Life is like a river, flowing slowly from the source of the mountain, and the journey of finding one's own direction begins.
It crosses canyons and fills ravines;
It bypasses obstacles and moves on.
In the continuous exploration, the river gradually clarified the direction and precipitated wisdom in the accumulation.
As a river, it sometimes goes astray, thinking that it is a smooth sail, but unexpectedly encounters barriers;
I thought it was a broad road, but there were hidden obstacles.
Rivers know how to take turns, and life needs to learn to be flexible.
We should be vigilant to avoid making those seven fatal mistakes.
01. Endless comparisons
Why get bogged down in endless comparisons?
We are incomparable, and each of us has a unique background, upbringing, and even a unique outlook on life.
With so many differences, what's the point of comparison?
What others have, you may not have acquired;
And what you have, others may also be envious.
Learn to cherish the life in front of you, live the best version of yourself, and you are the winner of life!
02. Meaningless remorse
When faced with important decisions, our decisions are based on the knowledge and understanding of the time.
We may have made the wrong choice, but the real responsibility is not all ours.
We should not blame our past selves from the perspective of the present, which is unfair to ourselves.
Learning to learn from past experiences and dedicate ourselves to the present life is what we should strive to do.
03. Endless complaints
In life, you may find a phenomenon:
The more you complain, the worse your luck seems;
The more you complain, the more troubles accumulate.
Complaining, the mentality is more and more broken.
Complaining, in fact, is a hint of self-denial, which constantly reminds you that "I am bad", but it is not the real you.
Sometimes, we just get stuck in a dead end of thinking, exaggerating frustrations and difficulties.
When you feel that the road ahead is difficult, complain less, and you will find that your path will become smoother.
04. I don't feel worthy
Never doubt your own worth.
Do you think you don't deserve a friend or lover around you?
No, you totally deserve it.
Don't always belittle yourself and think how inadequate you are.
If someone appreciates you, it's because you have traits in you that they like, even qualities that are admirable.
Tell yourself that you are worthy, move forward with positive energy, and you will be even better!
05. Self-esteem is very high
On the road of life, we should neither indulge in self-pity and lack of self-confidence, nor should we become too conceited and arrogant.
Even if you are already very good, there are still countless areas of the world that you have not been exposed to.
Excessive hubris can stunt your growth and prevent you from seeing the strengths of others, which can lead to stagnation and even become a laughing stock for others.
06. Fear of starting over
How should we respond when faced with a career crisis?
What choice should we make when the current job no longer provides development prospects?
Some people choose to live in a state of confusion, living in fear of losing their jobs and unwilling to make changes.
Years later, they still have to face the reality of re-employment.
Life is full of uncertainties, and the end of every dream is also the beginning of a new dream.
We should be brave enough to face the possibility of starting over and embrace every new beginning in life.
07. Believe in stability
In this ever-changing world, we need to move away from simplistic thinking.
There are always all kinds of things happening around us, and all kinds of big and small changes.
Only by constantly honing oneself and cultivating an open-minded, tenacious and optimistic mindset can we bravely face these changes.
It is not others who can provide us with a stable life, but our own strength and bravery.
When you feel lost, vulnerable, annoyed, or aggrieved
Review the above seven taboos
Think about whether you've fallen into one of these traps.
Hopefully, we can deeply understand each one
Cultivate optimistic living habits
Cultivate life with good habits
Shape yourself with a positive attitude.
May you be a source of warmth for those around you
Have fun and be happy in your own world!
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