"The three of you are just standing here watching Satsuki go about his work? Why don't you know to help her? "Brother, no matter how we come back, we are also guests, you can't let us work!" ”
Hearing the three younger sisters confidently claim that they were guests, the man couldn't help but scold: "I think you won't come back next time!" "What the hell happened that day? Why would a man be angry with his own sister?
The incident happened in an ordinary family in Hunan, in order to welcome the arrival of the Spring Festival, Xiaoyue ran to the kitchen early in the morning to start preparing vegetables. There was no heating in the kitchen of her hometown in the countryside, and Satsuki's face was frozen red.
Even then she didn't complain, and in her opinion it was the happiest day of the year. She carefully washed the vegetables in the pot, while her two daughters helped peel the garlic.
The man walked into the kitchen and felt very warm when he saw this scene, and he was glad that he had married the virtuous and gentle Satsuki home. However, seeing Xiao Yue's red hands, he was still a little distressed.
Just as he was about to help Satsuki warm her hands, there was a burst of laughter outside. The man went out to take a look, only to find that his three younger sisters had returned.
They dressed themselves as urban beauties, and as soon as they got home, they stood in the living room and chatted. Seeing that they were so ignorant, the man asked, "Didn't you see that Satsuki was still there preparing meals?" ”
Obviously, the man wants his sisters to help Satsuki. They knew what the man wanted to do, but none of them wanted to help in the kitchen.
One of the younger sisters said, "Why do we have to work when we finally go home?" Do you treat your guests like this? ”
The attitude of the younger sisters made the man angry, and he made it clear that they were not welcome in the family. He thinks that even if his sisters get married, they are still part of the family, so they should help with the housework.
If they don't want to work, then they will go their separate ways in the future, so that Xiaoyue can be more relaxed. Hearing the man say this, the sisters still didn't take it to heart.
In their opinion, they are already members of their mother-in-law's family, and they should enjoy happiness when they return to their parents' house instead of helping their sister-in-law with other things. Even if the men are angry, they don't feel that they are at fault.
In response to this matter, the opinions of netizens are very unanimous. They think that the man has a point, why don't they have to work when they go back to their parents' house after they get married?Why should Xiaoyue be used as a free nanny when she gets married?
What's more, the winter in the countryside is very cold, and Xiaoyue and her two daughters are busy in the kitchen all morning and don't know what to freeze into. They would rather chat on the sidelines than help, who wouldn't be angry when they see it?
Like this, a sister who doesn't know how to empathize and don't know how to be considerate of others might as well cut off contact directly, saving them from being ugly every New Year.
Every New Year's holiday, everyone will always quarrel over the division of housework, especially between sister-in-law and sister-in-law. Most sisters-in-law think that cooking and washing dishes are the work of the sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law thinks that the sister-in-law should at least help herself.
In fact, the way to solve this problem is very simple, that is, to do a good job of division of labor in advance. If the sister-in-law is unwilling to help, then everyone will spend the Spring Festival separately, and there is no need to get together and make such an unpleasant scene.