Sister, penniless, transfer some money to me for dinner"Brother-in-law: Your sister has no home, you can take her away
After dinner, Li Ming sat leisurely on the sofa with headphones and immersed himself in the game world, while his wife Zhao Li lay comfortably on his lap, concentrating on ** TV variety shows, and laughing happily from time to time.
Suddenly, a mobile phone ringtone broke the silence, the voice was Zhao Li's, she couldn't help but glance at Li Ming when she picked up the **, and then walked into the bedroom alone to answer.
After a few hours, Li Ming calmly picked up Zhao Li's mobile phone to check, and found a transfer a few hours ago in the WeChat record, which was actually 3,000 yuan transferred to her brother-in-law.
Li Ming was dissatisfied with Zhao Li's secret behavior and expressed his opinion without hesitation: "Husbands and wives should be honest with each other, what is the point of hiding secrets from each other?" You hide it from me, I deceive you, what is the value of such a marriage? ”
Zhao Li tried to argue: "I'm just afraid that you will think too much." ”
Li Ming smiled: "The move just now makes any couple who has just been married for three months have some concerns. Would you be happy if I took the ** behind your back and transferred money to my family? ”
I'm just afraid you won't agree, and I'm using my own salary. Zhao Li argued.
Li Ming felt tired: "When you think that I will not agree, you realize that such behavior is inappropriate." If you have such thoughts, why continue this deception? How long will it take to help your brother? ”
Zhao Li was silent for a while and did not speak.
Li Ming continued: "Although you are using your own money, we are now married and live together. We are a family, and it is understandable that we have the ability to help, but if we don't have the ability, we have to take care of ourselves first. ”
Zhao Li turned around and went back to the bedroom, Li Ming didn't know if what he had just said was listened to by her. He was worried about whether there would be a gap between the two because of this, and even more worried about whether his brother-in-law would ask for money again under various strange excuses in the future.
Li Ming once witnessed Zhao Li calling her brother-in-law many times, either asking for money to buy things, or recharging phone bills, game point cards, etc. At that time, he felt that his brother-in-law was young and his living expenses were not enough, so his sister should help.
However, gradually he learned that his brother-in-law was three years younger than Zhao Li and was a junior student. Li Ming began to be dissatisfied with his brother-in-law's behavior, feeling that he could earn pocket money through part-time work, instead of blindly reaching out to his sister to ask for money. Although he didn't say it before, after getting married, he had to remind Zhao Li that his opinion of his brother-in-law had changed.
Fortunately, Zhao Li listened to Li Ming's advice. When the brother-in-law asked Zhao Li to borrow money again, Zhao Li directly turned on the hands-free, allowing Li Ming to hear the whole conversation.
Sister, my computer is broken, can you lend me 10,000 yuan? I want to buy a new computer, and I can't write after graduation without a new computer, I'm really in a hurry. ”
Li Ming decisively refused, and reminded his brother-in-law that now that he has worked and has the ability to earn his own money, he should solve the problem independently. My brother-in-law decided to buy a car after working for a few months, but he didn't discuss it with anyone and paid the deposit directly at the 4S store.
At the time of payment, the brother-in-law called Zhao Li again: Sister, I have decided to buy a car, and there is still a difference of 30,000 yuan, can you lend me a little? I'll pay you back when I have the money. ”
Zhao Li hesitated, because 30,000 yuan was not a small amount.
Li Ming resolutely refused: "Just graduated and wanted to buy a car? Will he earn enough to pay off his car loan? The hole of the down payment is filled by borrowing money, so what about the future living expenses and car loans? ”
Zhao Li was swayed by Li Ming's words, and the next day her mother called her ** and borrowed money from her on behalf of her brother-in-law: "Your brother decided to buy a car by himself, and after we knew about it, we discussed it and felt that it was better to pay it at once." Your dad and I can help with some of the money, and there is still a gap of 50,000 yuan, so I want to ask you to borrow a little, and I will pay it back to you. ”
The original 30,000 yuan rose to 50,000, and Li Ming didn't want to borrow it anymore. But his mother-in-law had already spoken, and he was embarrassed to refuse again.
Zhao Li saw Li Ming's reluctance and persuaded him: "If you don't lend money to my brother, you won't be able to buy a car." Moreover, if you return it, the deposit will be wasted. My parents have no choice but to borrow from you. ”
Li Ming felt speechless, feeling that only a parent with a spare tire could cultivate such a brother-in-law, in the final analysis, it was a matter of tutoring.
More than a year has passed, and when his parents-in-law paid off the arrears, Li Ming did not shirk. Because my brother-in-law is about to get married, most of this money has to go back to my parents-in-law's house.
When the brother-in-law went to buy a wedding dress, according to Zhao Li's custom, the sister had to buy a groom dress for the younger brother.
The brother-in-law walked straight into the man's closet and picked it out without saying a word, before informing his sister and asking her to pay for it.
When Li Ming went to check out, he couldn't help but laugh when he looked at the receipt. The wedding was set for the 11th National Day, and the brother-in-law bought a tweed coat in addition to buying a suit. Do you change dresses like a bride at a wedding? Besides, don't you feel hot wearing a coat this season?
For his brother-in-law's wedding, Li Ming spent more than 30,000 yuan.
She once thought that her brother-in-law would become more mature and stable after getting married, and she would be more restrained in her sister's behavior of asking for money, but she didn't expect reality to slap her face again.
Zhao Li, who received her younger brother ** late at night, knew that something was wrong. Sure enough, the brother-in-law got into trouble again, drunk driving, and needed to pay a security deposit and a fine.
Sister, can you transfer 10,000 yuan to me? Otherwise, the consequences are serious. The brother-in-law's voice was nervous and anxious.
Zhao Li looked at Li Ming, Li Ming shook his head, and his attitude of refusal was obvious.
Don't you have any money on you? Where did all your wages go? Zhao Li asked helplessly.
The brother-in-law explained: "I gave it all to my wife, and now she is so angry that she doesn't give me money at all, so she can only come to you." ”
Zhao Li sighed: "I'll figure it out." ”
After hanging up **, Li Ming questioned his wife: "Can you come up with any way?" My brother and daughter-in-law are dissatisfied with him in every way, do you want to help him join in the fun? If you continue like this, there will be a major accident in the future, and your current behavior is simply aiding and abusing. ”
Zhao Li insisted: "This time I will help him again, and I will educate him well." ”
Li Ming tried every possible means to persuade her, but she still disagreed. The family's big money is currently in her hands, and Zhao Li has no choice but to give up her plan to help her younger brother.
thought that the matter had been resolved, but when Li Ming learned that it was Zhao Li who borrowed a friend's money to help her brother-in-law, she was so angry that she was almost **. In the end, he had to pay off the debt out of his own pocket.
The two had a heated quarrel because of this, Li Ming accused Zhao Li of eating inside and out, while Zhao Li thought that Li Ming lacked human touch. For a few days, both men were locked in a cold war.
Now, Li Ming feels at a loss. Except for the problem of her brother-in-law, her relationship with Zhao Li has always been good. However, the brother-in-law asked them for money from time to time, making a mess of their lives. What's more critical is that every time she communicates with Zhao Li, she keeps promising to deal with it well, but once it involves her younger brother, the previous promise is immediately left behind.
Li Ming has a headache for the future, and he doesn't know when such days will end.
The last straw on the camel's back is not how heavy it is, but the seemingly insignificant little things in daily life. These little things may be insignificant, but they are enough to make people completely break down and cry bitterly in the midst of daily trivialities.
At night, when Zhao Li was taking a bath, Li Ming heard her mobile phone WeChat ringing. While the screen was still locked, she sneaked a glance and found that it was a message from her brother-in-law.
Sister, I don't have money to eat, please transfer some money ......”
Li Ming didn't open the message, and silently observed Zhao Li who was playing with her mobile phone after taking a shower.
Holding her mobile phone, Zhao Li walked straight to the bedroom, and Li Ming's heart sank. It seems to be repeated again and again, and the old quarrels seem to be fruitless.
After Zhao Li fell asleep at night, Li Ming checked her mobile phone. It was found that the WeChat record with the brother-in-law was deleted, and in the WeChat change details, it showed a sum of 2,000 yuan transferred to the brother-in-law.
Li Ming smiled wryly, realizing that although his relationship with Zhao Li seemed close, she had always put her original family first in her heart. This kind of life is not what he expected, and if it continues, it will bring more troubles in the future.
After thinking calmly, Li Ming typed and typed on the keyboard and sent a message to his brother-in-law: "Your sister has nowhere to go, please pick her up tomorrow." ”
Li Ming filed for divorce from Zhao Li, and the two quickly completed the divorce procedures. The house was purchased by Li Ming before marriage, and Zhao Li had to move out.
My brother-in-law always looks for my sister when he is in trouble, and my sister always tries her best to help. But now, my sister has nowhere to put it, so I can only see how my brother-in-law solves it. I believe that Zhao Li will wake up soon, friends, if you meet such a wife, what do you think should be done? February** Dynamic Incentive Program