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On the second day of the Lunar New Year, I went to the cinema alone to watch "Hot and Hot".
I saw Jia Ling lose 100 pounds on the Internet, and the comparison before and after is really amazing. I can't help but sigh, she is really cruel to herself. It takes a lot of faith to do that.
A few things that come to mind after watching the movie:
1 Be sharp in your goodness
I still remember that there is a book called "Your Kindness, You Must Be a Little Sharp", and I think this is very suitable for the role of Du Leying in the movie.
If kindness is not sharp, it will be taken for granted in the eyes of others.
Kindness, chose to give the house to his sister.
Kindness, go to record a show for your cousin.
Kindness, in order for her boyfriend to win once, paid 5,000 yuan to a competing boxer.
After watching the movie, the two most obvious pictures in my brain are Du Leying's chat with her father during dinner after practicing boxing and losing weight.
She asked, she has two apples, the big one for her friend or the small one? The father replied, of course it was big.
Later, her father asked her, what would you give? She said, "I'll give both."
In the past, she was the kind of person who could stick a knife in both sides for her friends, and she was a person who sincerely and sincerely gave for the people around her. But in the adult world, it's not that your sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.
More often than not, your sincerity is exchanged for your own injury.
Her father asked her, "What about now?" She said, "Now, it depends on the mood." ”
She came over. Be kind and sharp.
2 Learn to love yourself.
Learning to love myself is something I've been learning about myself, and even now, I still haven't learned it.
Along the way, the deep inferiority complex hidden in our hearts makes us give in to many things, even if you feel wronged, even if you feel unfair. But the inferiority complex in my heart is always saying, you can't do it, you don't deserve it, you don't deserve it.
So a lot of times, in front of many things, we are not so brave. There was a deep despair, and then regrouped, ushered in an awakening, and the energy that erupted from oneself was unimaginable.
I remember my previous coaching mentor after watching the movie, he wrote: "Hot and Hot - Experience: moving, shocking, clear, powerful. At the trough of life, desperate, and desperate, he reversed his life, lost 100 pounds, created miracles, and bloomed his life.
There is a strength in me that I will be more determined to persist when I am in pain, stress, hesitation, and want to compromise. It proves that everyone has infinite power to create the impossible of life.
Every greatness is reborn in suffering, and what must be done in a life of only one time is to completely conquer the greed, laziness, selfishness, and obsession in the heart, overcome it, and take back the miraculous power of life.
Jia Ling has become one of the few people who has experienced a thorough and deep battle with their own hearts and won."
I like the last sentence he mentions, "Take back the magical power of life".
In life, we often set limits for ourselves, saying that it is impossible and impossible, but life has a very magical power. When we really do something with all our might, life will give you the answer.
3. In this life, it is not necessary to win every time, but it is a victory.
In the conversation between Jia Ling and Zhang Yang, Zhang Yang asked: "What moved you about this story and this script at that time, and what was your original intention for filming it?" ”
Jia Ling said: "I like the ending of it very much. It is not necessarily a win every time in this life, but the whole process, as long as you have a clear conscience, as long as you do your best, I think you have already won."
People, we only live once in this life, our lives are very precious, we are all groping forward, I hope we can love ourselves. Everything in life is the little things that are inconspicuous. In life, we will definitely meet people from different channels, and you will never be able to agree with them.
I think that in this life, you may not be able to win every time, the normal state of our life is to lose, but it is in this process, as long as you have a clear conscience, as long as you have done your best, I think you will win".
"In the days to come, I want to love myself more, and I really hope that all of you will learn to love yourself well and cherish your life, because we are all worth it. We live so hard, so hard, we have to pay more attention to ourselves and feel ourselves.
What we are looking for in our lives is the lifestyle we like and the person we want to be. So, even if you take a few more detours, it's okay to spend a lot of time on the road, and it doesn't matter if it's different from what others expect, as long as you're on the road to becoming yourself. ”
This is what Jia Ling said in the interview, and it touched me very much. Many times, it is easy for us to label ourselves as "standard" and "should", and we often compare ourselves with others, but our biggest enemy is ourselves, and it is ourselves who need to be defeated the most.
I believe that Jia Ling's words will also bring strength to many people, not for others, but for the self who has always wanted to be in his heart.
4 Deliver yourself from the depths of distress one at a time.
Life is sometimes fragile, sometimes strong. The miracles of life are sometimes unbelievable, but they are so real in front of us.
Making the impossible possible, I know that this process requires strong perseverance, perseverance, and faith, and every step is not easy.
Jia Ling also mentioned that "the whole process is actually unhappy." The process of change is actually very painful, but maybe when we cross that hurdle, we will see a different version of ourselves.
Life is really hard sometimes, and that's the biggest feeling I've felt in the past year. Everyone has times of despair, and the one who can save is ourselves.
Therefore, may we all not give up, may we have the power of life, and save ourselves from the dire situation one at a time. At the end of the road, there must be a gift. Come on.
5 Touching images.
On the screen, there are pictures of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and you can see the changes in each picture. Just a few minutes, but behind it is a year's dedication. At that moment, the role coincided with Jia Ling in reality.
The line "don't end" has been said several times, which is to be uncompromising to yourself again and again, and to really win for yourself once.
and when discussing the two apples with her father, she said "Now, it depends on the mood" The mirror comparison when she appeared, Du Leying gave herself a thumbs up, and then looked up and smiled, that moment, I was very moved.
The smile that finally put on the dress and looked back, she said, "The sea breeze can't blow big waves, and the hairstylist quietly straightened it for me, hey", this humorous tone is a proper Jia Ling.
Whether it is Du Leying in the movie or Jia Ling in life, they all bring inspiration and strength. Learning to love ourselves is something we need to learn, and I hope we can all regain the energy of life.
Love yourself and truly live for yourself once.
6 Write at the end.
Thank you for the movie "Hot and Hot", and thank you Jia Ling for letting us see the energy of life. This is the first movie to watch on the New Year.
She said that she listened to the song "Send You a Little Red Flower" almost five or six thousand times, and when she couldn't hold on, when she felt very tired.
And this song has also become a single loop after watching the movie.
I'll give you a little red flower to cover your new scars today.
I wish you all the best to truly discover and find yourself and become yourself.
Good morning, good afternoon, good night.