In December 2015, a report in Hengshui that "the husband and wife are obliged to support the lonely and widowed elderly and accompany the elderly to the end of their lives" attracted a lot of people's attention after it was broadcast locally, probably saying that an old man named Jiao Fengyun had no children in his life, and his adopted daughter also broke off the adoption relationship with her after growing upThis couple who did good deeds was sued
What's going on? Who sued Wang Jianmin and his wife? What is the purpose?
The person who sued Wang Jianmin and his wife is called Li Xinru, she is the adopted daughter who broke off the adoption relationship with Jiao Fengyun in the report, and she said that she did not want to sever the mother-daughter relationship with her mother Jiao Fengyun, but Jiao Fengyun wanted to sever the mother-daughter relationship with herShe felt that Wang Jianmin and his wife had distorted the facts and caused damage to their reputation, and in addition, she felt that Wang Jianmin and his wife had obtained Jiao Fengyun's property through coaxing
Many people may wonder, why does the old man Jiao Fengyun live with the neighbor Wang Jianmin and his wife, even though he has a daughter? This is because Li Xinru has a very stubborn temper, and the old man Jiao Fengyun is also very stubborn, after the two have a conflict, the old man is unwilling to continue living with Li Xinru
What's going on here? It turned out that Jiao Fengyun and her husband had not had children for many years after marriage, so they adopted Li Xinru, a girl who was only three years old at the time, very early, after the death of his wife, Jiao Fengyun and Li Xinru depended on each other, but in 08 years, 87-year-old Jiao Fengyun suddenly proposed to dissolve the 40-year adoption relationship with his adopted daughter Li Xinru, and sued Li Xinru.
At that time, the judge took into account that the old man was older, and if the adoption relationship was dissolved, it would be a problem to provide for the elderly in the future, so in order to alleviate the relationship between the two people, he personally took Li Xinru and asked her to buy some things and visit the old man together, the old lady said that since she suffered from cataracts, her daughter ignored her, and asked her to take herself to the hospital in 07, she actually excused herself that she was not available, Li Xinru felt very aggrieved about this, she said that after her mother suffered from cataracts, she took her to surgery, which is not the case at all.
The mother and daughter say completely opposite things, who should they believe? The judge visited again, Jiao Fengyun's cousin understood the situation, but he said that Jiao Fengyun was old and his brain was a little confused, but the judge felt that although the old lady was old, her mind was still very clear, in order to understand the root cause of the mother and daughter, after digging deeply, she finally found out that Jiao Fengyun and Li Xinru had a deeper relationship, and the two were not just mother and daughterLi Xinru is also Jiao Fengyun's niece, Li Xinru's biological father, and Jiao Fengyun's younger brother
Li Xinru said that the biological parents would call their father and mother, and their adoptive parents would call their father and mother, but Jiao Fengyun did not agree that Li Xinru should have contact with his biological parents again, especially when the elderly on both sides were olderLi Xinru's relationship with her biological mother has become closer, which makes Jiao Fengyun very angry, Li Xinru said that her adoptive mother didn't let her manage her biological parents, this behavior made her very disgusted, she said that although Jiao Fengyun raised her, her biological mother had the grace of giving birth to her, and it was impossible not to repay her and let her break off the relationship, which was impossible.
Usually Li Xinru has a stubborn temper, which makes the old man unhappy, and this time the relationship between the two parties broke down completely, so he decided to dissolve the adoption relationship with Li Xinru.
The old man Jiao Fengyun dissolved the relationship with Li Xinru here, but he still did not give up, and wanted to find another person to take care of his old age, and finally looked around, and she took a fancy to another distant relative of hers, Su BaoxinHowever, Su Baoxin and Li Xinru had a good relationship, and he was not greedy for Jiao Fengyun's property, let alone involved in the conflict between the mother and daughter, so he refused the old man's request
After being rejected by Su Baoxin, Wang Jianmin and his wife, who were in the same village as Jiao Fengyun, were very sympathetic to the old lady's experience, and began to take care of the old man's diet and daily life, Wang Jianmin recalled that the old lady said to herself, so many relatives and friends she only believed in herself, which made Wang Jianmin and his wife very moved, they took Jiao Fengyun to their home to take care of her, and let her successfully complete the last six years of her life, in order to take care of the old lady, Wang Jianmin said that he also quit his job.
However, after the matter of Wang Jianmin and his wife was reported, Li Xinru was completely angered, so she filed a complaintsued Wang Jianmin and his wife, and demanded that Wang Jianmin and his wife spit out and embezzle the old lady's property, and publicly apologize to themselves, but soon lost the first instance, Li Xinru was not convinced, and soon carried out a second lawsuit.
Li Xinru was aggrieved and said that the reason why he did not visit his mother was that Wang Jianmin and his wife deliberately prevented him from visiting, I had no choice but to call my mother and chat with her, Wang Jianmin said that it was because the old lady didn't want to see her, and when she heard Li Xinru's voice, she said that she was not allowed to open the door, but Li Xinru lay on the window and scolded.
Li Xinru also said that Wang Jianmin and his wife did not take good care of the old lady and lacked medical treatment, but Wang Jianmin and his wife denied it, and Jiao Xiulian said that the old lady would prepare for her whatever she needed, and then took out a massager and said that the old lady later had three bone spurs, and he helped her massage every day.
Li Xinru also said that after Jiao Fengyun fell and was paralyzed, Wang Jianmin and his wife ignored her, she said that Wang Jianmin and his wife locked the old lady in the house, which made who can rest assured, Wang Jianmin said that in order to take care of Jiao Fengyun, they have done their best, so many years for her to serve and urine, and they are more worried about the old lady than their own mother.
A neighbor said that the old lady was paralyzed and constipated behind the bed, and that time she happened to visit the door, and after Jiao Xiulian used the drug and it didn't work, she actually helped the old lady with her own children, and the judge visited through a large number of investigations, found that the old lady has been living a very good life with Wang Jianmin and his wife for six or seven years, and said that ordinary children can do this at most
Li Xinru said that Wang Jianmin and his wife took care of the elderly for money, and asked them to return more than 150,000 yuan of pension and heating expenses from the old lady from 09 to 15 years, and the judge also asked Wang Jianmin why he said that he was obliged to support the elderly since he had money to take care of the old lady.
In this regard, Wang Jianmin said that it was because his wife took care of the old lady and did not have any department to pay them salaries, so it was a compulsory support, and as for the old lady's pension and other expenses, they also refused to return it, saying that this was the old lady's pension, which was spent on the old lady, and then directly provided the old lady's medical expenses and a list of living expensesAfter checking it, I found that most of the old lady's pension was indeed spent on it
Li Xinru saw that there was no hope for a pension, so he began to ask for the old lady's funeral expenses, Jiao Fengyun was a regular employee of the vegetable company before his death, and enjoyed 40,000 yuan of funeral expenses after his death, Wang Jianmin said that the old lady said before her death who raised her during her lifetime, and who would give her the property after her death.
Li Xinru said that Wang Jianmin violated the old man's last words, because the old lady said many times before her death that she should not be cremated after death, but the old lady died on the first day and was cremated the next day, and she only learned the news the next afternoon, she immediately bought a coffin and a shroud, and spent more than 15,000 yuan for the old lady's reburial.
However, the funeral expenses are paid to the immediate family members of the deceased, and since Li Xinru has dissolved the adoption relationship with the old lady, she no longer belongs to the relatives, and as for Wang Jianmin and his wife, although they signed a bequest and maintenance agreement with the old lady, they do not belong to the relatives.
Li Xinru saw that this was not working, and proposed to let Wang Jianmin and his wife return a house in the family courtyard of the vegetable company, she said that this house was worth 150,000 yuan, but Wang Jianmin and his wife coaxed it away from the old lady, what is going on with this house?
Li Xinru said that this house was in 1992, the vegetable company engaged in raising funds to build a house, and those with long working years can give priority to buying a house, Jiao Fengyun and Li Xinru are both employees of this company, Jiao Fengyun has worked for more than 30 years, and Li Xinru has just worked for a long time, and this house is placed under Jiao Fengyun's nameLi Xinru said that as a daughter, she took more than 3,000 yuan, but it is strange that when the adoption agreement was terminated, Li Xinru did not mention itIt was only after the old lady died that she remembered to get the property back.
But what she didn't expect happened, after Jiao Fengyun came to Wang Jianmin's house, it didn't take long for him to propose that Wang Jianmin sell the house, Wang Jianmin said that he listened to the old lady's words at that time, and posted a small advertisement outside, and then someone really contacted him and bargained for 80,000 yuan I sold this house, and now I can't help it, so I sold it early, and then I showed the contract for buying the house, and the judge found that the contract was real and valid, and it was traded when the old lady was alive.
In fact, the matter was already very clear at this time, but the judge considered that she would directly reject Li Xinru's request, and estimated that she would be dissatisfied and continue to appeal, and the contradiction with Wang Jianmin and his wife had not been fundamentally resolvedactually felt that he was at a loss according to Li Xinru's idea, and raised the old lady until she was 87 years old, but in the end, she didn't end up with anything, but became infamous
In order to truly resolve the contradiction between the two parties, the judge decided to mediate one-on-one between the two parties, in response to Li Xinru's request for Wang Jianmin and his wife to return the pension and the house, the judge decided to calculate an account for her, first of all, the nanny fee for serving the elderly, according to the nanny ** 2300 per month provided by Li Xinru, plus the old lady's living expenses and medical expenses, 1000 per monthA total of 80 months of maintenance was spent, and a total of more than 260,000 yuan was spent
Later, he counted the money that Wang Jianmin and his wife received during the period of supporting their old wives, more than 150,000 yuan in pension and heating expenses, plus 80,000 yuan for selling the houseThere is a total of 230,000 yuan, and this income cannot offset the expenses, the judge advised her, someone will support the elderly for you, and in the end the old man died, and you still ask for money back, do you think this is appropriate
No matter what the judge said, Li Xinru just couldn't listen to it, she said that even if she and the old man dissolved the adoption relationship, there was still a family relationship, if it wasn't for Wang Jianmin taking the old lady away privately, maybe their relationship would have eased long ago, especially after the initial report was broadcastHer reputation stinks in the neighborhood, and she feels she deserves to be compensatedHowever, the judge still keenly felt that although Li Xinru wanted to compete for real estate, the more important thing was to restore his reputation.
So the judge did ideological work for Wang Jianmin on the other side, and Wang Jianmin was very resolute, saying that he would not apologize to Li Xinru, let alone give Li Xinru a penny.
In response to Li Xinru's situation, the judge invited the staff of the local women's federation, and after communication, Li Xinru was very moved, saying that he really didn't fight this lawsuit for money, even if he got the money in the end, he should not donate a penny, and Li Xinru's progress was quite smooth.
But Wang Jianmin's side is a little specialAfter all, I have served the old lady for more than six years and wants to promote this positive energy through this caseBut in the mediation process, no matter what the mediator said, Wang Jianmin just refused to make a concession on money, and finally insisted that the court would admit it no matter how the court sentenced him, but he just refused to give in.
The judge was also very big for a while, but as the investigation continued, the case finally became clear, it turned out that Li Xinru and Wang Jianmin both went to the vegetable company where Jiao Fengyun was before his death to ask for Jiao Fengyun's funeral expenses of 40,000 yuan, but because the final judgment was not issued, the vegetable company rejected the request of the two parties, and Wang Jianmin had to agree to the vegetable company if he wanted to get the compensation.
After the judge learned the news, he asked the vegetable company to cooperate, and finally resolved the conflictLi Xinru no longer advocated returning Jiao Fengyun's real estate, pension and funeral expenses, and Wang Jianmin and his wife returned Li Xinru 5,000 yuan for the funeral expenses of the elderly, finally brought this matter to a successful end.
In fact, Wang Jianmin and his wife have done a really good job in taking care of the elderly, and they all say that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and many people are difficult to fulfill their filial piety even to their biological parents, but Wang Jianmin and Jiao Xiulian and his wife, for more than 6 years, can take care of the elderly as always, this kindness is indeed commendable, you know, it is not easy to get others on the matter of caring for the elderly, and a sentence of "biological children are just like this" is the highest praise for Wang Jianmin and his wife, and it is precisely for this reason, The judge went to great lengths to get a happy ending to the matter.
As for Li Xinru, she still has less patience with the elderly, it is said that Jiao Fengyun has raised her for more than 40 years, and her feelings are deeper than those of Wang Jianmin and his wife, but in the end, Mrs. Jiao would rather not have this daughter, but also live with strangers, and Li Xinru should also reflect on what she has done.
The old lady dissolved the adoption relationship with her, but did she repay the kindness of more than forty years of nurturing? If the adoption relationship is dissolved, can't you visit the old lady? The reason why the judge agreed to dissolve the adoption relationship at the beginning was that he didn't want the conflict to intensify, so he would temporarily alleviate it, if Li Xinru was really filial to the old lady, he would not wait until she was buried to learn the news.
What do you think of Wang Jianmin's approach? Do you think Li Xinru's approach is correct?
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