32-year-old Ms. Li, a self-proclaimed "mother-to-child single" girl, has gone on more than 100 blind dates in the past six years, but still has not been able to fall in love. Her story has attracted widespread attention on social **, making people think deeply about the concept of marriage and love in modern cities.
Ms. Li said that she has been an introvert since she was a child and is not good at communicating with others. As she grew older, her social circle became smaller and smaller, and it was difficult to reach the right person of the opposite sex. Therefore, blind dates have become her main way to find her other half. However, despite her many blind dates, she has never been able to find the person who makes her heart move.
Many netizens expressed understanding and sympathy for Ms. Li's situation. They believe that in modern society, many people face similar dilemmas. On the one hand, social circle constraints and work pressures make it difficult for people to have time to meet new peopleOn the other hand, the expectations and requirements for love also make people more picky when choosing a partner. Together, these factors have led to the prevalence of the phenomenon of "mother-to-child singleness".
However, there are also those who hold a different view. They believe that the reason why Ms. Li has never been able to fall in love may be related to her own personality and attitude. Perhaps, she was too restrained or lacked self-confidence during the blind date, resulting in the inability to establish in-depth communication and contact with the other party. Therefore, in addition to the influence of the external environment, the individual's mentality and attitude are also important factors in determining whether or not you can successfully fall in love.
In any case, Ms. Lee's story provides us with an opportunity to reflect. In modern society, how should we view the concept of marriage and love?Should we stick to our expectations and requirements, or should we be more open and inclusive?At the same time, we should also pay attention to those who are looking for love and give them more understanding and support. After all, love is the eternal theme of human beings, and everyone should have the right to pursue their own happiness.