Beasts of prey always walk alone, and cattle and sheep are in herds.
The strong are lonely, because the strong are a minority after all, and others can't reach his realm and height, so naturally they can't understand him and get close to him.
The real strong will always rely on themselves and do not ask for others.
No matter how powerful someone else is, it has nothing to do with you, you go to him for help, and you may be abandoned at any time. Only when you are strong is the king, you will not give up on yourself, and you are the most reliable.
1.The strong do not complain
Helen Keller was deaf and blind, but she became a famous writer, and "If You Give Me Three Days of Light" illuminated the path of life for countless confused people.
Beethoven lost his hearing, but that did not stop him from becoming a great composer, with classics such as "To Alice", "Ode to Joy", "Moonlight" and "Symphony of Destiny" still in circulation.
Van Gogh suffered from mental illness**, but he continued to create and became a pioneer of post-impressionist painters.
Fate played a joke on these unfortunate people, making it impossible for them to live like normal people. However, they have never complained about the unfairness of fate, but relied on their strong will and courage to break the shackles and shackles of fate, constantly break through themselves, and finally succeed.
The strong never complain about the heavens, but calmly accept the reality and face the challenges of fate with a smile.
2.The strong do not complain
Many people have a bad life, not from themselves to find the reason, but to blame others.
However, the real strong will not blame others for being strong, but for being weak.
When Guo Degang was just emerging in the cross talk world, many peers did not recognize him, and even set up various obstacles to defeat him.
Even the master closest to him has left him, Guo Degang is like an orphan, bullied everywhere.
However, Guo Degang did not give up, always adhered to his beliefs, and with his enthusiasm for cross talk, he finally broke through the encirclement and broke out of his own world.
Instead of complaining about others, make yourself strong. You have to rely on your own strength to scare the bad guys away, and it's useless to complain on the sidelines.
The strong do not complain about others, they also complain about themselves, this is the warrior of life.
3.The strong seek to meet the needs of the insideWang Anshi taught the world in "The Theory of Etiquette and Music": "The saint seeks from within, and the world seeks from outside." Those who seek inside are happy with their nature, and those who seek outside are happy with their desires. ”
Inner seekers, follow their hearts, live for themselves, strive to be what they want to be, and keep practicing to eventually make themselves strong.
In this world, only you are the most reliable. Lean against the mountain, and the mountain will fall; By water, water will flow; Rely on people, people will run.
In all external things, there is uncertainty, nothing is eternal, nothing is truly reliable.
In this world, no one has the responsibility and obligation to be loyal to you, especially if you have no use value, and there will be no one to guard you and help you sincerely.
When encountering any problem, you should first think of internal search in order to solve the problem from the root.
Write at the end
People encounter various challenges every day, and if you don't make yourself strong, sooner or later you will be defeated by difficulties.
If you want to be strong, don't rely on others. Learn to seek internally, and you have to always.
Inner seeking is the most reliable way to practice.