Nan HuaijinThere is a phrase mentioned in many books:The world is as difficult as eating.
Because".Rich as a dragon, swimming all over the world. Poor as a tiger, the nine tribes and six relatives were scattered. ”
When you're rich, you can go wherever you want. When I was poor, all my relatives and friends avoided me, afraid that they were here to borrow money.
It's really not that easy to eat, and sometimes it's really hard to beat a hero.
Busy and busy, for a few taels of silver to make ends meet.
After the Lantern Festival, 2024 will start to be busy again, and I hope everyone can earn enough money for food in their busyness.
Xiao Yawen in "The Way of Heaven" went to work in **Ying's company, which was completely a coincidence, just like each of us when looking for a job, which company to work in was to a certain extent because of the "fate" matchmaker.
Xiao Yawen worked diligently in the company, and when she knew that the wisdom and ability of her boss **ying were not comparable to ordinary people, she did not bother to stutter; After Ying declared the company bankrupt, she found a place to stay for Ying and then found a new job; **After Yingxin's company reached an impasse, she came out and recommended herself ......
Xiao Yawen didn't deliberately create any fate, she also knew that fate was not something she could create, but when the fate of the opportunity came, she would follow the guidance of fate and try her best to give full play to her value.
We ordinary people are the sameNo matter what the reason, do your part in the post, do your due obligations in the family, don't look at a mountain high, do a good job in the present, and you will naturally show your excellent self.
Confucius said that "you are sleepy and learn", which means that you will not be able to learn.
Teacher Huashan said, why are many people sleepy and don't study? It's not that he can't learn, but he doesn't want to learn, he doesn't want to learn, and he doesn't want to learn, which is a foolish person who doesn't hesitate to fate.
For example, Yang Guang, Emperor Yang of the Sui Dynasty, he has a high IQ and good eloquence, but he just doesn't listen to the minister's advice, he can use his high IQ and good eloquence to say that the minister's advice is useless, so that the minister has to shut up.
There are many similar people in work and life, not only can they speak well, but any suggestions and opinions of others can be refuted by them.
I know that he is wrong, but he can't say it.
People who do not hesitate to fate can only follow their own cause and effect, and can only wait for them to wake up by themselves.
Prussian strategist Clausewitz:
"Criticism, no matter how absurd, at least gives us a perspective from which others can see things. ”
Cherish fate, not only grasp the people, things, and things that you recognize, but also think about it when facing criticism, questioning, and difficulties
What can I learn from TA? What can be done to get better? ”
Such an event is recorded in the wild history.
When Zeng Guofan was a petty official in the court, he was an idle member of the attached army, and the Manchu and Han regimes were dominant at that time, and it was not easy for the Han people to go up.
Zeng Guofan befriended a prince who was the uncle and elder of the then emperor Xianfeng.
The prince recommended Zeng Guofan to the emperor, saying that he was bold and careful.
One day, Xianfeng sent an order to see Zeng Guofan in the side hall.
After Zeng Guofan entered the side hall, he only saw a dragon chair on the top position, and a brocade pier below.
After Zeng Guofan knelt three times and bowed nine times to the dragon chair, he sat on the brocade pier and waited.
After waiting for about an hour, the eunuch on duty came over and told him that the emperor had something to do today, so let's go back first.
Zeng Guofan knelt three times and bowed nine times to the dragon chair and went back.
After returning, the prince asked Zeng Guofan about the summons and said, "Yes", and then found the eunuch on duty and handed him a red envelope, asking the eunuch what else was in the side hall.
The eunuch said that there was a note posted on the wall behind the dragon chair that read "Zhu Zizhi's Maxims".
A few days later, Xianfeng summoned Zeng Guofan again, and when asked about Zhu Zizhi's motto, Zeng Guofan calmly responded, leaving a good impression of Xianfeng as "bold and careful".
Dare to look behind the dragon chair proves that he is bold, and he can observe everything around him carefully.
Without the help of Zeng Guofan's "climbing" prince, he would not have had the opportunity to quickly let the emperor know himself.
AbsolutelyThe premise of climbing is that you have the value of being recognized, otherwise blindly "climbing high branches" can only be looked down upon.
Climbing, not only allows us to make relationships that can help each other, but mainly allows us to put aside the entanglement of bad people and bad things, and don't put time and energy on useless chatter and ridicule.
I hope you meet fate, cherish fate, use good fate, value is seen, and never worry about food money.
I am Hongling, pay attention to me, we learn, change and grow together.
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