Yishu's "Xi Bao" wrote:
If a person is in love with a woman, then he is willing to do anything. ”
However, if it is a man of bad character, no matter how much he pays, he will be let go.
A few days ago, an embarrassing news was like this.
This matter, which is also very simple to say, is because of a couple who had a quarrel in the car.
It was rush hour, and a Porsche was waiting for the traffic light.
Then, a man stepped out of the car, pulled open the door of the back seat, and roughly dragged a woman with a child out of it.
One of the woman's arms was pulled out by the man, and her arm was clutching the baby.
It wasn't until he slammed him to the ground that she couldn't suppress the anger in her heart anymore, and as soon as she let the child go, she ran into the car and quarreled with the man.
And the little boy who was in his arms was standing on the busy street, crying.
Seeing this, the kind-hearted Boss Zhu hurriedly got out of the car, picked up his son, and then walked towards Porsche.
After understanding, it turned out that a Porsche couple had a quarrel in the car, and the husband was angry and made some radical moves, so this ** appeared.
Netizens couldn't bear it anymore and began to comment: "What did my child do wrong? When adults quarrel, children are in danger! ”
The "Porsche" couple then posted a Weibo, saying that they had a good relationship with his wife and would not leave their children behind.
But what makes people worry is that if they don't agree with each other, they will put their wives to death, and they don't even care about their children, what kind of husband and father is this kind of person?
Sheng Minglan's philosophical lines in "Do You Know":
Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart. ”
Some people, no matter how good-looking they are, can't get married.
Irritability,
Feelings are such things that are difficult to change, and sometimes they can even affect the direction of a relationship.
In marriage, affection is both a catalyst for two people to stick together, and a catalyst for restraining mutual dislike.
It is dangerous to be with a short-tempered man.
In the latest episode of "Love Defense", a male guest was violently violent.
On weekdays, whenever something doesn't go his way, he likes to smash things, and when he quarrels with others, he will run out and yell.
Female guest: "....
Sometimes, when I don't know what I said wrong, he'll smash things inexplicably and scare me. ”
This is the question on everyone's mind.
Why don't you go? ”
Female guest: "....
When she wanted to break up with him, the man suddenly knelt in front of her and begged her for mercy.
Under everyone's strange gaze and fingering, the female guest was so embarrassed that she had to agree first.
He also thought that after this time, this man would be honest and know what he had done wrong.
Who knows, on the contrary, he is becoming more and more sensitive, more and more suspicious, and more and more extreme.
He would follow her, then resign, and wait for her in her office.
Even, she didn't dare to break up with this man in reality, so she asked the crew for help.
This female guest is not stupid, and reacted immediately:
If he continues to be so impulsive, maybe something worse will happen, and when the time comes, the matter will be irreparable.
There are many misfortunes in life, which are the result of letting go of one's feelings.
A person who has violent tendencies and is emotionally unstable is unable to control himself.
In everyday life, he may tell you how much he loves you and how good he is to you.
But when you are in a bad mood, he will be rude to you and even cause irreversible results.
Whether it's love or marriage, don't waste time and feelings on unworthy people, but know how to stop losses in time.
Duplicity, the heart has a point.
Since ancient times, a woman's greatest wish has been to marry someone.
It's a pity that since ancient times, it has been amorous, and today it is amorous.
Both people like to present themselves as affectionate and righteous people, but in fact they are doing extremely irresponsible things.
Some people are lucky enough to find someone who can be entrusted with their lives, and some people are unlucky enough to meet this kind of person.
A friend said that her boyfriend, over a period of time, had relationships with multiple girls.
He has a doctorate degree and is a teacher from a prestigious school.
In the past, she fell in love with this man at first sight, because of his delicate face, although the family conditions were not very good, but in the end he was "stalked" and chased by him.
But after a long time, she realized that she was designed.
It turned out that her boyfriend kept saying that her mother had a good impression of her and promised to get married, but because the family conditions were not very good, he wanted her to bring the "million dowry".
When dating, all the expenses of her relationship with her boyfriend, including eating, shopping, and buying gifts, were all paid by her and never bought by her boyfriend.
Moreover, she also knew that his boyfriend's private life was very chaotic, and he had an ambiguous relationship with several girls, even his girls, and even when he was studying in Europe and the United States, he was educated in various dirty thoughts.
She was in pain, because she knew that it was not easy to fall in love with a man, but what Su Tao did made her unacceptable, so she decided to end the relationship.
A person's character, knowledge, wealth, and status are not necessarily the same thing.
In a relationship, it is not terrible to have no love, what is terrible is the web woven by people with hypocrisy and intrigue.
Encountering people who are not like them is a kind of fatalistic teasing, and the question is whether we can decisively withdraw and face it bravely.
No matter how uncomfortable you are, you have to choose the most authentic and simple life, even if it is just a simple meal, it is better than being tortured by falsehood and pain.
There is no mouth to cover, and there is no respect for the eyes.
Some people believe that as long as they don't make a shot at a woman, it is already the greatest respect.
In the name of love, they became a cage of love.
They will control a woman's clothes, her every word and deed, her life, her feelings and life.
However, all these actions are just to satisfy yourself.
A Zhihu netizen asked:
Do you feel that your boyfriend is disrespectful to me, so he wants to break up with me? ”
According to her description, her boyfriend would talk to her in any situation, such as in a crowded movie theater, where he would yell at her and ask her if she wanted to wear pajamas**.
And, when she said no, he was still in the elevator, forcibly hugged her, and did something to her in the car.
If she doesn't agree, his face will turn ugly.
That's what you did when you were with me, why should you be so pure. ”
The girls are very alarmed about this, worrying if other people's boyfriends are doing the same.
As soon as this news came out, the comment was instant**:
Hurry up! To put it bluntly, it just treats you as a bargain, a woman who can get it at any time, what are you waiting for?! ”
Little girl, what are you waiting for? Even if he has a mine at home, he has to run away! This is disrespectful to you! ”
Fortunately, everyone has an eye.
Rabindranath Tagore once said:
You give him face, he gives him face, everyone is fair. ”
It's just that some men never know what respect is.
The American psychologist Edward Hall divided people's distance into three categories: "intimate", "private", "social" and "public".
These four spatial distances are used to measure a person's interpersonal relationships.
If you are able to keep a person within 45 centimeters, then this distance is your family, your friends, your lover, your husband, your wife.
However, no matter how intimate it is, it should be in a suitable confined space, not in public.
If you don't have enough concentration, it's easy to be controlled by such a man, thinking that he really loves her.
But if you really want to, then don't stand in a dangerous place, no matter how passionate your love is, if you don't like it or feel uncomfortable, you have to stand up bravely.
Don't let those guys misunderstand that their frivolous actions are just to get permission to "may" or "agree".
Emotional teacher Tu Lei once said:
If you don't get the respect you deserve, then you're getting what you want, not what you want. ”
Women can't be attached to men, people who really love you will know how to love, trust, and give you freedom.
Don't underestimate some guys with "poor character", because there is no word "bottom line" in their life dictionary.
Many girls don't ask for their partners, they just want good character.
However, the definitions between "good" and "bad" are very different.
People who have no qualifications will have to work hard with their own hands in the future.
If a person does not have enough strength, then his demands become his bargaining chips, not his interests.
A moody person, it's better to stay away from him.
A man of bad character cannot be married.
If you don't have the same views and don't respect you, it's best to stay away from him, he won't be with you.
In the years to come, I hope we can meet a suitable person and walk through this period of life together.