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Wen Feiyu. There is a saying that never overestimate human nature.
Human nature is very realistic, but also difficult, people's hearts are changeable, don't overestimate your position in the hearts of others, let alone blindly for others, but also know how to be selfish for yourself, otherwise you will take care of others, and in turn let others be unscrupulous to you, even not grateful, and do ungrateful things to you, this is human nature.
1. Human nature is to praise you when you are in the limelight and ridicule you when you lose power.
In life, in fact, many people don't see you at all.
When you are beautiful, they also want to do some benefits on you, so as to praise you, be polite to you, and will cater to you, because you have money to give them, they think you are good, and everything you say is right.
Once you lose your status and power, they will start to ridicule you, and even some people will do things to you, they will not remember your people, and they will not be grateful for how much you have done for them before, but once their interests are gone, they will start to get along with you, this is human nature.
The reason why Dongbao in "Big River" fell down and suffered a stroke was caused by the villagers and subordinates.
The subordinates united to calculate him, and the villagers saw the wind and steered, and whoever gave the benefit to whom, Dongbao for the enterprise, the enterprise encountered difficulties, and tentatively issued labor insurance, so the villagers felt that there was no money to collect, and began to do things, and even went to block Dongbao's door.
However, the subordinates were not right-hearted, so in order to win over the villagers, they secretly sent the only little money to the villagers, so that the villagers felt that it was another person, and felt that Dongbao was a sinner.
After Toho found out, he was angry.
When Toho had a stroke, they joined forces to kick Toho out, which is the sinister nature of human nature.
Then Toho fell, and no one in the village came to see him, but stepped on his shoulders to make money.
They are a group of people who are not familiar with each other, they only care about interests, and they will not remember the good of others at all, this is the reality of people's hearts, as long as there are benefits, they will turn their faces with you if they are not good.
Second, human nature is the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.
The fall of Dongbao and even the accident occurred because he had been in his position for too long, had lost himself, and began to go his own way, and he couldn't listen to other people's advice to him, and always thought that he was right, so he lost his way and let himself lose the battle.
In fact, others can see it very clearly, that is, Dongbao has changed, and it is no longer the Dongbao of the past, not only has his temper become irritable, but he is also very floating, and he can't listen to what others say to him at all.
His best friend also once advised him, telling him to pay attention to a little change in the situation, even if he adjusted the direction, he didn't listen, just to follow the current way to make money, blindly invested, so he lost a lot.
In fact, many people in life are like this, once they stay in a position for a long time, they are inflated, they can't listen to what others say at all, and when they want to redeem themselves, they find that it is too late.
3. Human nature is that when you fail, some people come to care for you and comfort you, but they actually leave contentedly, because they are satisfied with your bad appearance.
There are always some people who don't see you well, and even want to take your place, and are already secretly plotting how to lose and make you fail.
And if you fail, it may have something to do with these people.
Lei Zhengming next to Dongbao in "Big River" is such a villain, he just wants to replace Dongbao's general manager position, so he always praises him, makes Dongbao inflated, makes him vain, makes him make mistakes, and secretly calculates him behind his back, deliberately sends out the ** of Dongbao's entertainment, so that the villagers see that it is a corrupt Dongbao, and then Lei Zhengming is a good person and pretends to care about you, but he actually sees that you have fallen, and he is secretly happy in his heart.
All kinds of human nature, that's it, it's very realistic.
Therefore, as a human being, we must also consider ourselves, not be too selfless, know how to leave a way out for ourselves, and live a sober life, which is the most important thing.
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