Li Ming and Wang Fang are classmates in college, and they accompany each other every day, with deep affection. After graduating, they decided to weave their dreams for the future together and entered the palace of marriage. In the beginning, their life was like honey, sweet and warm. However, as the hourglass of time continues to pass, the trivialities of life gradually smooths out their passion. Li Ming's work is getting busier and busier, and he often works hard in the office in the dead of night; In this loneliness and indifference, Wang Fang gradually bred worry and dissatisfaction.
The lack of communication has created a chasm between them, and what was once a small argument has now become an insurmountable barrier. The rift sprouted and spread silently until their love was completely torn apart. Although they tried to mend the broken relationship for the sake of their children, they were never able to regain the intimacy and harmony they once had. Wang Fang is sure that she doesn't love her husband anymore, but she doesn't know whether she should stay for the sake of her children, or divorce for herself?
If the relationship between husband and wife has become like a broken mirror, first of all, we need to dig deep into the reasons behind it. Is it because the bridge of communication between them is broken, or is it because of their personalities like the North and South Poles, or because their values are contrary, or is it because a third party is involved? If the problem is communication, then more communication and communication will be the way to break the ice; If the problem is deeply rooted in personality or values, seeking professional psychological or marriage counselling will help them understand each other more deeply and find solutions.
When faced with the decision of whether or not to divorce, couples must carefully consider the feelings and future of their children. If divorce will sow bitter consequences for the child's growth, then both parties should do their best to maintain the harmony and stability of the family. If through communication and hard work, both husband and wife can mend the emotional rift, this is undoubtedly the best choice. If a divorce is ultimately decided, both parties should minimize harm to the children. They need to negotiate to clarify the custody and visitation rights of the child, and strive to maintain the peace of mind and the health of the child's mind. At the same time, you should avoid arguing or showing violence in front of your child, so as not to deepen your child's psychological trauma.
If the relationship between husband and wife is as difficult to reunite as a broken mirror, but they choose to continue to entangle because of their children, this is undoubtedly a battle of trapped beasts. For the sake of the immature flowers, many families have chosen to swallow their anger, hoping to build a warm world for them under their incomplete wings. However, behind this non-divorce, both husband and wife should reflect deeply and find a way to break the ice.
First of all, both husband and wife should understand that children are the future and hope of the family, and their happiness and health are the soul of the family. Therefore, when deciding not to divorce, both parties should let go of the entanglement and put themselves in the child's shoes. In order for them to grow up in a stable and harmonious environment, both spouses need to do their best to maintain the home.
Secondly, both husband and wife should be honest with each other and face the ups and downs of life together. It is only through in-depth dialogue and communication that an opportunity to repair the relationship can be found. In the process, learn from some effective communication skills, such as listening, expressing and compromising, to bring each other's hearts and minds closer together.
Finally, couples should learn to be tolerant and understanding. The rift in the relationship cannot be repaired overnight, and it requires the joint efforts and mutual support of both parties. In this process, you may wish to use external forces, such as family counseling, psychological counseling, etc., to provide more support and help for the repair of feelings.
In short, for the sake of the child, both husband and wife should work together and seriously think about ways to solve the problem. Only in this way can the family regain its former warmth and harmony.