In interpersonal interactions, we all want to build a stronger, stronger bond with our acquaintances, but there are behaviors that can gradually break that bond with irreparable consequences.
Maintaining a relationship requires great care. Even if you know each other, there are some taboos to be aware of in the process of getting to know each other.
A glass of boiling water doesn't suddenly get cold, and relationships don't suddenly become estranged. Often, acquaintances who were once very close become estranged by violating these taboos.
01: Don't be superficial.
When you have been with an acquaintance for a long time, you will often start to feel that the other person is already your confidant, and in the process of dating, you will gradually open up to him, and you will often be able to talk about some personal topics. Topic.
But everyone's ability to recognize emotions is different, and so are the boundaries between us and our friends.
Even if you are in the same relationship, some people may feel that you are already close friends, while others may feel that you are just acquaintances.
Some people believe that good friends should be able to share private and confidential things, while others believe that even good friends should not get too involved in each other's personal lives.
So, don't rush into overly personal issues without clear boundaries.
We need to know how to keep a certain distance and avoid revealing our innermost thoughts to others so bluntly.
Because acquaintances may not be able to understand our hearts, nor can they bear our worries and troubles. Superficial or deep conversations can be annoying or annoying to the other person and can get in the way of the two of you getting along well.
02: Remember to be polite.
When you get along well with acquaintances, a sense of trust and a friendly relationship can make you let your guard down and neglect politeness.
If you become too close or interfere in other people's lives, you will quickly become bored and disgusted. You may be able to live with it once or twice, but if this happens again and again, even the best relationships will start to fade away.
Even close friends should know how to keep a reasonable distance, give each other some privacy, and respect each other.
Try not to interfere too much with the other person's decisions or methods, and don't care too much about the other person's privacy. Crossing this line can make your acquaintances feel suffocated and restricted, and ultimately worsen your relationship.
03: Don't give away your privacy.
Privacy is very important to everyone. It is about the dignity and respect of the individual. As acquaintances, you must absolutely respect each other's privacy and never disclose it to others.
People share their privacy with us out of trust in us. When we unnecessarily spread other people's privacy, we not only make them feel embarrassed and hurt, but we also make them feel disappointed and angry. It also means betraying the trust of others.
Without mutual trust and respect, our relationship becomes fragile and unsustainable.
When you lose trust between friends, you lose more than just one friend, you lose the sense of alienation of society as a whole.
Once trust is broken, it is difficult to rebuild. No one wants to deal with someone who betrays their friend's privacy. It's hard to make real friends later.
It is very important in interpersonal relationships to correctly recognize the taboos that should not be violated between acquaintances. Having the right code of conduct is the only way to build healthy, strong friendships.
When getting along with acquaintances, you need to keep a reasonable distance and avoid communication. Remember to respect and consider the personal space and rights of others. You will also learn to protect the privacy of others instead of spreading it.
Only then will you be able to maintain a good relationship with your acquaintances. With more friends around, the road will naturally become wider.