Some people say that love is a breeze and a bright moon, and it should not be contaminated with copper odor.
However, in this chaotic world, who can truly be spotless? If a woman always bows her head and brows, and is reluctant to accept this generosity, wouldn't she live up to the beauty of the good day and the deep affection? Of course, spending men's money does not mean greed and dependence. In the picture of marriage, this should be more of a kind of emotional blending and sharing. A woman uses a man's money to buy a new dress for herself, or buys some warm little things for the family, these are the flow of love and the poetry of life. If you always stick to the gains and losses of money, marriage will lose its due agility and charm. Woman, when you are reluctant to spend a man's money, have you ever thought that maybe it is a way for him to want you to be happy and to share life with you? In these long years, may every couple understand the balance between money and emotion. In the name of love, moderate consumption and giving, so that the flower of marriage, nourished by money, blooms more brilliantly. If you want your marriage to be better, don't be reluctant to spend a man's money. 
1. Willingness to spend money is an expression of love and being lovedIf a man loves you, he will always want to earn money for you to spend, just to see your happy smile. It's really not just about money, it's more about having you in his heart and wanting to be good to you. If you keep refusing, he will start to think, "Am I doing something wrong?" Or, "Does she not need me?" So, sometimes when you generously accept a small gift or treat from him, you are also telling him that you feel his love. Think about it, if he happily gives you a bouquet of flowers, or a dress that you have loved for a long time, or invites the two of you to enjoy a delicious meal, and your eyes are squinted into crescent moons, he must be happy in his heart. This kind of happiness is contagious, and if you are happy, he will be happier. This is the little happiness in marriage, simple but heartwarming. So, don't be reluctant to spend a man's money, sometimes acceptance is also an expression of love! The money in marriage should not be so clearly divided. Accepting it calmly is the respect for loving and being loved. 
2. Don't treat yourself too badly and wronged yourselfIn marriage, women always think that they have to pay a little more in order to maintain their marriage. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but I am so busy taking care of this and that that I forget to take care of myself. As a result, the body is exhausted, and she may be disgusted by her husband as a "yellow-faced woman". So, don't be reluctant to be kind to yourself. Going to the beauty salon for maintenance, buying a few new clothes to get dressed up, or taking a few friends out on a trip are all great ways to make yourself feel good. When you are happy, the family atmosphere will naturally improve. Properly satisfying one's material and spiritual needs is not only a reward for oneself, but also an important means of maintaining the freshness and personal charm of marriage. 
3. If you don't spend, someone will spend it for youTo be honest, this may be a bit harsh, but it's a common problem in our lives. In marriage, if the wife is always frugal and reluctant to spend her husband's money, the husband may mistakenly think: "Does she not need me much?" Over time, not only will he not be grateful to you, but he will take such expenses for granted. He may reduce the amount of money he gives to his family, and may even spend it elsewhere, such as on other women. Of course, this is not to say that women should spend lavishly or rely solely on men to support them. The point is to have a balance in marriage and spend money in moderation. Women can be independent and have their own finances, but they don't have to spend men's money at all. Use a man's money wisely, neither completely dependent on him, nor excessively save. In this way, the marriage can be more stable and long-lasting. The art of marriage must be managed with heart. Money is not everything, but it does measure many things in marriage. Women, don't be reluctant to spend men's money, and don't spend men's money indiscriminately. If you master this degree, marriage will be like a stream that flows steadily to the other side of happiness.