Mr. Jin Yong's pen is never short of love. And one of the most controversial is Duan Zhengchun, Duan Yu's adoptive father in "Dragon Babu".
He is merry by nature, always seeing one and loving the other, and has caused many romantic debts.
One of Duan Zhengchun's lovers is Mu Wanqing's **, Shura Dao Qin Hongmian.
Qin Hongmian Mu Wanqing stills.
She gave herself a name called -"Glenker".
The three words "Yougu Ke" are from Du Fu's famous poem about women - "Beauty":
There is a beautiful woman in the generation, living in the hollow valley.
The whole poem is as follows: There is a beautiful woman in the peerless generation, living in the empty valley.
Since the Yunliang family, scattered by the grass and trees.
Guanzhong was in turmoil, and his brothers were killed.
No matter how high the official is, he must not accept the flesh and bones.
The evil of the world declines, and everything turns with the candle.
The husband is light and thin, and the newcomer is as beautiful as jade.
When the dusk is still known, the mandarin duck does not sleep alone.
But when I saw the new man laughing, I heard the old man crying.
The water in the mountain spring is clear, and the water in the mountain spring is turbid.
The maid sells the pearls and repairs the thatched hut.
Defloration does not insert hair, and the cypress picking is moving.
The weather is cold and the green sleeves are thin, and the sunset leans on the bamboo.
Qin Hongmian and the woman in Du Fu's "Beauty" actually have one thing in common, that is:
have been ruthlessly abandoned by the man they love.
However, in the same face of abandonment, the two have very different attitudes and ways of dealing with them.
As a result, their different fates and endings have been created.
Qin Hongmian Duan Zhengchun stills.
Qin Hongmian is infatuated with Duan Zhengchun, but Duan Zhengchun believes that he is the king of the south of Dali Town, and he already has a wife, so he can't stay with her.
This is equivalent to what contemporary people call "only flirting and not being responsible", which is actually another form of abandonment.
Qin Hongmian was furious, and took their daughter Mu Wanqing to live in seclusion in the empty valley, calling herself "Yougu Ke".
But her heart is not calm, and her love for Duan Zhengchun gradually turns into resentment and hatred for being abandoned.
She hated all the men in the world from then on.
She asked Mu Wanqing to wear a veil and swore a heavy oath: the first man to see her face either marry her or kill her with a knife.
She trains her daughter wholeheartedly and wants to kill all her rivals. However, when it came time to actually do it, she relented and gave up.
She gritted her teeth like this, trapped by hatred for half her life.
In the end, it was still for Duan Zhengchun to die.
Qin Hongmian stills.
She was so pitiful and pathetic.
put his whole life on the love and dislove of a man. Once abandoned, it is as if you have lost all your dependence in life, and you will eventually destroy yourself.
It's scary. "You think the worst thing in life is to lose the person you love the most, but the worst thing is that you lose yourself because you love someone too much. ”
On the contrary, Du Fu created such an image of a Gone with the Wind for us in "Beauty":
Also facing the fate of being abandoned by her husband, she lives in a secluded valley, with plants and trees as neighbors.
Although life is difficult and simple, her heart is like a clear spring, she does not indulge in hatred, does not succumb to fate, is poor and lowly, and keeps herself high.
Liang Qichao once commented on Du Fu"Love Saint".
This "affection" is the love for the country, the love for the poor people, and the love and cherishment for the family and wife.
Du Fu can be said to be one of the few poets who is a good man from the beginning.
and his wife Yang, no matter good times or bad, they always get along with each other and never give up.
Others, such as Li Bai, Bai Juyi, and Yuan Zhen, are all great poets, but emotionally, they are really not affectionate.
Therefore, only Du Fu said these two sentences-But when I saw the new man laughing, I heard the old man crying. , the most convincing and the most moving.
In the form of a woman's confession, Du Fu told such a story:
A woman from a high-ranking mansion was born at the wrong time and caught up with the turmoil.
The elder brother of the family used to be in a high position, but now he died tragically in the chaos.
Seeing the decline of her mother's family, her husband cruelly abandoned her and turned to the beautiful newcomer Eun Eun**.
Grief-stricken, she couldn't help but cry out like this: But when she saw the new person laughing, she heard the old person crying.
My husband's eyes only have the delicate smile of the newlywed, and I can still hear my sad cry?
Homeless, she has since lived in a deserted valley with her only maid.
He lived in a simple and quiet hut and made a living by selling old pearls.
The turmoil of the times and the abandonment of her husband certainly made her heartache, made her lonely, and made her cry.
But she knew that she still had herself.
She still has a heart as clean as a clear spring, and has never been driven by lust and resentment, and has lost herself; She also has a tenacious and upright will, like a green cypress, like a green bamboo, and is not afraid of wind and rain.
Defloration does not insert hair, and the cypress picking is moving. The weather is cold and the green sleeves are thin, and the sunset leans on the bamboo. ”
At the end of the poem, Du Fu described such a scene with emotional pen and ink:
At sunset, the woman was leaning on the bamboo, and the cold wind was blowing her thin clothes.
She stood alone like that, with loneliness and sorrow in her eyes, but still so clear, still so clean.
I once heard such a passage:
"A woman's inspirational story is not a career that she regained after being abandoned, makeup and beauty, and fitness. It was as if the injury this man had brought to her, like a breeze blowing through the vast sea, there were no stormy waves, only a few ripples on the surface of the water. ”
Thinking of Li Mochou in "The Condor Heroes", she is also an innocent and ignorant girl with a pure nature.
But for the sake of Lu Zhanyuan, who likes the new and hates the old, he betrayed his teacher, killed people like hemp, and finally turned into hatred because of love, and went crazy for half his life.
How unworthy!
Sydney version of Li Mochou stills.
Yishu said: "Everyone's ultimate destination is themselves. ”
Please never pin your happiness on the love or dislove of a man.
Please never love someone too much, love so much that you have no self-esteem, love so much that you lose yourself.
Always keep in mind:
"It's better to love yourself than to wait for someone else to love you. ”