rhythm of the beating and find it difficult to adapt to calm. Parents can try abdominal breathing, yoga, Baduanjin, etc., so that they can experience the inner breathing and various physical sensations, learn to find a balance between movement and stillness, so that they can not only soar in the sky, but also settle down in the nest to cultivate the mind.
3. Cultivate the ability to take responsibility for adverse consequences.
When your child's mind is full of sparks of different thinking, don't rush to blame them for being "lazy", because this may be the embodiment of their unique wisdom. When they want to solve problems in a smarter and more unique way, as parents, the first thing we need to do is to give them full affirmation and encouragement. Then accompany them to think, estimate and take responsibility together. Let them have the courage to take risks and the wisdom to take responsibility on the road of growth.
4. Cultivate the habit of in-depth exploration.
In the face of children's frequent abandonment and informality of details, parents should learn to use tolerance and guidance to ignite the spark of inner exploration. It is important to recognize that being involved in multiple fields from an early age will not only give them a richer understanding of the wider world, but also develop their courage and pioneering spirit.
Among the many hobbies, guide them to choose, and then encourage them to explore deeply and precipitate their thinking. In this way, they will be able to find an area they are truly passionate about and put their passion and effort into it.
5. More patience and love for nourishment.
These children are free by nature and challenge the rules, and their unique personalities often make their parents feel tricky. They don't hold grudges easily, but that doesn't mean a simple and crude approach to education will work. On the contrary, it may make them close the door to their emotions and their minds like being covered in winter snow and ice.
Only the sunshine of love can melt this ice and snow. Parents need to express their inner feelings more delicately, and convey warmth and care anytime and anywhere. Guide them to learn the expression and flow of emotions, and let the spring breeze of love gently touch the heartstrings of children. In this way, their lives can bloom with soft beauty in strength.
6. Establish authority and cultivate rules.
Adventurous children, they are born warriors to challenge authority, in the face of this challenge, parents need to be calm and wise, with gentle power, to guide their hearts of self-sufficient reverence for the rules.
On the fertile soil of family education, we must set a solid bottom line for our children, not with the emotional ups and downs of parents.
Work with your child to understand the boundaries of the rules so that they have a clear idea before they enforce them. This approach can not only prevent children from losing control of their emotions, but also bring harmony and tranquility to the family.
Parents, as their children's first mentors, should lead by example. In the eyes of children, we are their window to the world. Therefore, we should abide by the rules of society, respect authority, and set a good example for them. Of course, children are encouraged to offer their own opinions and suggestions about authority, but more importantly, teach them how to express their opinions while respecting who they are.
Raising an adventurous child is like an exciting adventure that is full of challenges, but it will also bring you endless laughter and surprises. So, dear parents, are you ready for this big adventure?