Feelings
As soon as Eleven came back, he was pulled by my brother and said a few words.
He took out his phone and asked mysteriously"Sister, do you think she meant by 'guess'? Do you want me to have a chance, or are you not going to turn me down? "
Looking at my brother's excited expression, my first reaction was, God, only children can get pleasure from this kind of speculation, and adults watched"Guess"In both words, I will feel very tired.
Over the years, I've realized that this kind of mutual guessing is a very tiring thing, so it's better to just say it.
I've been tortured to death by my ex who "won't say anything" before, and I still feel scared when I look back.
At that time, I kept wondering if the man really wanted me to attend his friend's party, or to not hurt me, or because he was upset, in short, none of these were for one person to answer. ”
It's not that he didn't want to ask in person, but he always beat around the bush and couldn't do it at every turn"Nothing"，"Forget it", even if it was a quarrel, he answered without a word, and it was not until the end that he said what was in his heart.
At first, she could be optimistic, but as time went by, the uneasiness in her heart became heavier and heavier, and she never knew if she had her in mind or not, so she had to guess to solve the problem.
However, speculation is like gambling, it is easy for people to misunderstand, and in the end, both people have their own hearts, both people are disappointed, and the hearts of two people are getting farther and farther away in such suspicions.
In fact, guessing is a very tiring thing, and sometimes, when you come home from work, you will find that even in front of your closest people, your brain will be tense, and emotional matters become more difficult than exams.
I have always believed that love should not be round after round of speculation, but a sincere heart and a sincere heart together, and it is impossible to last long without frank love.
Some people say that if you like someone, you will have sincerity.
My current boyfriend is such a person, he likes to play straight balls in everything, but when he plays straight balls, he will put his contradictions and feelings on the table.
The two of us often discuss the same topic for a long time, and even write a long paragraph on WeChat, trying to express our feelings so as not to cause misunderstanding among others.
I remember the first time we were together, one time he left out of the blue, and I came home and saw him tidying things up. At that time, I was angry and blamed him for why he didn't tell me.
He first confessed to me, saying that he was too busy to forget about it. However, he not only apologized, but also asked me, are you angry because I didn't tell you in advance?
I would tell him that I wouldn't control my feelings like a child, but if he didn't tell me beforehand, my plans would have gone up in the blue.
Our relationship has always been like this, say whatever you think, say whatever you want, try to figure out what the other person wants, rather than relying on speculation to restore the facts.
At that time, I realized that our relationship was no longer so consumed, I enjoyed peace and happiness every day, and sometimes, I even felt that this mature and direct love was really good.
In fact, in an intimate relationship, a strong and lasting bond can only be established in communication by talking about everything, talking about everything, and doing everything to the extreme.
This is not just an echo of a sentence, but also a kind of respect for you, trust in you, let you know my happiness, let you know my love.
used to watch Sun Rong talk about her marriage on the show, she said that even if she was biological, if she didn't say a word clearly, it would make people misunderstand, let alone someone she didn't know.
So, your emotions, your thoughts, your mood, your discomfort, tell him and let him know, only in this way can you resonate with him.
In fact, no one is born to be the other half of the soul, and it is only in each confession and confiding that we gradually touch each other's spiritual forms.
As I often say to my close friends, a healthy and comfortable relationship is something that only the one who opens up can say it.
In this world, there are a few people who live like a mystery, and a few people who have lost patience because of their own guesses.
Love itself does not cause suspicion and suspicion, but there are concerns, and if you don't confess, it will make love fragile, and a relationship that relies on clues and words to maintain is destined to be a consumable in life.
So, whether it's love or anger, don't hide it. People who want to live together, the most unbearable thing is estrangement, the more feelings and past things, the farther away the hearts of two people.
If possible, we'd better be open and honest.
Say whatever you want, say whatever you have, and turn the observation of other people's expressions into honesty.
Because two people are straight, when they fall in love, they won't beat around the bush.